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How to Build A Strong Relationship with Your Lover

Build A Strong Relationship with Your Lover

By Love and Life BlogsPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
How to Build A Strong Relationship with Your Lover
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If you want to build a romantic and strong relationship, you first need to know the meaning of a relationship.

A relationship means a connection, association, or involvement between persons by blood or marriage, an emotional or other connection between people, or the relationship between teachers and students.

So, we can say relationship means a particular type of connection exists between people related to or having dealings with each other.

In this article, we are talking about a romantic connection that can build between a man and a woman. We can call this connection to a romantic relationship. Now I'm sharing some ideas on how to build a strong relationship.

Guides to Build A Strong Relationship.

In the first emotion of new love, it seems that good feelings, excitement, and passion will last forever. But, the wear and tear of everyday life and the problems of couples can put romance on the back burner and cause loss of the spark.

Couples need to maintain intimacy, interest, and unity in the long term, but sometimes it is not so easy to connect with our partner to strengthen that intimate relationship and that it lasts over time.

Like most couples, you and your partner may need to lower your expectations of romance and glamour and increase your level of communication, gratitude, and fun together.

That's how the first months are, then everything collapses" is one of the most common and used phrases when talking about a couple. But is this true?

How do you build stable and healthy couples for so long? In addition to the intensity of affection received from the partner, other points must be taken into account in a relationship, such as communication, handling disagreements, trust, resolving conflicts, the common good, and working as a team.

Nowadays, it seems that light relationships predominate. However, many people want to form a lasting relationship, but how can a solid relationship be achieved?

A relationship is built from desire and from decision. It must have "good foundations" for a structure to be solid.

Many people dream of finding the love of their life and imagine a movie set in which they will live happily. People indeed meet and fall in love, but for a couple to grow up healthily, both sides must make a decision.

If you want to embark on the adventure of love with someone, you have to be prepared to put these tips into practice and get your relationship on a "good foundation".

Face a project of two: Do you want to be empathetic, supportive, tolerant? Then it is likely that your wishes to have a life partner can be reflected in reality.

Accept the other: This means welcoming the multiple dimensions that each being has, whether you like them or not. We are all lights and shadows.

Of course, people can evolve, but we all have a history, a personality, dreams, and fears, and we have to work so that all these characteristics are coupled in the relationship.

1. Wanting To Share: Many men and women want to be with someone, but they are unwilling to change habits, spaces, or times. There are couples with greater freedom than others, but building a relationship requires the willingness to share with the other.

2. Respect The Other Person: Although it seems repetitive, respect is a fundamental requirement in any relationship; many people communicate negatively based on criticism and sarcasm. There are no good foundations if there is no respect, whatever the order of life.

3. Appreciate The Good That The Other Person Can Offer: We all want to be recognized and well valued. The psychologist John Gottman calls "masters of relationships". Those people who have that mental habit for which they look for things to appreciate, to be able to say "thank you."

At the other extreme are those who focus only on the mistakes and shortcomings of their partner.

4. Be Able To Flow With Changes: Most couples are born from the passion that falling in love awakens. The "butterflies in the stomach" last a while, and you have to have the emotional intelligence to turn those feelings into projects.

5. Be Open To Dialogue: A mature person receptive to exchanging points of view tends to function well in their family, work, friendship, and partner environments.

On the contrary, people of heightened susceptibility, always on the defensive and who believe they are the best in the world, often create conflict and intrigue.

In addition, sexual relations will change in the course of a relationship. Perhaps they will gain in quality, as the other is known in depth. Maybe after a while, they won't be as intense or frequent.

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