How to Behave if You Have a Relationship With a Boy Who Has Another Girl

Do you have a relationship with a boy who has another girl? That you think! The truth is that what you have is not called a relationship! If you knew he was dating another girl, you should be aware that he is not and will not be your boyfriend until you are alone in his life!

Did he tell you that he was already dating someone else or did you find out from other sources (mutual friends, colleagues, messages, Net)? In the last case, confront him as quickly as possible and ask him what he thinks he is doing!

Does he want to be with you or not, does he care about you or the other person, does he think he is so "manly" that he needs two girlfriends? In the first case, if he is the one who told you, why do you agree to be with him - you are so crazy about him that you don't care about anything anymore and you can't think clearly?

What to do if you have a relationship with a boy who has another girl:

Feelings. Do you have real feelings for this boy? Probably yes, otherwise you would not have agreed to be the third! But how does he feel about you, how can he get you through this?

If you suspect that he does not feel who knows what but just likes to go out with two at the same time, it makes him think "loud", it is best for you to retire. You will never have a harmonious and satisfying relationship with a boy who cares so little that he sees another.

Sorry. Does he tell you that he cares about you, that you are the special one, that he will finish it with the other one, but that he needs time and is waiting for the moment? Does he tell you that he only dreams of you anyway, but he's been postponing for a while to "get rid" of the other one?

He's playing with your fingers! If he postpones separating from the other person for some time, then he most certainly does not intend to do such a thing - and you are, in fact, the one he is cheating on! Does it tell you that only you make him happy, that the other does not understand him, does not appreciate him, even annoys him? Just lines - otherwise, why not finish it?

He wants to go out with both of them because he likes both of them and doesn't know how to choose, or because he feels so masculine and conquering two girls! But you should not accept any of the situations.

Pride game. Why is he dating you? And why go out with another one? Isn't it just a game for him? If he keeps serving you remarks like "you're alone and I'll break up with her", but don't do anything, then play!

Yes, you love him, but if he doesn't answer you the same way and he doesn't even respect you, what do you hope to get from him? If you are content with so little, you will receive so much! If, however, you realize that you deserve more and want more, you cannot accept such a thing.

Self-respect and respect for others. You have to have self-esteem, not accept to be the third, to be the one with whom he cheats. You have to respect others too - what about the other girl?

Don't you care that she also suffers and that from her perspective, you are the one who stole her boyfriend? If you accept such a thing, it is not even your lover's fault - but yours.

Make sure she finds out. If you have a relationship with a boy who has another girl and you think that something good can come out of your relationship, but he always postpones ending it with the other, then makes sure that the other one finds out about you and you.

It's neither honorable nor beautiful, but it may be the only way to end that relationship and see how he felt about the other person and you! Let her know subtly, not directly, through a common acquaintance or by posting somewhere where she can see their photos…

Don't get excited, though: chances are she'll apologize and have the other girl forgive him - so you'll lose. If he went out with her more than you did, if you were the last to come, he might prefer to stay with her because he got used to it and probably still has feelings for her. You were an adventure, a youthful "love", but she will win.

She does not accept the position of "mistress"! It's not going anywhere - if you're a mistress and he has an older relationship with another, you don't have a future together. Think about your image, what people think of you. What you have is not love - even if you love it sincerely. If he doesn't answer you, you can't get anywhere.

Do you think that you only love him, that you will not find another like him, that he is right for you? You're wrong - if he doesn't love you and doesn't make changes for you, it's not right for you. And you will find another one because there are many boys you would fit in with (there is only one soul mate in the stories, and you are no longer a gullible girl). You will find a boy who likes you, cares about you, respects you and who only you, alone, is enough…

Did he break up with the other girl? Are you sure? If you have a relationship with a boy who has another girl, the sad truth is that you can't trust what he tells you: so try to find out for sure if this is the case or if he is lying to you.

In addition, even if he did finish it with the other one, you can have a real relationship with him - don't be afraid that you will be put in the position of the other one, that he will go out with another one, then with one. other?

Guys - whether out of immaturity, the need for fun, pride - who do not want to have a serious relationship look very easily and detached from such situations - they do not think they are much wrong if they go out with someone (if they do not love). So will you be able to have a relationship with him or not? It is not called a relationship if you are always afraid of being cheated and if you always feel the need to check it out.

Don't you care that he goes out with another girl because you're just having fun? Don't be so selfish, if you don't care about him, look for another nice guy to have fun with - there are enough! Think about the other one and put yourself in her place - maybe she's holding on to him, so let her be with him and do her best.