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How the Internet Changed the Fundamental Nature of Dating

Here we'll assess the various reasons why Internet dating has become massive.

By Jonathan DraperPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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Of all the factors that have impacted dating, the one that has had the most far-reaching consequences has been the Internet. When the first commercial dating services were launched in the mid-90s, they presented a convenient platform for singles looking for romance. Experts estimate that digital matchmaking will overtake offline socializing in popularity by the end of this decade. So what is it about going online to connect with prospective partners that have seized the collective imagination? Here we'll assess the various reasons why Internet dating has become massive.

Choice of outlets

There are now so many options for singles who are eager to form relationships. No matter what type of partner you are seeking, there will be a dating site out there catering to your specific tastes. The fact that sites can be readily put together by customizing templates has given rise to a wide array of outlets to both generic subjects, and more nuanced aspirations. Every aspect of human desire is covered by digital dating services. Because most of the sites offer free registration, you can shop around until you find the most suitable one.

There’s more to connecting than compatibility

Not so long ago, compatibility lay at the heart of Internet dating. Sites were geared up to finding kindred spirits for their members, like-minded individuals who specified similar hobbies and interests. But modern hookup culture is more focused on instant attraction than developing a rapport through regular messaging and flirting. A lot of sites allow their members to connect after exchanging only the most basic details about each other. Sometimes their respective geographical location is enough, with dating platforms now utilizing the same technology as satnavs in vehicles, allowing users to get together tonight based on no other criteria than whoever happens to be nearby. From the outset, singles can decide whether they are looking for a long-term relationship with someone compatible, or they would be content to indulge in a series of casual one-night stands. Websites catering for the latter will make it so easy for newcomers to be put in touch with like-minded individuals. If you are willing to participate in ‘no strings attached’ relationships, these platforms will go out of their way to ensure you find someone in your compatible.

Streamlined communication

Once you’ve signed up to become a member of a matchmaking service, there are likely to be various dating shortcuts on offer. You don’t even have to take the time to compose insightful and flirtatious messages to attract attention. All you have to do is send a ‘wink’ to whoever has attracted your attention. This is the equivalent of strolling into a busy singles bar, spotting someone in the crowd you are attracted to, then flashing them an enticing smile. If your sense of attraction is reciprocated, then the coast will be clear for you to commence courtship by exchanging messages, phoning each other, or even participating in video chats.

Online communities

The nature of dating has moved far beyond simply matching singles to compatible individuals. Online dating sites have involved into vibrant communities where kindred spirits will always be made to feel appreciated. As well as joining one of these outlets to seek partners, there are chat rooms and forums where singles can simply introduce themselves, and get into lively group discussions. This facility is particularly welcomed by members of disenfranchised social groups, such as the LGBTQ or disabled individuals. The Internet has provided a haven where people can mingle freely, socializing with people on the same wavelength, without ever feeling judged.

Ongoing innovation

Internet dating has never been a static activity. The innovations that are inspiring so many people to sign up for these resources continue to evolve. Algorithms are becoming ever-more sophisticated, anticipating the aspirations of site users by analyzing their behaviour when they are online. This can lead to much more proactive elements. Rather than simply introducing potential dates, websites can offer much wider advice about typical outlets where couples might enjoy their first date. Further advances include virtual reality: the mind-blowing situation where people can connect in ultra-realistic environments remotely.

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Jonathan Draper

I'm Chief Editor of relationship blog at Loveaholics.com.

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