How Chillin With Woman Should BE

How Chillin With Woman Should Be

Written: Monico Flores

Biography

Hi my name is Monico Flores author and creator of the book. How Chillin With Woman Should Be. My book is a self help book to help men and women understand themselves and each other in the most accurate way possible. My goal as an author is to not only teach the purpose of relationships. But to increase the length of them by understanding longevity and how people respond to building and incorporating one another in today's modern world. All my knowledge has been based off my experiences and has been inspired by others as well. I want to help myself and others fill in the common understanding of the proper balance that involves polarity in modern relationships. My goal as an author is to help men understand how women respond emotionally in dating, relationships, and other forms of communication. This book not only helps men but it helps women understand themselves as well. As an individual reading this book if you follow what I teach. You will notice that as you read this book and practice it. It will conform to your life and will inspire you to maintain the high quality relationships other people yearn for. My name is Monico Flores and this is my book. How Chillin With Woman Should Be. Thank you!

Relationships

The key to a lasting relationship is living high quality lives, inspiring one another. And being able to love someone so that they alone can develop feelings for you. In modern day culture. Society encourages men to chase after woman they like with hopes of the woman giving in and agreeing to marry or date them. However that’s not how it works and if you are reading this book it is clear it hasn’t worked period. Woman say it all the time. That they want a sweet man who will always be there for them and they want a man who will give them gifts and oowee gooey love. As good as that sounds doing all of that will make a woman run away from you. Your goal as a man is when you pursue a woman to not get caught up in her games until you have dated her enough where she can feel comfortable around you. Once she has told you how she feels about you and she has completely opened up too you emotionally, physically and spiritually that is your opportunity as a man to tell her what you want. Surviving with other genders is life and coexisting with false beliefs and morals crammed in the minds defining one's humility is unexpected. However In order to have success with relationships. You must create enough space for the person to consider you part of their life. By doing so and not verbally communicating everything at once. When you first meet. You create attractions that are far greater than the basic understandings of modern

intelligence. You create stability not only in your life but in the other persons as well.

Getting what you want in life

In order to maintain a healthy relationship and courtship you have to be open to clearing the past and revitalizing the present and or near future. How you may ask? The keys are simple. When you first meet a woman she knows naturally that the mating dance is her next feasible challenge. That she must use and collaborate through actions that justifies how she feels, towards the man of interest. So in order to get any woman you want. Approach with certainty and confidence. Know your objectives and start the courting process. Today's modern woman has adapted to a more accurate state of expecting things like a guy giving them attention all the time. Them making statements that clarify that she wants to be pursued at all times in a relationship. But as a man one thing you have to understand is don't always listen to what a woman says. Because what a woman says isn’t always congruent to what she does. Most woman will say that ooey gooey love sounds extraordinarily acceptable. But that’s not what woman emotionally respond too.

Approaching

Approaching in today's society has been a given. Males are expected to approach females and do all the work. However today's women are more responsive to men who display characteristics of independency and mystery. That states you don't have to chase, you don't have to beg, you don't need to boast to get a female's attention. All you need to do is be you. Which means live your life and once you find the women you are interested in. Give her attention. How you may ask? Approach her first and ask a Question About Her Or Text her once if you are in course of the online dating scene. Properly introduce yourself and tell her one thing you liked about her or noticed. Doing so will make her feel close to you because you made her feel like you were paying attention to her and she will consider you as relationship material and open up to you. Most importantly make sure she is the one asking all the questions.

The online dating scene

Attracting women online is something that people cofounded with expectations of modern reality. Which deliberately screw up the purpose and usage of online dating. In the beginning it is reasonable to expect that as a man it is your job to make a date happen during your pursuit for the first month. That means the phone is only to be used to get a woman out whether it's to your favorite restaurant or get her back to your place. The phone should only be used to set up dates and times to be together. There will be times a woman will text you and for example she texts you on a Monday and you set a date with her for Wednesday. However she reaches out to you on the Tuesday the day before your date just to see what your up too. If she does this politely say in a way that you can’t talk too her right now because you are busy. but can’t wait to see her tomorrow. This grows her curiosity. And in the beginning phases it is important she feels this way in order for her feelings to grow. Or if she is persistent exchange a few messages and be really polite to her. You're not being mean to her you just are making her wait and woman love it when a guy is direct and has a busy life. That’s what makes relationships last. Is with time, repetition, absence, and patience. If she texts you or calls you and she says I just can’t wait too see you then invite her over in that moment. The phone should be used to make a date happen. Unless you both are together in a relationship.. Chatting on the phone for more than ten minutes is not acceptable in the dating process. Unless a woman ever says to you I’d prefer to get to know you better before we go out.. Than you can tell her you can talk to her for a few minutes more, but then you will have to get going. If she tries texting or calling you a few days later. Mention again if she would like to go out and if she says no. Then say okay well let me know when your available so I can open up my schedule for you. Your not playing games your just testing her interest level which will cause attraction. In the end she will either walk away or give in to you. Her giving into you is what you want because woman submit and give in when they are sexually interested. When you first text a woman in the online dating scene. Take your time talking to her and getting to know who she is. Let her open up slowly and mimic her high reactions and low reactions as well as tones. That means if she smiles smile back if she touches you reciprocate that touch. Doing so will let her no non verbally that you want her. The first couple of weeks of pursuing if she really wants you to text her or talk to her then you can exchange one or two texting sessions that last a minimum of 15 to 30 minutes at a time a week. But no more. Your time is valuable and woman will chase after men who are mysterious because all woman love mysteries. Courting a woman while online dating is important because being a man whether she has an attitude or is chasing is necessary to build up the attraction that attributes to her falling in love and wanting to meet you as soon as possible. If a woman you are dating has an attitude or snaps at you on random. She is testing your strength. You have to be an alpha male and let her know that acting that way will not be tolerated and if she can't act right then the relationship will not work out. Doing so will make her take back what she said due to the fear of being rejected. Woman hate rejection just as much as men especially the prettier ones. The signs of interest that she may give off during the beginning phases of your relationship. As a recap may be characteristics that involve her wanting to see you, call you, and even talk to you several times on a regular basis. If she displays these characteristics it is a very good indication that she is searching for your approval. Because all women need reassurance and need to know that they are loved and cared about. And when they feel safe and comfortable they will submit to you as an individual. However when she doesn't reciprocate or tries to avoid you at all costs. Tell her what you want, walk away, and never look back. Because life is a negotiation and if you don't get the results you want take away yourself from the interaction. And when doing so it will make her wonder about where she stands with you. And make her feel obligated to reach out. If she does reach out and she asks a personal question about yourself or nonsensical question at random. Ask her if she wants to go out and talk sometime soon. IE if she says no then you can tell her look I'm only interested in you romantically and that if she won't go out with you then you have to go and that you will talk to her later. If she changes her mind and says we'll wait. Then she subtly decided maby she does wanna see you and that's when you become direct and set a date, time, place too meet, and get off the phone.

Meeting Woman

Meeting and approaching are variously widespread and differentiate greatly between person to person because society has brainwashed how men should act using physiological conditioning. The whole purpose of this book is to help you as a man understand that when you don't chase results will come. When attracting a mate whether it's across the room or next to you. Ease yourself into their personal space. That means going up too her and making a statement that she may respond emotionally too. Or just get close to her. Does she move away? Or does she stay in the same closeness of your vicinity? If a woman looks at you or allows you to get close to her, she may have already noticed you before you even looked at her and she Is attracted. If a woman doesn't reciprocate at first you can always give her your number and tell her to call you if she is interested. If she is then with time she will reach out to you.. Women are emotional and don't think logically all the time. And men are more logistical when it comes to attracting a mate. What I mean by that is females tend to say something and take it back even though she really wants that outcome. Some might say well why would she do that? Well it’s mainly because even though she wants that outcome she doesn’t want to be to fourth about it because she is afraid people will judge her or think negatively about what she said or thinks. That’s why women are always changing their minds in today’s society. It is part of a defense mechanism woman have. Men use logic and reason to justify why they want a woman which could mean that he could want her because she is pretty or because she has a great personality either way both men and women rely on physical beneficial characteristics that will benefit them in the long run. That’s the way men and women think when it comes to starting and having modern relationships with one another. Therefore when starting a conversation with a woman she may impose an excuse or reaction to test and see why you want them. That reaction could be positive or negative. And it is an act of reassurance which is another type of defense mechanism I noticed woman have. If it is positive then you can say something or ask if she is familiar with a specific event or location that you are currently meeting at or just talk to her. Women don't always know you like them. They are hardwired to believe that it may just be friendship even though she is attracted. Why that is has a lot to do with how their mothers taught them to interact with men. If you ever get a negative response when asking her out you can always say look. I'm just trying to get to know you. If you wanna talk later when you aren't so negative then shoot me a text. Here's my number. Then walk away from her. That is called the Takeaway. When having that reaction you as a man are indicating to the female that you are high status and only want the strongest and most flexible female. She will become very attracted. How? Because it is scientifically proven that women are more attracted to men who don't display any interest. All woman are attracted to mystery and men who convey it. All woman respond the same way whether it takes her weeks to get a hold of you or months. Say she never does. Well hey the universe will send you someone better.

Bluffing or Testing

All women participate in these responses when it comes to meeting men. They will test you emotionally as well as test you in situations that involve logistics as well. Women love to size a guy up. Women test men to see how strong they really are and if they are able to stand up to them. Therefore if you playfully embrace that fact then the attraction will flourish if you apply the things I teach. Every woman on the planet will do it. And here are some examples. Hey give me that. If a woman ever says a phrase that is ordering you as a man to please her. Unless it is in bed. You have to stand up too her. Woman who do this are testing to see if you will actually do what she says. She is trying to learn the balance of who's more dominant in the relationship. If she ever does a command towards you and you feel uncomfortable you have to be willing to put her in her place and tell her that it won't be tolerated. As an alpha male your life has a purpose. Therefore you have no time for judgements, demanding requests, or seizable statements. If she says a statement in that tone simply say you don't have to be so negative you can say please you know. Every time you stand up to her. She will feel your strength and become more vulnerable and submit to you. Never ever be submissive to women. That means having attention seeking behavior, getting her approval, or asking to do something for her. If a woman ever tells you that you can't do something and if that request affects your personal life or goals.. You have to stand up to her and you could say. “Sweetheart I love my hobbies or career it is what makes me feel alive and happy I'm not gonna get rid of them for anyone”. She may respond negatively and may even say whatever or simply give in and say fine. Why did she give in? Because you were being a man and you stood up for what you wanted. Bluffing and Testing isn’t a pigment of your imagination. All women do it and it is partially congruent to how they react to men in order to test them. An example of a test would be. Say you are getting her some cotton candy. “She tells you I didn't want the pink color”. “I wanted the blue color”! And you bought her the pink kind. And say she says “I don't want it”! You can say “look I spent a lot of time and my hard working money and waited in line for you”! “The least you can do is appreciate it”. When you stand up too woman in that way it will throw her off. She may completely become silent and respect your statement. Why? Because you stood up too her.

The Ex

Say you are dating or beginning to approach a woman you are interested in. You are doing everything right. Setting dates. And all of a sudden she goes cold. Or she's simply standing you up on dates or is bouncing back in forth from you to another guy. Don't chase. And don't put up with it. Let her come to you! Say you are in public and you see her with another man. If you ever see a woman you are dating in public with someone other than you and your interested in her. Wave to her and go up too her and say hi to her. Doing so will force her emotionally to introduce the person she's with. That is your way of knowing if you have competition. What will happen is when she sees that you are not bothered by the fact that she is with someone and you remain calm. She will become curious about you? She may think why didn’t he get jealous? Does he like me? Huh? That’s interesting, I wanna know more! Woman think these things constantly. And when you see a woman out in public you're interested in never be afraid to be direct, decisive, and get to the point. What that means is ask her to hang out sometime and if she says she's busy you can say well hey it was great seeing you. Give her your number which will cause attraction to go up because she can sense she's about to lose out on something. What will also happen is she will feel like she has to explain herself. Which in contrary will make her reach out to you whether it is through text, phone calling, or showing up at your front door. When she does act submissive or is trying to tell you something at a random moment. She is finding excuses to talk to you because she is unsure about where she stands with you and is trying to seek your approval. She may even make an excuse to talk too you just so she can reassure herself that you still want her. If she does hangout with someone you never seen before ask her about it. And if she can't reassure you that nothing is happening outside of your relationship. And that nothing is happening sexually or romantically with anyone else but you. Let her know how you feel about the situation or what you saw. Then walk away and wait for her to put all her cards on the table. If something doesn't feel right don't be afraid to walk away and leave on a good note. If she truly says nothing is happening and you can feel her response truthfully and you can believe her. Then continue staying calm and say okay baby. If a woman ever bounces back in forth between you and someone else. You can tell simply what she's doing by just checking on another social media platform you have her on. And if she's on another platform after she just told you that she has to go. Then she may be talking to someone else about you or just trying to get rid of you by leaving the conversation earlier than expected. Remember what a woman says is never congruent to her actions. Woman naturally test the strongest male, and in order for you to win. Let the other guy make the mistakes. And let her come to you when she wants. Unless she is in a relationship with you don't worry too much and sit back and relax. Don't text her or chase her constantly if she doesn't get back to you quickly enough. If she says she will get back to you and doesn't that day. She will eventually. In the meantime date other people and let her wonder about where she stands with you and let her reach out. If you feel a woman isn't being loyal to you never be afraid to ask her to tell you what her problem is and if she gives you issues about it just give her space and walk away for a few minutes until she comes around. In some serious situations if this same problem has been happening for months and you feel like she is being dishonest you can tell her that she needs to pack her bags and go for awhile. Until you both feel like you're on the same page again then you can decide what is best for your relationship. If she ever shows signs of cheating like lying to you or backing away. Simply tell her how you feel and if you have to walk away and never look back than do it. If you're in a relationship with her and she becomes distant tell her how you feel and than wait for her to respond. And if what she says doesn't check out. Say I don't feel comfortable with this situation with us. Let her know what you feel like and that you feel she's not telling you something. And tell her to give you some space and when she's willing to communicate and talk it out. To let you know. If a woman you're into or in love with clears the problem up and tells you everything on her mind and you feel she is being honest let her know that you apologize and take her out somewhere. Reacting calm and collected will not only make her strive for your approval again but will make her see you as high value. And when a woman is hanging out and pursuing you. It will get her attention and she won't be dumping you.

Interest Levels

When a woman is into you. She won't be dumping you. Knowing how a woman feels is essential to improving your relationship, marriage, or in general getting any women to act submissive and sleep with you. When a woman is interested she will give off these signals of interest towards you as a man to make an approach and make a date on the spot. If a woman is interested she will preen and adjust her hair around you whether it is aligning it behind her ear or moving it away from her face when she is looking at you and or is in your vicinity. When doing this she is giving you a subtle sign and stating dude I like you. Approach me. Other signs include if she is smiling at you. Or constantly looking up at you or at the ground. That is a sign she is very interested in getting to know you and wants you to make the next move. When she looks away when you catch her looking at you whether it is right or left. She is indicating that she doesn't know how she feels yet and needs some space away from you. When she looks up she is indicating that she is not interested in physical eye contact and wants you to leave her alone. Other things to look out for is if she opens the door for you it is a sign of respect so reward her by asking her on a date or giving her a sincere compliment. “Like hey, thank you so much”! If a women ever stops what she is doing to help you it can be a high sign of sexual interest. When she plays damsel in distress and tries to get everyone's attention when you're around and hopes you will catch on and give her attention. Don’t fall for it. Hang back and let the other guys make the mistakes and run to her whim because in reality she will notice and become attracted due to your strength. Never feed a woman’s Ego. When she acts that way don't respond and just ignore her. It may sound rude. But it will indicate that you are high status and that your physical and emotional response indicates that your not gonna chase her subtly it will tell her if she really wants you, she is gonna have to chase you. If a woman looks at you and has dilated pupils in the eyes it is a sign of a high level of interest. The reason for this is pupils react not only to light but to objects or things that make someone feel pleasure.. This can happen when someone sees an object they want or experiences a tight niche feeling of euphoria. In response to the brains feelings of overall sexual attraction. Having an open body position with uncrossed arms and legs is making a statement that she is open to being approached by someone. However if the legs are closed and arms are crossed then she is not interested in approaches from anyone and she would like time alone.

Being Indifferent

Whether she is playing hard to get or you are. There is a way to break down her barriers and get her to feel high attraction while in your presence. If she is playing hard to get. For example acting interested in you one moment. And then pulling away the next. It is because she is unsure if you are right for her and so she is finding a way to see if you'll become unglued. When a woman acts this way. Mimic her reactions. That means indicating that your time is valuable. If she is texting you back fast and then all of a sudden retreats. Do the same. Because she is testing your strength as a man. If a woman ever does this take your time and slowly lead the interaction when you first start a conversation. And then after a few texts back and forth. Get her on a date! That means being direct by asking her when her schedule is free? And when she tells you. Plan a day, time, place and then get off the phone. State it was nice talking to her but you have to go. This reaction qualifies as being mysterious. However the first month the man should be pursuing the woman that means texting her twice a week. Reassuring her that you like her and care about her each time you text or see her. If she reaches out a few days sooner for example before the date you guys already have planned. Her attraction may be high and she may be open to doing anything you want because she has had time to wonder about you and is trying to bond and connect with you sooner so she doesn't lose you. Or if you're not up too seeing her in that moment you can get her excited by sending her a couple of texts reminding her about how much fun you're both about to have and how you have a lot of surprising things planned for her. And when she asks what those are just simply say. Nope you gotta wait and see. What will happen is if you make her wait and wonder she will become sexually frustrated and excited and she will be more open to your advances. The objective of everyman in today’s modern society should be to hang out, have fun, and hook up. Believe it or not that’s what women respond to emotionally and physically. That is how their emotions work once they bond with you. They wanna see you more and eventually she wants to mate with you once her attraction level is high enough. That's what the objective every man should have during the process of dating any women. Decisive and get to the point!

Acting Mysterious

Acting mysterious is really an understatement but that statement is very useful when it is used in action. Acting mysterious is essential to creating high levels of attraction in women. How can I do that? Simple not always being available when she needs you too be. That means if she wants you to go on a group date. Just reject and say I don't really want to go on a group date. Reasons you as a man should be rejecting group dates. Is because the point of a date is creating a romantic opportunity for sexual Intercourse to take place. Reasons why group dates just don't qualify. Is because there may be people in your group or couples in general that may turn her off or cock block you both. Therefore making it a high risk opportunity for you as a man to not get what you want. Being able to get her alone is the right thing to do and it kinda is what she really wants whether she says it or not. It is naturally what she emotionally responds to when she’s attracted to a man. That is what builds the energy in emotional and spiritual satisfaction in women. So don’t go on group dates unless you’ve been boyfriend and girlfriend for over six months. Otherwise you will go nowhere. Ways of acting mysterious and making her wonder about where she stands with you. Is if she texts you in any beginning phases of a relationship wait about fifteen to thirty minutes to respond each time. Why? Because all women need to wonder about you. And when you make her wait on you. The heart grows fonder. If a woman ever invites you to her place and you're not really in the mood. Don’t be afraid to just say look it's been a busy week. I'm honestly exhausted. But your more then welcome to put on something pretty and come over and watch a movie with me. If she says no then say okay well let me know in a few weeks when you want to do something and then get off the phone. And if she texts you. Answer back the next morning. Why? Because women need time and space away from you. If she is talking to you and you don't wanna answer the question. Change the subject and ask her a question. And if she says but you never answered my question you can say sweetheart you don't have to worry it'll be okay. What will happen is she will become sexually frustrated because she is not getting what she wants and the attraction will spike. Do that on multiple occasions. Make her fight to get an answer out of you sometimes. It'll just make things better between the both of you.

Low Interest

Everything between the both of you has been going great. And on random she becomes quite, disinterested, and not willing to talk about a specific subject or unable to respond to a simple greeting in general. If you are in a relationship ask her what's wrong and if she says nothing. Then state look if you can't communicate the relationship isn't gonna work out if we're not open with one another. And you have to say it and mean it. She then will react by either telling you what's on her mind or just walking out the door. If she does walk away, let her. And she will come back when she cools down and has time and space away from you to think about it. If a woman acts like this during the process of courting and dating. Let her know that she needs to communicate and if she can't then you can't continue seeing her. She as a women not only needs to feel your strength in the good times but in the bad ones too. If a woman you're dating acts indifferent. Ask her once what's wrong and if she doesn't respond don't ask again. And excuse yourself from the conversation. It's all part of being direct and stating what you want in life. And whether she chooses you or not. You have to state if you're dating her that if she doesn't please you then it won't work out. However if you're in a relationship you have to open your woman up and get her to communicate. On two separate occasions you can ask her what's wrong after giving her space in between each one and if she still won't budge and if she isn't willing to communicate. Then say to her, do you want me in your life?. And if she says yeah. Then tell her you need to communicate with me. Being so direct will force her to withdraw and give in to your statement and she may even tell you what's on her mind.

Sexual Desire

Women like sex just as much as men do. And in order to increase her sexual desire being mysterious, upfront, and real with what you want whether it is casual sex or an actual relationship is crucial. But in order to get a woman to crave your presence you have to say the right things. By telling her she's beautiful while looking her in the eyes. Will increase her attraction for you. However give her one compliment per a date or altercation that involves the two of you. Never kiss a womans ass. By constantly treating her like a celebrity. What does a celebrity have to do with it? Treating her like she's special is fine at times when it's appropriate like when you're in bed, together, or on a date. But treating her like she's your everything and the only thing you got going on. Will condition her to expect you to act the same at all times when you're with her. At times let her feel you acting indifferent. She will value you more for not kissing her ass and your future relationship will begin to grow. If you treat her like a celebrity all the time her attraction will eventually drop faster and faster and she will make herself available to other mates when you both are in a relationship. Why would she do that? Were committed? Because you conditioned her to expect you to act a certain way and when you stop she will prepare herself for rejection and think you stopped loving her. If you notice her becoming cold and disinterested in you. Get her on a date as soon as possible! And start dating her frequently. The key is to treat all women the same and always act mysterious and keep it that way through all parts of the relationship.

Courting

Courting a woman is extremely important. If you don't respect, provide attention, and listen to her. In contrary the legs will close. What does that mean? When a woman has any type of sexual attraction towards you she will flirt, date you, kiss you and move things along. But when the sexual attraction stops she will stop everything and her legs will close. But why does her legs close metaphorically speaking? Because she is not feeling safe and comfortable. Respecting a woman is important. Without treating her like a celebrity. There are many ways to make a women feel important and loved by dating her and if you don't have much money. Just making her feel really special is enough to keep the courtship afloat. Giving gifts to a woman you are dating and not in a relationship with is not always a good idea because in her mind she will consider it nice but resent you because she will feel like it’s a bribe to sleep with her. However when your boyfriend or girlfriend or married giving a gift at any time is more than acceptable because it will not only help her heart remain open to you by giving her the sense of vulnerability that she needs. But It will also help her open up and pursue you because she has something to look forward to everyday or just something to look at that reminds her of you. Providing attention is essential to keeping the relationship at a thriving point. If she wants to know what you're up too or constantly asks questions, let her. However take your time wait one to two minutes for each text while in a relationship. And if you're dating take fifteen minutes to thirty minutes to get back to her. But when a women wants your attention give it to her. But portion it out, for example. When she's in bed with you or on the phone give her your full attention but when she's texting and asking you questions in text or on a date. Answer the questions at your discretion. Have a fair balance and it is guaranteed to create love and build up satisfaction in any relationship, marriage, or altercation.

Tell a women what you want out of your relationship. Telling her where you wanna live, what your future career goal is; if you want kids. Give her the ability to see you as a mate let her see you as someone she can have in her life for a long time. She needs to trust who you sell yourself to be. In order to get the results you desire. You have to show her your objective while in a relationship with her or dating a woman in general. She has to see your true intentions. It's all part of the reassurance factor.

Feelings

Telling a women how you feel is essential in order for her feelings to develop. Part of the courtship is being able to remind her how you feel and what you love about her on a daily basis. However if you are beginning to date. Don't tell a women how you feel until you have kissed her. Why because that is the point in the relationship where sexual attraction is starting to flourish. And don't assume just because you have sex it automatically means you are in a relationship. Remember plan, set, and execute. If she already stated what she wants out of the relationship then accept it or wait and let her bring up the title of your relationship. Don't be afraid to negotiate a little. Never ask a girl to be exclusive. Why? Because women need to wonder about if you are in a relationship or not. And when she asks what are we? That is her way of asking you to be exclusive. Cuz in her mind you already are and she just wants to make sure she's seeing it right. If she ever asks you that deep and vulnerable question you can always say look you are the greatest person in the world and state what you want. Whether it's friends with benefits, something casual, or a relationship. And then let her respond. If she wants something more other than what you offered. Come to a consensus and if you can't maybe you aren't right for one another. And walk away. The reason you walk away is life is a negotiation and when it doesn't meet your terms whether it's in a career or getting something out of a women. You have to be able to walk away and mean it. State what you want and walk if it's not what you want. And if she really wants you then she will change and adjust to fit your needs. It's that simple.

Sexual Intentions Part 2

When attempting to bed any women you meet. You need to approach them in a way that shows them that you are interested. But indicate a vast amount of strength by showing mystery and at the same time stating what you want from the get go. Tell her what you want and wait for it. Show a women that you are interested in them. Therefore letting them see that you have an abundance mentality by stating non verbally that you are a guy of many options and whether she chooses you or not you're fine with that. Why do that? Because it is part of being mysterious and when a women feels like she is gonna lose out on something. She will find a way to get it. Whether you know about it or not. A women needs to feel a reason to chase you. Why? Because women go by how you as a man make them feel and when she feels safe. She will tend to prefer to open up to you. Kissing and building up the feeling of you too together is what she will do when she really wants you. Letting her come to you at her own pace is vital. ItWl will only help the women of interest become more turned on and help her fall in love faster with you. When it comes to having sexual Intercourse with a women. As soon as you do it. A majority of women will take the initiative to lock you down in a relationship. Why? Because a women is falling in love with you and she doesn't want you to slip away. She will chase, embarrass herself and do whatever it takes. If she decides that you are the partner, that she wants. In some situations you don’t always have to be physical to get her to want you. You can make her want you by saying the right things, doing the right things, and giving her time and space to wonder about where she stands with you. Why do women do this? Why do they lock men down. Because women who become emotionally vulnerable and conditioned over time to believe you two are meant to be together just from having sex or by being in your presence over time will force her want to be glued to you.

Assertive Or Submissive

Being assertive and or submissive is a given. Not many men know which one women best respond too. However. The tie between both is essential in order for a woman's feelings to fully flourish. Being assertive like telling a women that you are into her, wanna date her, or that you are wanting to have sex with her is being assertive. Opening the door for her at her favorite restaurant, buying her gifts, and making her feel loved and cared for is submissive. Which is very acceptable as long as you remain mysterious and tell the women what you want if it doesn't fulfill your desires or wishes. In fact a women loves a man who displays alpha characteristics because it lets her know that she is worthy enough to be with you. It's all part of a woman's natural tendencies is to be submissive to the most dominant male. However showing her signs of love by buying her gifts, dating, and even courting her properly is the way all men should be acting when they are serious. When it comes to submitting to a women. Being there for her when she needs it most and yet giving her space away from you is crucial. Doing that to a women you are interested in. Helps them stay in love with you and wonder about you over time. So keep going and get her on cloud nine.

Structured

There are many foundations and cultural expectations that have been socially adapted by today's normal women. What is structure and how does it effect relationships? Having a structured woman in your life is highly detestable. There are good depictions and bad ones to be aware of before welcoming a structured person in your life. The negatives and what to look out for involve a woman's actions towards you and how she reacts when you try and take the lead in a relationship. Woman who are structured go by a set of rules. Most woman have them but the ones who truly stand out rely on emotional anchoring to an individual through withdraw. If he doesn't want her she will continue chasing and trying to win him over. When the decision made by the male is negative. Other behaviors attributed to structured woman can be noticed by her doing things that are obvious or uncalled for. If she shuts down, doesn't wanna talk to you, uses depression or other characteristics as a way to get you to stick around. That is a sign of social withdrawal which is a soluble belief. That woman who act this way generally act that way throughout all phases of the relationship. If she is negative it not only will be portrayed by a women but also be associated with traits of narcissistic tendencies. That may even be attributed to other characteristics that may harm or affect the stabilization of a relationship in the long run. A woman may also portray her structured tendencies through texting or calling by making you feel not good enough and then taking it all back when you're upset about the situation. Threatening to withhold sex. If a woman threatens to withhold sex. You can simply say that. If you can't communicate and be able to physically allow yourself to be present with me in the relationship. The relationship will not work out. Because communication, mobility, and physicality is necessary for any normal and stable relationship to thrive. If and during texting. When first meeting a woman her actions and approach methods may be given away through the first week of meeting her. And will also indicate what kind of person she really is and what she really stands for. Never be afraid to test a woman or ask an unexpected question at a random moment just to throw her off. Doing so might just save you time and heartache in the long run. Some Indications of whether or not a female has some structured tendencies are. If she waits eight minutes every single time to respond to your texts. Ask her about it. Bring it to the table. And if she responds to saying I don't know I just end up checking my phone around then. She may just be structured and purposely doing it. Just know that if she is she won’t be direct and tell you she is doing it on purpose. Because she herself doesn't even notice it at times. She does it out of habit and due to the fact that she has been emotionally anchoring herself to keep her cool since day 1. And it’s your job as a guy to figure out why she is holding back by opening her up verbally and physically. So be patient and let things unfold over time. Because only time can tell you what you need to know. She may also react in ways that indicate that she has a diluted mindset by indicating structuredness and even switching the time she communicates with you to other time periods that remain replicated by one another. Why do some women do this? It's because they are emotionally anchored to try and reinforce more self control with themselves. But why do they respond the same time every occurrence? Because they know that if they act normal and be themselves that they will ruin the relationship. And reasons why you should keep an eye out. Is because you never know who the person really is unless you build a foundation over time. It is a choice to either wait it out or figure it out. Giving it time may validate to you as a man why she is purposely holding back. And if doesn’t ever come out with any emotional recollection of why she does things the way she does if you ever ask her. Then she may not be fully being real with you so let her know what she needs to do to fulfill you and if she never does than it may be time to just walk away. But either way the main reason she is acting this way is because she sees herself as an imminent threat to the relationship and to your future relationship as well. Other signs that state structured behaviors may include her arms being crossed and unwillingness to communicate and or if she lies. If she does this. Tell her that her behavior is completely unacceptable and won't be tolerated. Standing up too her will make her confess to what her problem is. Therefore all these signs stated here are some of the strong and clear indications and even red flags given from women who are structured over time. The truth of who that person is may just appear in the beginning phases of the relationship which will make it easier to walk away of course. It is extremely important as a man to court any women you are dating properly because if you don't they can mature these negative actions if they show signs of them. However if you're not being the alpha male and courting her properly in the relationship. A woman will mature her structured and manipulative behavior and make the relationship highly distasteful. You have two choices in a situation that can invoke this behavior. You can stick around and learn to get her to keep the structured tendencies under control and if she's not happy. Risk driving her away into the arms of another man or you can walk away. Although women who display unhappiness or displeasure in any type of relationship. May just leave you. But if she does leave than getting her back will be a whole other obstacle to accomplish because she more than likely has already made up her mind and the more you try and force her to change it the more she resents you. As a man you may just end up losing her if she leaves or withdraws from what you had. One thing to recognize as important is woman don’t just do things. They think about it, they talk about it with their peers and they slowly fall out of love with you and push you away over time. They may search elsewhere subtly or straight out just cheat on you if they are not satisfied with the relationship. It just depends on the woman and the circumstances. It is your job as a man if you choose to stick around to say. The way your acting is unacceptable. Tell her what she is doing. And then say if this continues we are through. I will no longer tolerate this bull shit. And if she says fine then let's break up or I honestly don't give a fuck. If she won’t budge let her know what she is doing is unacceptable. Tell her until you see some changes in her behavior she can’t come back. Then if she's staying with you at your place. You can say okay pack your bags and I want you out by tomorrow morning. If you are with her and she won’t tell you what she’s hiding or what you want her to tell you. Don’t be afraid to walk out. And wait for her to get back to you or follow up with you later. Remember when people are cornered they never respond well unless you open them up over time. So if she doesn’t open up to you at first you need to communicate better with her. However If she ever responds with fine then acts submissive and wants to take it back. Reinstate what she did wrong and that she needs to fix it. Bringing this to a woman's attention is vital to getting her to fall in love and getting her to feel your strength. The thing about women who act self centered and structured and with any woman in general is if they take it back in any situation whether it's during a fight or a disagreement. Then she is acting submissive which is what you want. Realize as a man that what a woman says is almost always never congruent with her actions. She may change her mind at the last minute or do something different. The thing you gotta realize is that dealing with emotional women even if she acts like a complete bitch. Let her but keep it under control and understand that any woman whether structured or not if you make up or court her properly will eventually adjust her attitude and outlook on life too fit your needs and your needs only. Woman tend to be really forgiving even if they don't admit it but when they walk. It's another challenge for you as a man to face if you ever want her back in your life. Woman mainly tend to put up with all of your shit and if something is bothering her. She may just hold onto it and carry it around with her on her shoulders until she busts. But if she ever does tell you what's on her mind. Listen to her with your full attention. That means drop whatever the fuck your doing. Lay on your stomach with hands under your chin like a little kid and listen to her. Even if she is yelling or just acting silent. Get her to communicate and if it's something you are doing let her tell you what it is and give her time to forgive you if it turns out that it is something you did that made her upset and feel unwanted. If she ever has negative experiences in the past with you. You have to show her how you changed and until she feels safe and comfortable she will not open up too you. If she drags her past experiences into your current relationship you gotta figure out what she's feeling and let her know that you are different. Remember always. A woman has to always feel present and safe and comfortable in your current relationship. Or she will become unhappy. If she as a woman ever feels at one point like she was taken for granted or taken advantage of emotionally or physically by you or someone in the past whether it was physically or emotionally. She will take longer to open up emotionally and physically. Until a woman feels safe and comfortable she will believe that nothing has changed or ever will. Those are the positives and negatives of having a structured woman in your life or a woman in general. However if you slip up during the process of dating a woman who is structured she will look elsewhere. Until you pull her back in, date her, and adjust yourself to fit her needs she will never be happy. Those three steps are vital to getting the woman you want back if the relationship went or is rocky. In some cases women who are not structured will do the same in the heat of the moment. However most women who are structured are more emotional and leave the biggest mess in relationships they don't feel enough love or appreciation in. Why? Because women in general go by how they feel and what their attraction level is. They hardly ever think logically like men. They go by the moment and respond and react later.

Love

Love and reassurance are vital to building a basic foundation and understanding any relationship. Ways to make her feel love is to continue to take her on dates and make her feel loved and appreciated. When woman wonder about you in cases where you act like a man and pursue your mission and purpose in life. Woman in your lives will begin to gravitate towards you. Why? Because not only are you coming off as mysterious but you are portraying that you are the leader of the relationship. Therefore helping a woman too feel safe and comfortable which like I said earlier is vital to building the love and sexual desire that will build a relationship all the way to its maximum. Other ways to show a woman you love and care about them is to introduce them to your family. Woman not only wanna build a bond with you but they want to feel that you are proud to have them in your life. And have that amazing feeling of being accepted. Introducing them to people that raised you will not only make the bond between the both of you stronger. But may just create a lifelong connection. That will only build and grow throughout your journey in life together but improve your well being and character as well. Know that as a man take every verbal fight you have as a way to improve your relationship. Be calm and listen to her and what she has to say. So she doesn't take it out on you later. Take care of her when she's sick and check up on her through texting, calling, and in other meaningful forms of communication when it’s appropriate. If she is having emotional moments or a hormonal situation. She will try and argue about anything. Don't argue back just let her unwind and release all her emotional discharge on you or give her space. Why? Because your her rock and she wants to feel your strength by you not getting emotionally affected by her on her emotional days. And then after all the emotions are released. You can simply say baby I'm sorry you feel that way, is that all. Take her out for some food and spoil the fuck out of her whether she is feeling hormonal one day or not. Encourage one another and become open to sharing every moment of your past with one another not all at once of course but slowly over time. Woman and people in general hide who they are for months and sometimes all the way to marriage when they love a person just to avoid conflict. As a man be vulnerable at times. Let her feel your presence and emotions. But don't act overly eager and try and share it all at once because she will become disinterested, overwhelmed, and back away. Why? Because women love mystery and when you take it away and act way more into her then she is into you. They will get bored, think you don't get it, call you a creep, and even run off.

What Are We

It is important for you as a man to court the woman you are into and pursuing properly. Because if you don't date her. She will never indicate she is ready for a relationship with you and she won't take things further with you as a man. She might even find someone else. And guess what all the work, logistics and time you put into her, will be a waist. So do things right the first time. Never ask or beg for a relationship. When dating don't even ask if she is seeing anyone or any of that. Why? Because doing that will indicate you are unworthy of her attention and she will test you and you may likely fail. So focus on hanging out, having fun, and creating romantic opportunities for sexual Intercourse to happen. And let her as a women decide and wonder about where she stands with you. When she is in love. She will bring up the title of your relationship. Or if you wait until around the 8th date or 8th week she may just ask what are we? Or where is this going? And when she does let her know what you want as said previously in other chapters. And lead the interaction in the route you wanna take it. Hang out, have fun, and hookup. That's it. Let her bring up exclusivity. You set the dates. If she never brings up what she wants from you. Then don't worry she will come around or if she doesn’t anytime soon start interacting with other woman and repeat this journey until you find the one who is meant for you. In the process of dating a woman never put all your cards on the table and expect one person to react to them. Because in reality if she finds out everything about you all at once. She may not respond the way you were hoping for. Let her bring up the title of your relationship. And if she wants casual sex let her have it. Until you find someone that meets your needs or wants a relationship with you. I recommend never be friends with a woman you are interested in. If a woman ever says I'm not interested in you that way and only as a friend. You can say look I'm not interested in having a platonic relationship with you. I only want a relationship and if you change your mind give me a call and or shoot me a text and if she doesn’t well then it’s her loss. Why not be friends with a girl when you're interested romantically in her? Because life is a negotiation when you allow her to friend you when you want her. You are stating non verbally that you have no one else that wants you and if she doesn't choose you than your life will be over which is a huge turn off and woman will consider that weakness. Which is one thing you should never give women the option of doing is letting her be the selector at any point unless she goes up too you and makes a move on you that’s the only time that it is considered acceptable. State what you want. And if it isn't to your standards then be able to walk away and mean it. But if at any point you feel attraction for a women you are friends with. And decide you might find her physically or romantically attractive. State what you want and then walk away if you have to. Until she complies. Only ask a girl on a date a minimum of three times and if she rejects you on all three attempts. Let her bring it up. Keep the conversations under five minutes if she tries to conversate with you. In any future altercations. After she's rejected you all three times. If she texts you just say hey and talk for a few minutes and state I'm kinda busy right now but I’d love to take you out so when are you free? And if she says she’s not interested then say okay and get off the phone. And then you’ll find someone way sexier, way better and way more flexible.. When you are able to walk away and mean it. Women will be compelled to chase you. If you are with her in the car and she tells you she doesn't wanna be romantic and she just wants to be your friend. Turn the car around and take her home. And if she asks what you're doing you can simply say: I'm not interested in you on a platonic level. Never ever apologize for coming on too strong or saying something dirty because you are indicating weakness on your behalf in any situation. You are basically telling her when you apologize that you are sorry for liking her and that you are unworthy. When you act like a man and only except negotiations that meet your needs and satisfactions. It will make her true feelings float up to the surface and make her realize she really wants you in her life. And when you don't chase or beg for her attention results will come.

Getting An Ex Back

Getting an ex back is very contrary and out of reach when it comes to the basic understanding of how to do it properly. The thing you have to remember from what is stated before is walking away and never looking back. The only way that statement doesn't apply to the situation between you and your past lover. Is if you were the one who turned them down. If you denied a relationship or broke up with them. Then it is your job as a man or a women to rekindle and fix everything. That means you have to reach out to them, you have to make it up to them, and you have to set dates. If the other person won't react or is refusing. Honestly tell them what you want and how sorry you are for taking them for granted and offer a counter offer. He or she may be able to accept the counteroffer if their interest is above fifty percent. If it's low and distant. Back off and give that person time and space away from you. In order for their feelings to develop. When it comes to being rejected in general. Don't reach out to them for any birthdays, any form of congratulations. If a tragedy happens like a death in his or her family then you can say you're sorry for their loss and walk away. Or just send your condolences and wait for them to get back to you. When they do. Let them know that you are thinking about them and encourage them that if they need anything. Then they can give you a call or shoot you a text. Otherwise if they dump you. Walk and never look back.

Stating Your Purpose

This book is not meant to teach you a way of manipulation or disrespect. It is showing you how a woman responds to relationships. Subtly and physically. But when it comes to dating. It is expected that you make the decisions as a man. That means lead her in the direction that you want her to be in. Especially when she asks you too. For example don't ask a woman where she wants to go for a date or what time she wants to meet. Unless it's wishy washy and all up in the air. If it is then put it in her court and let her decide and tell her to get back to you when she figures it out. Because when you put the ball in a woman's court you won't always get what you are hoping for all the time unless she's unsure. Why? Because women don't respond well to making all the decisions. It's part of her being submissive especially when she responds with I don't know? You decide or I'm not really sure. Women are not emotionally made to make decisions. They emotionally respond to dominant men and are conditioned to follow. If she is acting aloof or unsure of herself. Respond positively and lead the direction you want her to be in. Because it is contrary to believe that women want to be dominated by the strongest males. Because it assures them naturally that their offspring will survive, will be healthy, and that she will be safe.

Commitments

With woman the courtship never stops especially through long term commitments! Before taking a relationship further. Make sure you ask one another what you want out of a relationship. Can you talk to one another about anything. Are you both able to grasp each other's responses and verbal communications without a fight. Do you both have plans spiritually and financially. How will you both make sure that your relationship remains successful. What are your goals for your relationship. Have you talked about your careers, where you plan to be in the future, and if you want kids. It is important that you ask one another these essential questions and know one another better than anyone. Before you create a relationship that is legally bonded between the both of you. A.K.A a Marriage or a Relationship. In general make sure you both are ready and want the same thing.,

A Man's Mission

Meeting woman can be very interesting and you can have so many great experiences, memories, and even negative ones at times as well. But when it comes to meeting woman and taking things further. It is up to you as a man to lead the interaction where you want it to go. How she dresses, how she acts, and what she does may not always be congruent to who she is as a person. But the way she acts when she's with you. Will work wonders and tell you everything over time. So trust yourself, follow your heart, and be the man you were built and created to be. Unique and Different.