He Left Me For Someone Else But Says He Loves Me (Why Did My Ex Leave Me For Another Girl)

It is bad enough that your boyfriend left you, but when you see him with another girl you are completely broken because you had hoped to get back together one day. Do not worry, it might be easier than you think to make him yours again, you just need to learn how to.

It might be on rebound

It is quite common for men to get into a relationship on the rebound to get over the pain and loneliness. Or he might be trying to give you a message that others find him attractive too, so you see the pain is there on both the sides and you can hope to get him back.

Stay away from your boyfriend

Meanwhile stay away from him and wait out for the rebound relationship to end. Even if you happen to meet them, act as if you don't care and be friendly. Do not show that you are feeling jealous, act as if you are not bothered. Do not let him see your weakness by being jealous.

Concentrate on self

Usually people who have lost their partner to someone stop taking care of themselves. You can pamper yourself and give yourself a new look, a new wardrobe so that you are attractive and desirable to other men. Your mutual friends will tell your boyfriend about you and may let him realize that dumping you was a wrong move.

Give him time to reflect

Get on with your life and do not think of following him to find out what is happening in his life. Keep your social dairy full, meet up your friends and let him see that you are not someone crying for him. The more you stay away, the sooner he will begin to think of ways to reunite with you.

Take steps slowly

Do not show your desperation, aim to be just friends with your boyfriend. Be a good listener and if he talks about his present girl do not criticize her or ask him for comparisons. Your goal is to slowly be his confidante and not nag him about leaving you.

Use psychological tricks

Go back to the pleasant memories of the past when you had a great time together to make him realize what he is missing. Let him see how good you were as couple and that you had common goals and vision about life.

Be there when he needs you

When his rebound relationship ends, he will need someone to console and support him. Yes it will be not easy, but let him see that he can count on your support.

The Number One Way to Make Him Want You More Than Ever Before

The economic law of diminishing marginal returns probably works in human relations as well. Excessive intimacy tends to create boredom if not outright contempt. And then, even little aberrations that once added to your charm start appearing big and outrageous.

This is one reason why most break-ups occur. Getting bored and finding excuses to cover up the boredom and break away is human nature.

So, there is nothing strange if it has happened with you as well. It has happened with thousands like you before and is happening even now.

There is no need to feel despondent. If the couples have broken up, they have patched up as well. And remember, once they reunite, they love each other with greater sanity and vigour than before. They rediscover the positive points that they had ignored or missed out during their first term.

They learn from their mistakes and try not to repeat them. A break-up may, thus, come up as a boon. This time you are going to live happily forever and ever.

The question is how to get your ex back?

In order to answer this question, you should go back to the days when you first fell in love with each other. If you are a woman, you must realize that you had something mysterious about you. It created an intrigue, an enigma, a charm that made you irresistible to your lover. You drove him crazy for discovering the mystique or the aura that surrounded you. Strangely enough, you did not project this image consciously. It just happened on its own.

This was your secret weapon, though you did not know about it.

Now you have to consciously recreate that old charm, the mystique, the dreamlike attainability and elusiveness in order to captivate him once again. This time you have to use all your feminine art and craft to charm your lover into your arms.

This can be done by remaining aloof from him for quite some time. You may show yourself in small glimpses off and on. You may even say 'hi' if you happen to meet, but it should be like an acquaintance without stopping to prolong the meeting. Don't show any animosity or resistance.

Go for an attractive makeover. Buy new clothes. Get back to your old friends. Resume the unfinished tasks. Join a gym or a club. Bring back your old charming smile on your face and a mischievous twinkle in your eyes. Get on with your life as if nothing has happened.

But you might say you cannot act this drama.

You don't have to if you can't. You just try to be as natural as you were before you fell in love with your ex. Your mystique will automatically come back.

Remember, however, you have to be sincere in your intentions even if you are trying to be artful. Sincerity and truthfulness are, by their very nature, contagious. It is like a mother trying to be clever with her child to bring him on the path.

At the same time be accessible and responsive if your ex makes moves for reconciliation. Rest assured, the move is bound to come, if only you wait and be patient. This is the nature of love. It does not die easily. Sweet memories spring up again and again with renewed fervour. They make you forget the 'small human mistakes'. You yearn for the good old times as the bitterness fades away.

Whatever be the cause of your breakup with your lover, it may be infidelity, loss of interest and dispute for whatever reason, your relationship can be brought back to old love and warmth.

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