He HAS to make 6 figures!

I had to speak on this subject because it was far overdue! No pun intended with the photo, but this is not far From the truth. A vast majority of women out there, ask for what they do not have themselves. Then there is the group of successful women that are a part of the higher ranks of earning, but the men they are looking for to be their financial equal, those men aren't looking for them in return.

Now lets break this down and let me explain why most women miss out when they find men who are less than today's social standard! There are many case studies I can use, but let me use one scenario that I’m familiar with.

Lets take the Retired Military man who is 100 percent disabled. Now I’m not talking about a major disabilty (no pun) we’ll take a look at a Vet that has been disabled due to Military culture.

Before I get into my spill, if you value money and think that money is the driver in your life, then you operate on a low vibration! So we have a Military Vet, 100 percent perm/total, his benefits outweigh the earnings of a man making 120K a year. One benefit, in most states, waived or discounted taxes on your home. That’s an average of 6K a year not spent. Let me keep going! School for Kids and spouses through Chapter 35. That speaks savings across the board! So while most women are here talking about how much a man has to make, they are missing out on veterans with a load of benefits that measure way above a taxable yearly salary.

Make it make sense! This I why I say that if money is your motivation, then you are Operating on a low frequency and you need to start using common sense! Most women miss this boat because they are caught up in the Military stigma of a man being “crazy” because his disability is service connected!

There are so many perks such as vehicle registration discounts and airport parking depending on the state! These benefits are for life when a Veteran has a permanent and total status.

So ladies, if you encounter a Military Veteran who has both VA and SSDI disability or if he Only makes 70K on his job and has a disability of 100 percent, I suggest you do the mental math and not the financial math on the situation. Especially if you have Kids wanting a higher education and their biological father is nowhere in the picture!

Get off the Internet with all the unrealistic standards and requirements that women carry on men!

Now I Only touched the surface on this subject and yes I encourage proper vetting when it comes to Dating anyone! Having said that, I will say to undergo a vetting process involving a Military Veteran, there is an understanding of Military culture that is needed in this process!

So everyone who may be tagged as “crazy” based on social standards, if there is not an understanding on military culture; then the diagnosis on “crazy” when it comes to Military Vets is way off the reservation!

Also, not having a selfish attitude will open up so many possibilities! I see these unrealistic and out of touch requirements that women place on men and I understand why women are single by “choice”! I understand that you want a man who maybe not be on this planet, or not available because he is married or have 8 girlfriends, but there is still hope!

Use common sense!