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Have You Met Your Soul Lover?

Here’s what you need to know about the ultimate soul connection

By Kim PetersenPublished 3 years ago 9 min read
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Have You Met Your Soul Lover?
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“Our souls speak a language that is beyond human understanding. A connection so rare the universe won’t let us part.”

― Nikki Rowe

The soul lover relationship elevates love beyond any other type of love that you have ever experienced in this lifetime. Yes, it is as rare the above-mentioned quote. That is because the soul lover brings a love rooted in a spiritual connection that helps us find meaning and purpose in our lives. This type of soul connection is deep and intricate enough that once you’ve encountered each other, you are, for better or worse, forever changed. Simply put, the soul lover relationship is the ultimate soul connection.

Some say that you can dream your soul lover into life. Perhaps there is some truth to that notion. I mean, considering that a large part of our subconscious mind is a mystery, anything is possible in the realm of spirit and soul.

Have you ever dreamt about someone — a complete stranger, only to meet them a few days later?

It happens. Though, more often than not, I tend to believe that when someone significant is on the horizon, we may receive an inkling in the form of euphoric glimpses and feelings that we may not quite yet understand.

As if you know deep inside that someone important is coming. Someone like your soul lover.

Admittedly, I’m calling this a soul lover connection because this is someone who actually reflects you in-soul. Like the perfect mirror of who you are. They may share in your interests, dreams, fears, and insecurities, and for this reason the connection may often feel like both a blessing and a curse. If you aren’t ready for a relationship that is going to completely rock your world and transform you, then the door for your true soul lover to appear has not yet opened.

If you are one of the fortunate few who is on course to know someone who is set to impact your life in a most powerful way, you had better ready-up quick smart. Because this little soul journey comes with a no-return ticket to revolution; a bona-fide game-changer and catalyst to accelerated personal-growth — and we all know that that level of transformation means pain.

Thankfully, it also means that you will experience the greatest and most unforgettable love you’ve ever known.

Ah, the joys and blessings of soul lessons, huh?

So, what I’m saying is that when the cosmic door does open wide enough for you to recognize your soul lover for who they are, there is no force on this earth that could ever erase all that the connection reveals to you and about yourself.

There is no turning back or getting away from an encounter of this magnitude.

The Soul Lover for Duality

Soul lover relationships are said to be the top tier of the “soulmate” phrase, who will manifest in your life as an expression of duality. In other words, each of you offers and recognizes itself from the opposite as masculine and feminine energy of complementary duality. This is what people mean when they talk about the “other half”, and it also validates some truth of when we say how opposites attract.

Soul lovers are essentially an embodiment of yin and yang.

Your soul lover’s dark side balances out with your light side, and vice versa. For instance, if you fear taking risks, you may discover that your soul lover delights in the very art of risk-taking.

When soul lovers come together, they each offer an embodiment of either and a little bit of both the divine masculine and feminine energies.

You only ever have one true soul lover.

All soulmate relationships are the most powerful catalyst for change in our lives, but none so much as the soul lover relationship.

We’re talking more than a romantic soulmate, an influential soul partner, friendly soul tie or a karmic connection.

A soul lover is someone who will unravel your life in such a way that you will never be the same and nor will you ever quite recover from the encounter. They will ignite and activate long forgotten feelings and senses, implode your heart and hold a part of your soul forever hostage.

It is said that when true soul lovers find each other, the relationship tends to be the most passionate, the most chaotic, and the most powerful connection in the Universe.

In her article, The Impact of Soul Mate Relationships Towards Our Personal Growth, Sandra Kushnir breaks down the different types of soulmates that come into our lives. Here’s a quick overview:

Karmic Soulmates: are people who we have an intense but painful bond with. These people come into our lives and “rattle us up.” When we meet them, it feels like there is an instant familiarity and intensity with that person.

Soulmates: Soulmate relationships are not always romantic or crazy passionate. In fact, karmic soulmates have much more “intensity” then soul mate relationships …. We can fall in love with a soul mate and have a very easy relationship with them. There are unexplainable feelings of knowing, safety and trust with that person.

Twin Flames — Soul Lover: are one of the most powerful soulmate relationships that we experience. The twin flame relationship is complicated and stirs up our deepest shit.

The purpose of the twin flame relationship is not just passion and love, it is a relationship that raises the consciousness of the world. When twin flames come back together- their relationship is not just about sex or superficial dynamics, they come together to do something for the greater good of humanity.

All of this soulmate talk might sound a little on the esoteric side. Though, I believe it is safe to say that we all have a hunch that there is a lot more to us than flesh and blood. You know it deep down in your gut.

Right? You sense your intimate connection to other people in a way that can’t always be explained.

It manifests as the strange sensations and underlying feelings experienced when you meet someone for the first time, or that uncanny sense you’ve known someone long before they arrive in your life.

But has the cosmic door opened to your true soul lover?

Here are a few signals & signs relating to the soul lover connection that may help you determine whether or not he or she has touched your life:

Your Heart Pauses for a Beat

A soul lover is someone who makes you pause unexpectedly. You have an instant, instinctive and undeniably intense bond which unlocks an automatic inner-knowing they are meant for you.

How does it feel?

The first time you encounter your soul lover, you will receive a distinct energetic message which feels like a primitive part of you has been rekindled.

  • Your heart skips a beat (or two)
  • You feel as if this person has a special role to play in your life
  • You experience a divine “spidery” sense that your life-path was always leading toward meeting them
  • Your love compass goes wild
  • Nothing about it makes sense, despite that nothing else now feels more right

Your Soul Dances

“He touched my soul long before I knew what his hands felt like.”

― Nikki Rowe

It’s like a cosmic dance between the souls and it’s not even an entirely conscious thought. More the occasional sense of deep, intrinsic spirit intermingling which activates new thought pathways, ideas and creativity.

The soul dance that opens your heart to deep love.

How does it feel?

Like a compilation of binaural beats drumming through your aura and radiating into your being. Sometimes, it’s an out-of-tune duet which causes much confusion and pain, and other times, it feels like perfect soul-synergy.

  • You may feel as though you’re a larger version of yourself.
  • You begin to discover yourself in new ways
  • You immediately begin to visualize life beyond your limitations.
  • You sense the resurrection of a third “divine” energy between you
  • You feel an incredible new sense of positive energy encapsulate you, though you can’t seem to explain where it emanates

You Speak the Same Love Language

And you don’t even need to say it out loud. It’s as if the communication between you vibrates at a higher, harmonic frequency. This connection is so deep that you will usually experience similar feelings, thoughts and emotions, or even a flashback of a situation of which you have no recollection. As if from another lifetime.

Conversations can become so intense and electrically- charged. So much so, that when you connect, everything else can fall away into oblivion.

You will be able to communicate on all levels with your soul lover — spiritually and soulfully; as well as unique language in body, secrets cues, unusual sensations and intense dream visits.

How does it feel?

Umm… it can feel as if you might be losing your mind at times because the way you can connect to and sync with your soul lover is not like anything you’ve ever known before.

  • You come to recognize their energy as distinct and beautiful.
  • They feel like a piece of you that was always there without you being conscious
  • You feel a warm tingling feeling surrounding sections of your body when your energies connect — even from a distance
  • You begin to sense their focus on you as a familiar loving energy which makes your soul sing
  • You literally feel them in-soul

You Want to Merge with Your Soul Lover

This may sound totally strange, yet completely relatable to anyone who has encountered their lover-in-soul, and believe it or not, this isn’t just about sex.

There will be many moments along this soul journey when all you long to do is to merge back with your counterpart in the most unexplainable and intimate way.

It often appears as a very intense feeling of wanting to fuse in every way possible — through mind, body and soul. It is a very powerful and completely automatic sensation which often feels foreign and awkward at first. Yet, all you really want to do get as close to them as you can — if you could crawl inside their skin, you would do it a heartbeat.

Totally weird, I know. But extremely cool at the same time.

How does it feel?

Think of desire and multiply it by 1000. It feels like a deep, ancient relic has ignited within and seeks to reconcile with its ultimate mate.

Your soul lover will unleash your wild and very primitive sexuality which you experience as all-consuming moments of sensual burn.

  • You feel as if the yearning to be together is unquenchable
  • You feel an incredible ache drench in your soul during separation
  • You feel an exquisite sense of heat between your thighs at the mere thought of being close to them
  • You can literally detect their delicious sex-scent on and within you even when you’re not together

Soul Lovers Feel Like Home

People say this about others all the time, but in terms of true soul lovers’, home is the pure place of “being” — it’s where you are present, grounded and focused in the “now” moment with each other.

It’s a home that carries a heartbeat.

How does it feel?

  • Like a sense of belonging to a place you never knew that you wanted but somehow always needed
  • Like you could be standing in the midst of an apocalyptic event with them and hardly notice
  • Like the place where you don’t need or want for anything
  • As if there is nowhere else that you’d rather be, nor anyone else you want to be with
  • As if all of time ceases to exist
  • Like being together is medicine

Have you met your soul lover?

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Kim Petersen

Author | Writer | Aussie | Woman | Beautiful Delusion | Soul & Spirituality | Love | Humor | Sensual People | It’s the Revolution, Baby! | https://whisperinginkpress.com

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