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Giving up is also a kind of beauty

Learn to give up, turn around and leave before tears

By amy dancyPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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A lot of things, always after experience will understand. Like feelings, pain, will know how to protect themselves; Silly, will know when to adhere to and give up, in get and lose we slowly know themselves. In fact, life does not need so many meaningless persistence, nothing really can not give up. Learn to give up, life will be easier.

Learn to give up, turn around and leave before tears, leaving a simple figure; Learn to give up, buried in the bottom of my heart yesterday, leaving the best memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have a more relaxed start, covered all over with cuts and bruises of love is not necessarily engraved on my heart. This journey is not easy to get to today. Gently pull out your hand and say goodbye. Thank you very much for having you all the way. Once said love you, today, still love you. Just, love you, but can't be with you. As love the fire of the field, love it, but can not bring it home. Every feeling is beautiful, and every journey is intoxicating. It's the regret we can't have that makes us feel more attached; It is the sleepless thoughts that make us feel more reluctant to stay. Love is a questionnaire without an answer, hard pursuit can not make life more satisfactory. Perhaps a little regret, a trace of sadness, will make this answer more meaningful, also more long.

Pick up the mood, continue to go, miss the flower, you will harvest rain; I missed her and I met you. Keep walking and you will reap your beauty.

A person who never wants to lose you may not be the one who loves you or loyal to you. Sometimes it's just this kind of irrational possessiveness that makes them do all kinds of things that "hurt others but not benefit themselves" and take it for granted.

In the heart if there is "once owned, never lose" paranoia and possessiveness, the more you want to get a permanent guarantee of love, will only go more and more deviated.

Who says if you like something, you have to have it. Sometimes, some people, in order to get what he likes, will sweat, painstakingly, even will do anything, and even go to the extreme. Maybe he got what he liked, but in the process of his pursuit, what he lost was incalculable, and the price he paid was more than what he gained. Perhaps the price will be heavy, and he will not discover it until the end. You don't have to get something to like it. Sometimes in order to force the same thing and make their own physical and mental exhaustion, it is not cost-effective. Moreover, some things are "to be seen at a distance, not up close". Once you get it, you may find it is not as good as you thought over time. I think you will be upset if you find that what you have lost and given up is more precious. Therefore, there is often a saying "what you can't get is always the best." So when you like something, getting it may not be your smartest choice.

Who says like a person must be with her. Sometimes, some people, in order to be with the one they like, they do not hesitate to use the most primitive method of "one cry, two make trouble, three hang", in order to retain their lover. Maybe it keeps the lover, but it doesn't keep her heart. More even, for the sake of this at the cost of their own young and brilliant life, it may evoke a lover's response, but it also brought her more guilt and remorse, and anxiety, happiness will wave goodbye to her. In fact, like a person, not necessarily with her together, although some people often say that "don't care about enduring as the universe, only care about once owned", but not everyone will be happy. Like a, the most important thing is to make her happy, because her happiness will affect your mood. So there is also the saying "you are happy, so I am happy."

Like something, we must learn to appreciate it, cherish it, make it more precious.

If you like a person, you should make her happy, make her happy and make the feeling more sincere. If you can't do it, let it go! So sometimes, some people, also have to learn to give up, because giving up is also a kind of beauty.

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