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Fine Dining

A Man should treat a Woman to the Experience

By Jay LeTron DobbinsPublished about a year ago Updated about a year ago 4 min read
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Fine Dining
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Excuse the method to my madness, but there many levels when it comes to fine dining. I can remember when I was on a date as a novice and a young woman and I were about to enjoy a good meal. Me, not knowing and lacking couth, the server poured a sample amount of wine in my glass. I gave the server a strange look and told him not to be shy and fill my glass up. Knowing what I know now, she could have crawled under the table after my top tier restaurant decorum.

Outside of my developing manners for fine dining, I also became aware that it is the man's duty to treat a women to the fine dining experience at least once if possible during the courting stage. Lets just assume for the moment that she is worthy of a good time out and she is the one worth impressing. I am going to tell why this should be done and what type of women this should do this for. we are going to try to stay away from $$$ and pay attention to sacrifice and effort. This is one of the reasons why dating within income levels can hold a certain degree of importance.

No, by far I do not claim to be a dating expert, I just want to share my experience and hopefully someone will build a better understanding with their desires when it comes to future dating. We all do things differently and there is more than one way to skin a cat. However, there is nothing more satisfying in a woman, when she sees a man that is willing to impress her and give her the feeling as if no other person in the world matters.

There is a step to this process. This is why conversation, by way of voice communication (phone, coffee house) is so important before the investment of the whole paycheck is spent on a meaningless event, that was not worth the investment. Now side note to this, brothers. If the woman is making 6 plus figures, the chances are low that Applebee's will impress here. I know that I earlier said not to focus on $$$, but we still have to be realistic and this is why the conversation is so important on the front end so time is not wasted. There is never a sure thing and sometimes vibes just don't connect. Know if she is worth it or not and take the time to talk to her to confirm a true connection before going on an actual date.

So how can a man show sacrifice? First, go above and beyond if she is worth it! One way to figure out if she is worth it, start out doing small, low-level type stuff and notice her reaction. This is good medicine I'm giving. Start with a simple card with some candy attached to it and wait for her reaction. Now whatever the method, it has to be original and something she is not use to seeing. This is why communication is key! Find out what she is use to and try to do things that she likes, but has never seen before. Careful thought and consideration is key and when it comes to fine dining, paying for dinner is only the tip is the iceberg.

This method may not work for the woman with the "date them all, sis" mindset. A date is nothing to her than a number and she is dating maybe three times (or more) a week. What one man my think of spending $300 for a meal is breaking the bank, she may have just received a $600 night out from the other guy. However, it is important that a man show the woman of interest that they are willing to go beyond their norm to impress her because taking a woman to Applebee's is just too common. Fine dining requires thought and consideration. Yes, making reservations. Using the "Open Table" app is a fine place to start if there is a discomfort level when making reservations. Nothing more commanding, or sexy as a man saying to a woman, "I have reservations at 8, lets go to dinner!". Now if there a concern about dropping your tray, then we have to do a little more thinking about the fine dining experience. Nonetheless, whatever the dating experience, it is good to show a woman that she is worth it and let the chips fall where they may from the efforts and sacrifice. Expect nothing in return, and this will display the caliber of woman from her response. Sidenote to the woman reader, the expectation is for her to show appreciation in her own way. No man can tell a woman how to show appreciation. Bro, pay for that meal, leave the tip and keep it moving.

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About the Creator

Jay LeTron Dobbins

Casual writer! Love to express in print! Tell people how you feel and love life to the fullest with no regrets. Try to say something good about a person when they can hear it, and not when they are gone! Love like no tomorrow.

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  • Tim Xenos8 months ago

    Interesting article.

  • Sports trending about a year ago

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