Fall out of love

Being in love is a great and beautiful feeling but when you fall out of love with that person you was so in love with is no more. You tell them you love them still but no longer in love with them they can’t except it. They force their feelings unto you even though you don’t feel the same way. But since you shared many years together they say that should matter, I don’t think it should because if you no longer happy why stick around. Why do they want to stick around if they are not getting the love they used to. They fear of knowing that the person could do and be better without them. They want to stay there for their on selfish reasons.

Even if you stick around where you are not wanted you only hurting yourself more because you hanging on to what it used to be and not what it is now. Being in an unhealthy and unhappy relationship with the person that is rejecting you could end up very bad. The person going to end up cheating on you constantly and telling you about it then you feel worse than what you felt before. Rejection is not a good feeling, you will want everyone to suffer that had nothing to do with your relationship and when there is no one left for you to take it out on you will turn on the person that rejected you and it will get out of hand where one person or both persons get hurt.

If y’all have kids involved the best option is to do what is right for the kids and yourself. Get counseling or help to fix the relationship that was broken or to go separate ways without no hard feelings. Even if you don’t want to take that lost y’all have to come to an agreement for the both of you including the kids. Love can be a wonderful thing or a dangerous thing. Choose your path , choose your life and make sure you okay with the decision you have made.

Happiness , communication, financially set , and respect for each other. The saying is it’s better to love and lose then not to love at all. Be true to yourself, love yourself as you want others to love you. Know your worth and treat people the way you want people to treat you.

Arguing is part of a relationship but it has its limits to it. Know how far to go and know when to stop ahead before things come out you will regret and you cannot take back. Be careful on how you word things or say things to protect each others feelings. The main thing in a relationship is never go to bed upset or angry because you or your mate may not wake up in the morning to see each other and ask each other for forgiveness or even say sorry.

Relationships also has to have an understanding on space to one self. That means take time out to do what you like and take care of yourself also. When you both have taken time out for yourselves then set time for one another to make a date to keep the romance. If you still feel that you don’t have the connection you used to and you’ve tried everything including counseling then it’s really time to go separate ways before anybody gets hurt.

Both parties have to come to that agreement that it’s not working anymore because y’all just don’t have that understanding or feel like there is no future between y’all. At first yes the separation will be hard on both of you because y’all had never separated before. You both know it will not be easy but y’all have to do this to see if there is a chance y’all will get back together or actually go through the divorce. During the separation find yourself and find out what you want to do with your life. In this long journey ahead keep your head up and know your standards and what you stand for.