EMOTY

Ebony Male of the Year! One has to believe in order to walk in confidence. Not to be self-centered or thinking that I am above anyone else, but walking in that level of confidence is the only thing a male can call his own and no one can take that away.

An Ebony male walks in integrity and pride. He is fully heterosexual in every sense, but he respects the thoughts and orientation of others. The EMOTY walks with purpose and not empty pleasure. His desire is to secure one woman, but have an honest time during his search of finding that one lady that will satisfy him in all areas.

The EMOTY walks in full support of his fatherhood and takes pride in every aspect of it. His desire to construct the mind of his offspring to blossom into beautiful adults is a never-ending project. Some may find it avoidance, when a woman of substance finds attractiveness in the way he relates to his kids.

The state of EMOTY is acknowledging in every sense that he desires a woman and wants to be with a woman that desires him. Not for his possessions; just for his company, love, touch, conversation and just being there.

EMOTY is every level of natural confidence that gives of organic sex appeal. In any dress, or casual clothing; he is confident enough to approach a woman in any setting. He doesn't need a drink to get him in chill mode or a smoke to get his mode right. EMOTY is always in a state of constant being and secure in every sense of his manhood.

EMOTY is the gentleman's gentle of all things. Opening doors and doing traditional things for the woman he desires is second nature to him. When many today may call it "simpin", there is a strong need to bring traditional men back on the horizon and let women know that it is quite OK to luv respectfully and unconditionally.

EMOTY doesn't Netflix and chill! A desire for a candlelight dinner and a soft atmosphere with a women of true appreciation is a constant desire. No matter how many women think that the good men are gone and the days of chivalry are long over, here stands EMOTY.

Not ready to be anyone's emotional door mat, but expects a woman to have her mental together and willing to grow with a mental foundation. A mental connection is far better than sexual and when two are on the same mental link, there is nothing on this Earth that can break them.

EMOTY has no interest in wild sexual behavior. With all the STDs running from one body to the next, there is a need for a hard pass and think about a solid foundation with a woman.

Any man with the mindset of EMOTY, is serious about setting a financial foundation that can take care of his love ones, but yet not his money rule over anything he is responsible for. For the love has to be greater than the discipline, and the heart has to lead in a logical sense.

EMOTY again can be any man, so I was not speaking in third-person. I was speaking of a state of being! EMOTY should be a goal, but yet a constant evolution of love. Leaning to grow and adjusting to circumstances and situations while holding integrity and pride at the same time.

EMOTY is that man in a 3-pc suit!

EMOTY is that man holding the door for a woman!

EMOTY is that constant rock of love, willing not to favor for another!