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Don't think too much if you love me.

From a different perspective, Mo Heng's "relationship agreement" is not odd

By aaliyah kalePublished 2 years ago 6 min read
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After the broadcast of "Love Me, Don't Think Too Much", you can see many people on the internet are spitting out ruined views, but it doesn't stop people from continuing to catch up. It feels a bit interesting to see the relationship agreement. Although people like Mo Heng (played by Pan Yueming) are not common, it is conceivable that some more serious people, after being frustrated in their relationships, may indeed make some strange moves. And compared to Li Honghai (played by Chen Jianbin), Mo Heng is not so odd.

Usually, we feel that feelings are difficult to measure, love is love, do not love is not love, it is difficult to say clearly, and the signing of the relationship agreement, indeed a little special. When normal girls see Mo Heng take out the agreement, they often look at him strangely, say he's a psycho, and leave. Some girls will also feel very interesting, will also open a few eyes, when see the strange terms inside, most will not feel that he is humorous, and finally will also look at him with strange eyes, turn away.

Mo Heng had been hurt by feelings before, each time the relationship is not short, the last to be hurt or he, therefore, he is determined to list the terms clearly first, said in advance, not annoyed afterwards, suitable for further development, unsuitable and then like not to stay.

Mo Heng and Yang Liya (Zhang Shu) met on the matchmaking program "Love at First Sight". Yang Liya had been in love with her boyfriend Zhao Wenbo (Zhu Tie) for many years, but found out that he was already married, and when she met such a deceitful person, Yang Liya broke up with him decisively, but Zhao Wenbo kept on being stubborn and refused to let go.

Mo Heng and Yang Liya meet for the first time and leave a good impression on her. After introducing the basic situation to each other, Mo Heng saw Yang Liya speak cleanly and presumably she was a straightforward person, so she opened up and asked her what kind of person she liked, Yang Liya was annoyed at Zhao Wenbo's deception and opened her mouth, saying, "What kind of type I like, it's not easy to say now, but what type I hate, I can tell you right away. I hate men who lie, do not lie, is the most basic requirement for my partner.

Mo Heng felt there was a play, he was the type of person who would not lie.

He told Yang Liya that he didn't guarantee anything else, but he definitely met the requirements.

During the live show, Yang Liya asked Mo Heng directly how to stay honest in a relationship. Mo Heng's answer made her happy. Mo Heng said that many people talk well when they first get together, but later on they can't hold on, and if two people promise to be together, the most important thing is to do what they say.

These answers invariably poked Yang Liya, she met a dishonest boyfriend, the next relationship does not want to encounter similar things, Mo Heng is a good choice.

However, when Mo Heng brought out the relationship agreement, Yang Liya still turned away like a normal girl, not feeling that this person is reliable. But faced with Zhao Wenbo's stalking, she needed a boyfriend as a shield. After careful consideration, she contacted Mo Heng again and was willing to sign a relationship agreement.

Mo Heng proposes a relationship agreement in order to do what he says he will do and to put an extra layer of restraint on the relationship, while Yang Liya has another purpose, their relationship was not really a relationship, so the agreement seems less strange at this point.

Mo Heng's concept of love, after being hurt, became somewhat deformed, he put the agreement in front of his feelings, willing to accept, but also most of the girls with other purposes.

So, a dramatic scene appeared, the two sat down and began to negotiate the terms of the agreement. Yang Liya at this point instead put Mo Heng in a position to redefine many of the terms of the agreement according to his own requirements.

Yang Liya proposed that the relationship agreement lasted for one month, and if it was not suitable, they should not waste each other's time, which made sense to Mo Heng. During the relationship, they had to meet every day, which Mo Heng felt a little overwhelmed. Both of them had jobs, so it was unrealistic to meet every day, and he proposed to meet twice a week. Yang Liya disagreed, she had many reasons, love is to promote mutual understanding, do not meet how to understand, and do not want to fall in love. Finally both sides took a step back and reached a consensus to meet three times a week, plus a mobile meeting time.

On the surface, they look like two people in the business world, negotiating the terms of the contract, but from another perspective, after the marriage of a woman, let her husband sign and write a pledge thing is still less?

Mo Heng's relationship agreement is exactly what Yang Liya wants to see. Usually when you see an agreement, you always feel like you're the one being bound, worrying that you're losing out, but you don't know that the reason it's called an agreement is that you can negotiate the terms, and Yang Liya uses these terms, in turn, to bind Mo Heng, which isn't a bad idea.

Many feelings in life, are only to see the surface of some phenomena, to draw hasty conclusions, sometimes, the appearance does not matter, many things have a solution.

The seemingly odd person may contain gem-like qualities, and the seemingly high-quality man may not be pure inside.

Zhao Wenbo is an example, with Yang Liya for three years, but cheated her for three years, such a man on the surface, is a professor, appearance is also good, treat people very satisfactory, but conceal the fact that married, and then more merits also become junk stock.

When you meet a man who is willing to sign an agreement with you, to cherish, such people at least have requirements for themselves, do things with a bottom line, on the contrary, people who are not willing to sign an agreement, but often have a lot of little things in their hearts.

But then again, true love, there is no agreement will love, not love, signed the agreement is useless.

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