Do Men Ever Know What They Want

Men absolutely do not know what the hell they want or what they do not want, you can not win with men. One minute they want you to be a fierce, sexy, temptress and then the next minute they think you are flirting with every guy you see as if that means you are acting like a slut or dressing like a hooker. They tell you that they want you to be their queen, but then they do not treat you like their queen . They treat you like you are their property or you are their trophy, but they do not treat you like you are their queen, they do not treat you like you are the best thing that ever happened to them. They want it to be their way or no way. Many times they want a strong independent woman who is not going to be a gold digger who does not want them for their money who doesn't want them for what they can do for that woman ,but then they act like that woman can not do anything by herself like she has to ask the man's permission, has to ask him what her kids can do and when her kids can do it If she can hang around certain friends, or if she can spend money , if she can buy these items men do not know what they want. As soon as they get it they do not take care of it. Men do not understand that women are like flowers. You take a flower and you plant it in the garden, but is that flower , is that rose or lilac going to grow with out sunshine and with out water to live or they just going to die right there in the ground? These men, they chase the women they get, the women that they forget .These women are delicate flowers that they need to give love to ,that they need to let see the sunshine so that they can grow. That give them water so that they can flourish and they can stay healthy and alive until that day that woman wants to take that flower out of the garden. We are flowers ,men, we are beautiful purple lilacs. We are big red roses you can not treat us like a monster truck. You need to treat us like a purple lilac ,you need to give us love and care and appreciate us and not treat us like dirt. Do not treat us like we are whatever slime at the bottom of your shoe do not treat us like we are your punching bag, treat us like we are something that you love ,l we are something that you care about. Treat us like you actually appreciate us and what we do for you. Especially men that are incarcerated. Why is it that you guys are the ones that really treat us the worst? We could have any of the men out here in the free world ,but yet we choose to be with you. That does not mean that we choose to be disrespected or that we choose to be treated like crap. We choose to be with you because we love you, we appreciate you, we need you. We choose to be with you because you are our husbands, you are our kids father. You are our best friends. We are flowers men... treat us with love and care. Give us water, give us sunshine, and most of all give us credit for what we do for you . Give us support and respect and I promise you that you are not going to lose the one person that you claim to love. You are not going to lose that person that you claim as everything to you, not if you can take care of your woman like she is your flower.