DISRESPECT

Let’s start by saying WTF!!!!!

Let’s talk about the men in today’s world. Inconsiderate, liars, manipulators, narcissistic... do I need to keep going or do we all get the point?

I feel like the guy made for me got hit by a train. I’m sure many women feel this just as much as me!!!

So, here’s my story. I’ve been dating this guy for a little over a year and a half and let me just explain the DISRESPECT!!! I could list many things that have happened within this year and a half but we’d be here for years. Just a few things that have triggered me are stupid, and I should have never given any more chances. We first started dating and he’s sleeping with me and his ex, and I forgive him.... WHAT WAS I THINKING!! Ladies just leave don’t even give chances it doesn’t get better. He’s really good with words so I thought. Me being dumb keeps letting him get away with lies, and cheating I become so blindsided by all of it. I finally say I’m done after he leaves and stays in a different town all weekend, ignores me all day and night... but, here comes the words that we all seem to stupidly fall for!! JUST DONT!!! “Oh, I didn’t do anything wrong just stayed in hotel with a married couple and another girl” wtf dude!!! So once again here I am forgiving him and who knows what happened right... walking hours to get to my car because he gets mad blah blah blah I could go on and on!!!

LETS GET TO MY FINAL DEAL BREAKER!

Acting weird with his phone! It always makes me question what’s happening. What do I do when he goes to sleep ... we can all guess i’d say. I went through it and I found most recent was ONLY FANS!!! He’s subscribing to girls.. which means paying girls for videos and nudes, and talking to them every single day!!!!!! I find other things on his phone as well. But, my petty self leaves the app up on his phone so when he woke up it was definitely known I saw it... SURPRISE 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 He text me saying I see you had fun on my phone.... FUN!!! Dude, what part of this is fun. Best part he tries denying all of it when I have proof... you can’t make this crap up. ALL HE SAYS BACK IS OK. Nothing the entire day after that, and has my stuff packed when I get to his house after work... tell me that doesn’t scream I screwed up big and can’t look into her eyes!!! 👌🏻👌🏻

So my thoughts are hiding messages, paying for nudes, and lying about all of it when I have proof is CHEATING!!!!

LADIES STOP SETTLING FOR CRAP MEN!

I will never again beg for the basic forms of love. You should always trust your partner, and never have to worry about who they are constantly talking to. Do better for yourself and kick him to the curb!!!!!

It takes time to get over it but I promise it Gets way better!!!!! You feel like you’re not walking on egg shells any longer, you’re not crying yourself you sleep, or worrying. Just give it time and life will be so much better.

This may not help anyone but I know hearing my story out loud makes me really think to myself. Why did I keep giving chances knowing they won’t change for you? Do yourself a favor and get out before you waste days, month, and years on a scum bag who doesn’t appreciate anything about you!

With love 🤍

Kale’s