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Did you want to attract a Girl: I will help you!

Here you will understand how to attract a girl.

By Anshul Singh TomarPublished 4 years ago 5 min read
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How can people be drawn! Each man wants to know this when he dates and decides to have relations with women. This is also the holy grail of all men's problems in the cycle of seduction. Most times, men think it's more complex than it really is, but really it's pretty simple!

What's that making me say?

As a woman who works with men to help them master the art of attraction and to achieve results, I do show you the NO BS answers about how women think and how they can attract women. I will give you the view that because I am a woman myself, no one ever listens or knows!

This is definitely one of my most favorite blogs because I know it works, and I will give you results that get you to change the way you attract women. You'll remember in this essay that I'll go through everything you need to know to target women effectively. I will not inform you on seeing her, helping her, being good to her, no! While respect is incredibly important, I can not give you real results. Ready?

I love to hear from you so after reading this blog, please comment with your thoughts and questions.

Make A Girl Attracted To You

The way you handle this situation will make a huge difference, so let's look at what you need to know.

In your life you have consistency as to who you are as a human. If you are not going to be wanted by one particular woman, you know that another woman will want you! You're not doing things to make her like you, you know you're appropriate and you don't believe women are better than you.

You are not addicted to an outcome

You do not seek validation from another guy, and when you meet women, even when you find a girl you want, you do not achieve a particular outcome. You don't force the woman to like you, because you come from an attitude that, although you may like her, with or without her you are all right. When you begin to attach yourself to an outcome or expect this woman in the dating phase, you risk becoming needy and over-supportive.

What value can I offer someone without expectations

Don't say, "What can I get out of this and what will I get from it?" Just look at it without any hopes and be at this moment. Tell her that you are made with dignity and are your best self.

Unapologetically honest mindset

You won't say "You look fat in that dress," but you have your own opinions, so don't be afraid to reply to anything you might or might not agree with. People don't want someone to compromise with them psychologically.

Value your time to see if this woman is worth it

Most times men cling to the woman's beauty and fall for that and don't realize what is beneath the surface. Find out the worth of this woman. Do you want something drastic or do you just like to have fun?

You show up powerfully

Just know who you are and you don't want to be anybody else. Take your strength and do not hold back what you want and claim. When you concentrate on more than the woman in front of you, you are powerful; a focus on life.

Compassionate and patient

Some people simply insult something, and a woman says all that. You ought to be someone who isn't very easily irritated. Otherwise, it will prove you can manipulate other people's emotions and have a fast fusion. It shows a woman that you can not be calm and control your emotions.

You embrace failures with confidence

How you view your mistakes as lessons and how you are at the moment things don't go shows your character, so you embrace faults with trust and balance. Make sure you build the tools you need to prevent future problems.

How can a guy attract a woman by ignoring need and push?

Note, in pursuing a woman, it isn't so much about focusing on her that you lose your own sense of self-worth and integrity. Several times, you can be your own worst enemy by placing a great deal of pressure on yourself to please a woman if it isn't that necessary. Why? Why? And I know when a guy pushes himself to impress me as a woman who was at the dating game, and it leaves me less interested and less fascinated. The difference between pursuing and being in need is important, and I think the breakdown is important in attracting women.

Pursuing:Claiming a date and being assertive in the path you go with her. Show her that you don't want to be a nice guy but you're organizing her dates, testing her every single time and making sure she starts too. On dates you build chemistry and think about more than stuff on the table. You don't hate to think about your dreams, but you've got an attitude that also tells you that if you don't like it, you're all right. You are in demand and may even be in competition with other ladies. It is important to understand that women are naturally drawn and stimulated by male powers. During the first couple of days, follow her, make fun, be positive, but also be OK with space. If you spend the whole weekend together because all is good, make sure that you realize that it won't be every weekend and that you won't have a specific outcome.

Needy: You are committed to a certain goal and you want to be in it now and imagine it when you get there. Therefore, you can respond out of need and answer her texts in such an offensive or grasping manner that your feelings are not harmonized with abundance and honesty. The # 1 explanation for this is because you are automatically committed to a certain outcome and you are not sure about how this dating process will work between you both. You might even get into a "scarcity attitude," where you think she dates other guys and you get jealous and bring up small things that scare her away rather than draw her.

ThankYou!

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About the Creator

Anshul Singh Tomar

I can define myself as a Design Thinker with a diversified portfolio of portals which includes Ecommerce Reviews, Job/Career, Recruitment, Real Estate, Education, Matrimony, Shopping, Travel, Email, Telecom, Finance and lots more.

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