"City with Love" opens a radio station for professional volunteers to help you solve your emotional problems

On the morning of May 17, a citizen of Yiwu called "Emotion radio" for consultation, volunteer Pan Jiandong patiently answered the questions for him. "After more than two months of careful preparation, we opened the 'emotion station' in Jindu community," Pan told reporters. "Not many people know about Love Radio, so we want to spread the word and help people solve more relationship problems." Pan Jiandong, a volunteer, is a psychological consultant at "Emotion Radio". More than 10 years ago, Pan Jiandong came to Yiwu from Wenzhou business, has been engaged in jewelry industry. Talking about his career change to become a psychological consultant, Pan Jiandong is full of emotion, has always said that "marriage is not easy". "When I was young, I had simple ideas, and there was a big difference in personality between me and my wife. Neither of us knew how to manage marriage, so we often quarreled." "It's not just us," Pan told reporters. "Many people have problems in their marriages. Some families break up because the couple can't solve the problems. According to statistics released by the Zhejiang Provincial High People's Court on the causes of divorce in 2018, the most common reason for divorce was trivial matters in life, accounting for 34.21 percent. The lack of marriage education in many families leads to problems in marriage that go unsolved. Therefore, I began to study psychological counseling and gradually learned how to solve family conflicts, hoping to use my professional knowledge to help more people." In order to find more like-minded people, Pan started to set up a professional mediation team in 2018, and helped people solve their emotional problems by joining public welfare organizations, entering the city's marriage registration center, and opening a "emotion radio". After more than a month of mediating more than 60 couples to form a team, Pan jiandong began to connect with local public welfare organizations in Yiwu, hoping to bring psychological counseling to everyone through the public welfare platform. "Many of our members have become volunteers of Love in the City, taking part in charity activities through the platform." "Since September last year, we have been going to the Detention center in Yiwu regularly to provide psychological counseling, psychological classes and 'sunshine help' for detainees," Pan said. Since April, Pan's professional mediation team has been working at the marriage and Family Guidance center of the city's marriage registration center to help resolve marital conflicts. Zhang Cange, from Jiangsu province, goes to a marriage registration center almost every week to mediate. "I used to deal with many 'troubled children' whose problems were caused by 'troubled families', so I joined the mediation team last year to help those' emotionally troubled families'," Zhang, who originally worked as a child educator, told the reporter. According to statistics, so far, Zhang Cange and other volunteers have mediated for more than 60 couples seeking divorce, at least two couples a day, some of the couples also left their phone numbers, hoping to continue consulting. "We found in mediation that some divorcing couples are impulsive, unable to resolve accumulated conflicts, so they choose to divorce," zhang said. Through our mediation, the knot was untied, and many couples who wanted to divorce gave up the idea of divorce." Volunteers have found that many couples divorce silently, with no one around them knowing about it and no one to help them in time. Other wives confide in their "unreliable" best friends, getting bad advice and even exacerbating conflicts. "We set up the 'emotion radio' in the hope that people can seek professional help when they want to divorce or encounter psychological problems," pan said. It is reported that under the support of the Choujiang Street Party Working Committee and Jindu community Party Committee, the city Youlove Public Welfare Association launched the "Heart Station" emotional radio public welfare project, and opened the "emotional radio" hotline studio in Jindu community, and officially opened the hotline on May 11. The "emotion radio" provides the public with counseling services on marriage, parent-child relationship and personal psychology. Every Monday, Wednesday and Friday, volunteers are on duty at the "Emotion Radio" from 9:30 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. to provide counseling services. "Feeling station" hotline telephone for 85012356. People in need of psychological counseling can also call 4008941314.