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I just wanna know if any women or men go through these type of problems after parting ways with a not so sane ex that I am currently dealing with. I have been divorced now for almost 4 years but my ex refuse to let me go. I’m gonna start this from the beginning of our end.

January 2017 was the end of the rope for him and me from my perspective. He put his cowardly hands on me for the very last time. I made sure of that by promising myself to never let him back in my house after the police escorted him out. 2017 was the year of my transition from that horrible relationship to reconnecting with my self.

That whole year was full of the most turbulence, getting a divorce from him was hell. He tried to deny me and prolong the divorce as long as his abusive ass possibly could. It was finally finalized in November 2017. Such a long drawn out process.

Shortly after that, he decided to spar with me in court again for custody of our daughter whom at the time was 11. That was another 12 months of being forced to see him just for him to not participate in family therapy with her and loose all custody. Our daughter who has witnessed many of his terrorist acts against me did not want anything to do with him or his family. His family is big on enabling him no matter what he did and she became aware of that very early on. Til this day he finds it his mission to blame me for him not having a relationship with his daughter.

Throughout all that time during the divorce and custody battle he found time to countlessly disrespect and drag me every chance he got.; Texting, Social Media, Through common friends... I mean anyway he found suit. He even would send men my way to cause failed dating experiences. I’m just like BRUH get a life! Why choose to use all your energy to be negative.I find it quite annoying and over the top stalkerish. You might be wondering 🤔 how does she know about the weirdos who actually agreed to participate in his goofy games? Well I’m very intuitive and witty. Also, these certain men all ask the same things and they all have behaved in a similar manner. Then to top it off after I block there number or ghost them, here comes my ex calling and texting. Still being disrespectful and annoying 🙄that’s a whole other story though.

I recently moved but of course he found out where I live shortly after🙄. How did he find out🤷🏽‍♀️?... I’m sure your wondering. This man went and got an old laptop of mine fixed just to hack into my Gmail account and actually tried to lock me out of my own shit! 🤬!! He had enough time to go through a few emails and found my new address from a Groupon order 🤦🏽‍♀️.

Since then he has let me know via text a few times he saw me coming home 👀... I got a order of protection now😐. When people in general make time for these types of actions, I find it very much so PSYCHOTIC! I was so disappointed in myself after that for not protecting my privacy better😑, I mean damn is this the repercussions of having that super soaker W.A.P! LBS!!!

I just want a good hearted SANE REAL MAN that’s genuine and loyal to me🤷🏽‍♀️ That totally deserves me in every way. My ex seems to be trying to slow that down from happening although I know whatever is for me will gravitate to me when the time presents itself. Guess I gotta warn any serious suitors that if they can’t handle having a good kind respectful dedicated beautiful woman who apply that pressure; Don’t come for me.

I definitely don’t want anyone with narcissistic sociopathic manipulative tendencies like my ex, I have learned how to spot that bull🤬 a mile away now after that relationship. I want to know if anyone, ladies or gentlemen have good sound advice for this problem. Who got answers, comments and suggestions for me?