Can you sleep with your bestie?

Ever heard of “Friends with Benefits”? Some have heard ….

(Friends with Benefits is a friend who has sleep with us.)

Friends with Benefits

Now we usually have sleep with a lover, or with a husband or wife. Beyond that there is either One Night Stand — that is, the scene where you end up having sleep the day you meet. Or it’s mostly sent in the Friends with Benefit type. That means two friends agree to keep their friend fit and have sleep together. But it is not an easy task. Eventually the friendship can be lost and the work can end. So for something like Friends with Benefit, or before having sleep with a friend, it’s worth reading these tips …!

🔺1. Friends say not friends either!

Do not be confused. This is a story. Now we can have a friend on the opposite side. That is to say, he can say anything, he can talk in the middle of the night and express the upset in his heart. But remember. If you go to have sleep with a friend like that, things will go awry. A friend who actually agrees to have sleep with us cannot be our best friend. More than that, it’s best to go to a Friends with Benefits job with a friend who has a strong sexual attraction but does not have a strong friendship.

🔺2. Is trust maximum?

Nowadays it is very easy to find friends. All you need is a Facebook account or a Twitter account. But it is very dangerous to have faith in the friendly fish that you find in such cyberspace. So remember, before having sleep with a friend, think about how much we can trust our friend. This is not just limited to nude photos and videos. A relationship with friends and benefits that we think we keep secret can sometimes be exposed to the world by those who think they are friends. So don’t even think about having sleep with the friends who sent the request yesterday and accepted today. Before that, let the trust build.

🔺3. Both on the same page!

The friends who watched the movie ‘Friends with benefits’ know about the other sympathy if they are not on the same page when having sleep with a friend. On the same page, they both deal with their confidence as they choose to embark on their play activities. Now, in the story ‘Friends with Benefits’, there is no love but friendship. But both of you need to be aware that love is not just about sleep, it’s just about friendship. Otherwise only heartbroken will be left. So before you have sleep, both of you should use good communication skills to have a discussion about what you want and what you do!

🔺4. Don’t jump off the page!

In fact, we say in theory that ‘Friends with Benefits’ is difficult to do in practice without having as many love feelings as possible when having sleep with a friend. Because, when we have sleep with someone, we may unknowingly fall in love with that person. So one thing that can be done is to openly understand one’s limitations. That means you have to understand that the friend who actually has sleep with you cannot be ‘just another friend’. Then their life can be made “our secret” which is special only for two friends. Benefits can care more about a friend than any other. But if you feel that this is developing into love, you should immediately stop having sleep and go to a serious talk. If the two of them are still on the same page, that is, if both of them have developed a love for each other, then they can be lovers!

unexpected love

🔺5. Be open about passions!

Really having sex with a friend is because we have a sexual attraction to the friend. And because he is a friend, he is more likely to talk openly about what he likes and dislikes. That’s a big advantage. So it is good for both of you to be open about your sexual fantasies and hidden passions. You can also experiment with those things. The last thing you really want is for the two of you to have a good time. It’s a good idea to have an open conversation about the two of yours desires to go to that fun place where you’ve had sleep with your friend.

🔺6. Beware of what other friends say!

Usually, two friends, especially two who are sexually attracted to each other and have sleep with each other, are more prominent when they are with their other common friends. If it is two people of the opposite sex, it will intensify with the common beliefs of the society. For example, if you see two people who are just friends but have a life caring a little more about each other, other friends will think that they are lovers. After that, the two friends in the queue officially make love to Troy and finally get married. Sometimes that’s what happens when people in the house are suspected of giving too. But when influenced by such an outside society, we too can just wonder what would happen if we married him. Do not fall into that trap. Such a thing can only happen if things like that number 4 happen.

🔺7. What if there is love even when it is not possible?

That’s the problem. Those are the things that can happen. That is why it is good to be physically ready for such an eventuality. As we said before, if this is a love affair between the two of you, you can grab Friends with Benefits and move on to something more serious. But are we the only ones who have romantic feelings? What if he only has a special friend who has sleep with you? The best thing to do here is to openly express your feelings. Without that there is no way to know if he is like that. But if he does not, he must make a decision immediately. The decision is whether to continue having sleep with Friends or Benefits, or whether to end the relationship with Friends in Benefits with good intentions. In any case, if he is very close to her, but he does not have such a thing in mind for us, it is good for us to stay away from our friendship for a while. Or you may not be able to make up your mind. Otherwise, they may decide to stay in the dating scene, even though they may still have romantic feelings. But if you make such a risky decision, it is important to remember that it is not good to be your boyfriend, to be with him, in short, to go beyond the boundaries of being a special friend.

If you can be careful and do not jump out of bounds, if you two are sure if you both like to have sleep as friends, what happens if you enjoy life with both of you ??