Break up's VS Continuing relationships

Let's talk about these two most difficult stages in an individuals life where this makes it so confusing for both the parties in a relationship phase.Breaking up with the person you have loved for so many year's is harder than continuing a relationship with the same person even after you have broken up, is even more difficult to erase all the memories and the feelings you have had for that person.

When you break up with another person or another person breaks up with you have no intentions on continuing the relationship.Both individuals have agreed to a mutual understanding that this relationship is over.But in case of continuing relationship both individuals tend to communicate with each other even after the relationship is over.

During the break up none of the relationship rules change depending on how their relationship has sustained over a period of year's.On a continuing relationship lots of rules change on how they want to see or communicate with each other in a relationship.

There area lot of side effects for break up's in a relationship for both the parties where they tend to blame themselves ,loose their feelings for eachother , loose faith in dating other people or continue thinking about their comfort zone's in their past relationship.

Where as in an continuing relationship they both tend to work with each other on how to save their relationship. Since they are still in touch with each other they can still think about their comfort zones in their relationship and still have faith in their on going relationship.This helps both the parties to still have faith, hope and trust in a continuing relationship.That keeps both the parties sexually and mutually active for an continuing relationship and they don't have to lose each other's love, memories and feelings which keeps them connected and also helps them to save the relationship and work on new goals for their on going relationship.

Let's say that break up's would be more on the negative side of your health mentally and physically but for continuing relationships would be more towards the positive side mentally and physically. Well, I myself have been in all of these situations and I would tell you that they are both a learning experience in your life .I like continuing relationships where you know the individual and still in contact with them so that you can work towards a more satisfying relationship in the future. It is always good to take your time in a relationship and never to pressurize your partner not even in a break up.

Because if you give pressure to your partner's in this relationship it could break down their whole world and they could be lost for ever and never get back to each other like forever they could forget everything that they had for each other.It could also affect their health physically and mentally.We have had so many romantic poets who have gone through this in their lives that has made them overcome their relationships, whether it was a break up or on going relationship.

A lot of couples tend to take a break in their relationships so that they don't come too a situation like this ever again. They try to quit their old habits,try to stop arguing or fighting , they also tend to love each other more on a daily basis or they try to compliment each other with their deeds in their daily lives. They think and overthink about this situation in their relationships over and over again so that they don't lose their loved ones or leads to break ups and ongoing relationships.But most couples would rather do it by staying under the same roof may be in separate rooms , sleeping away from each other , or not talking to each other but they are still able to be with each other physically and mentally.

Lots of people will have different ways to save their break ups or on going continuing relationships in the end they will still be in love with the same person due to their comfort zones with each other and understanding of opinions with each other.So I would say if you have any problems in anything talk it out discuss it with each other be frank with each other and the situation right there and then.

As long , as you have faith ,trust and love each other your relationship should never come to a stage where you and your partner feel insecure about yourselfs. If you love ones self in a relationship then you should love each other and stop being insecure and paranoid about each other.Just love each other as long as you feel safe with each other. There shouldn't be a system of break up , ongoing relationships or divorce these word should be erase as you can feel safe with each other in this world.