Bear kids

It is said that behind every bear child there must be a bear parent, parents are the demon mirror of the child, the appearance of parents is the future appearance of the child. The child's character is never born, it is in the environment of influence, learn from the model, slowly become the parent's model.

If parents were once bears and teach their children in the same way, the children are bound to become bears too. Many parents treat their children as their own shadow and the continuation of their lives, hoping that their children live according to their own wishes, the children will inevitably be under the influence of parents, become the parents want to become people.

So, what kind of person a child wants to be is often not decided by himself, but by his parents. Parents dominate their children's growth when they are not yet conscious, or immature in their thinking. Therefore, a child's bear is not born, but filled in step by step by parents.

Every child is a blank piece of paper, how to draw a blueprint, but is in the hands of parents. When they can't dominate their own ideas, children can only do what their parents want under their parents' wings. Thus, the child is getting closer to the parents, and gradually become the parents.

Although each person's picture should have their own to paint, but many parents treat their children as their own personal belongings, constantly interfere with or even dominate their children's lives, especially when the child is a minor, help set everything for the child, let the child walk in the direction of their own regulations.

Perhaps the child will resist at first, but in the resistance to no avail and parental pressure again and again eventually give in, like a puppet to follow the line set by parents, gradually no sense of self, to parents as the norm, to parents' goals as the goal, to become the parents want to become people.

The reason why parents want their children to be what they want them to be is because they once wanted to be that way but did not achieve it, so they put all their hopes on their children and let them achieve it instead of themselves, not caring whether the children are willing or not and whether it is suitable for their development.

In such an environment, the child becomes the shadow of the parent, realizing the ideal for the parent and existing in reality instead of the parent. The parent's ideal becomes the child's ideal, and the parent's personality becomes the child's personality. Some children are oblivious, some are awakening to themselves.

What a family is like, will always make the child become what it is. Parents are the first teachers of children, the family is the first school for children. Parents always confine their children's ideas in the name of love, so that children become their own shadow, what kind of parents will make what kind of children.

There is a story that the children on the school bus are all rich children, the school bus driver is an ordinary person who grew up in a poor environment, and it is a great honor for him to be the driver of the noble school bus. Driving carefully and cautiously every day, the occasional small favors from the rich family's children are exceptionally gratifying.

On this day, he drove the school bus to take the children home from the school at the top of the hill, a young boy came up to him with a pile of money and asked him to help him tie his loose shoelaces. The driver was driving and could only be silent on the circling mountain road. The boy, who got no response, began to yell at the driver for tying his shoelaces.

The other children sitting in the car started to raise their voices and kept screaming to tie their shoelaces. More and more children came up with money to the driver, looking at the money far more than their monthly salary, the driver slammed on the brakes, stopped the car, took the child's money, squatted down and lowered his head to the child tied his shoes.

Unexpectedly, a fast-moving car behind did not brake and hit the school bus directly, thus causing it to fall a dozen meters to the bottom of the mountain on the unblocked mountain road. Despite the efforts of the injured driver to rescue the bus, only one little girl was rescued and the other children were tragically killed.

In court, just as the driver was about to be found guilty, the little girl came forward and said that the driver was forced to stop and tie the little boy's shoelaces, and the driver was found not guilty. The driver could not live his conscience, always muddled through life, not only the guilt of the lives lost, but also the fear of retaliation.

Little boys and uproar children should indeed bear the consequences, but the consequences are too heavy. Behind the bears of these children is the contagion of their parents' reckless bears. What kind of parents you have, what kind of children you will have. Behind the bear child, there is at least one bear parent, who makes the child bear.

The driver is also influenced by his family to become obsequious, bowing down in front of money, humbling himself for money, if he had not been living in a poor environment, if he had not been influenced by his family, the driver did not bow down, then the tragedy would not have happened. The existence of a bear parent, the inevitable result is that bear children will appear.