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One Woman’s guide for men to follow

By TrishPublished 5 years ago 3 min read
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You know how we all want men to know what we want? Right? Well maybe this article will help. Men are sometimes clueless about the mysteries of the female heart, but we still love them. This is a list of tidbits for you to share with your man!

We want you to be our friend. You see our flaws, but you still love us.

We watch you with your mom. It gives us insight into how you’ll treat us.

When our girlfriends are unavailable we want you to just listen to us. We need to vent about work, friends, or family. We will tell you if we want sympathy or a solution, then you will know how to respond.

Trust us when we tell you it’s ok to spend time with the “boys.” We just would like you to keep us informed. It’s nice manners and common courtesy.

We want to spend time with the “girls.” We love you, but we need time to spend with our friends.

We want to know you think of us during the day. A quick call or text just to say hi is always appreciated. We can do the same for you.

We know you need to vent about work or whatever... but please do no make us “the bad guys.” Do not blame us. If it’s our fault, we will admit it. We will listen and be sympathetic to you!

When you are mad about something and start yelling, choose your words carefully. Think before you speak. It probably is not our fault.

We want to be noticed by you. We want to feel that we have more sex appeal than any other woman.

We want you to be close by so we can “blame” you for things that go wrong, even when we know it isn’t your fault.

We want you to keep the toilet seat down. It shows us your nice manners, and so we don’t “fall in” in the middle of the night.

Being naked is fun! Getting naked is more fun!

We feel powerful when we are in love!

When you say you are going to do something, please just do it. It drives us crazy when you take forever to get it done.

We want you to be confident and sure about yourself!

We want you feel confident about us.

We want to be a leader in bed!

We want you to be a leader in bed too!

We want us to daring and adventurous. We want to try new things!

We want you to try your best in work, love and play! We will too!

Sometimes we look at the world through “rose colored glasses” and that’s ok!

We can laugh at ourselves! We can amuse ourselves!

It’s a great feeling for us to wake up feel loved and alive.

To us, the miracle of love at first sight is still a miracle after we’ve been together for years!

We want you to know what spooning means!

We like to eat so don’t be surprised when we occasionally eat as much as you do!

We want you to have fun with us. We want to be the one you get into “trouble” with.

We like consistency and routines, but sometimes we want to spice things up!

As we get older, sometimes we just want to be “bitchier!”

We aren’t afraid to say what’s in our heart. We can’t worry about what other people think.

Being in love can be dangerous. Opening up our heart is an invitation for heartache!

Marriage is a wonderful thing. We are held together by thousands of strings, each one binding us together!

We like diamonds!

We want to be pushed relentlessly!

Sometimes we just want to be left alone.

We still love you, even if we are mad at you!

We like presents!

We are happy when you say “I love you!”

We are happy when we say “I love you!”

Sometimes we want you to listen to us talk about nothing!

We can mow the grass and take out the trash... if you can do laundry and wash the dishes!

We want to laugh with you! We want to laugh when we are first dating and we want to laugh when we’ve been together for years!

I hope you enjoy reading these nuggets of insight. My husband and I have been married for over 35 years! We’ve laughed and we’ve cried, but laughing is always the best! Enjoy and happy sharing!

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