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5 Things To Teach Your Daughter.

Amidst the crowds of chaos, you can still most definitely raise a QUEEN!

By Jacqueline NovakPublished 3 years ago 4 min read
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1. Often Times In Life, You Will Have To DEMAND Respect In Order To Get It! You an Present Yourself To The World With A General Level of Respect For Everyone, and This MAY very well help get many others to respect you as well... BUT this is NOT always the case out there, by any means. So be sure, before trusting too hard, that some people out there may seem as if they're trying to respect you, when in reality they may simply just be trying to MANIPULATE YOU. Learn The Differences!

2. Promiscuity does NOT in any way whatsoever relate to a persons appearance! If your putting it out there, than know its natural people might wanna come looking around to see what's up for offer... I DO NOT mean offer in any good way, remember! What you offer is how much your willing to give up of yourself and whatever offer you may appear to be putting out, they'll of course, always be accepting it! If you have a developed reputation, than, sorry to have to tell you, but any men approaching to check out your "Offer", dang well know by this point that there's no negotiations going on. he knows he can half you, just as he as well as many others have before.

Typically in the current generation of singles, its all about one thing... SEX. The guys want it.. The girls rush to give it! When a guy wants to have sex, he will, it DOES NOT matter what the girl looks like, so much as just the fact that she's a consenting female.

SO... This is where not letting promiscuity get mixed up with levels of attractiveness comes into play; It IS NOT a classy nor respectable thing to brag about all the men you've slept with, and it does not fool anyone into magically seeing you as more attractive.

3. When a person is sexually interested in you, this DOES NOT mean that they are necessarily interested in anything ANY further than such. So avoid that assumptions, ALWAYS! If you decide to engage in ANY sort of sexual behavior with another person, even if its because you believe theirs more that will come of it than sex(dating, relationship, PDA, sweet gestures, etc), if you take that chance and end up wrong, that's on you. its NOT on him(although he may suck)! It's on your as a well-taught, self-respected female to be able to decide whether or not something may or may not be a good idea, as well as how to dictate when its worth it and when its not.

I know SVU may have done plenty of episodes on this topic, but to double clarify; NOO, it is NOT rape in any way if you consented and simply woke up and felt bad about it! So carry yourself with self-respect and wisdom to know how to handle when situations may arise or even at times, spiral... ALSO, ALWAYS REMEMBER, THAT IF YOU EVEER DO NEED HELP OR WANT TO TALK ABOUT NEXT DAY FEELS, OR IF YOU WERE UNFORTUNATE HAVE BEEN AN ACTUAL VICTIM OF SEXUAL OF ASSAULT...

THERE'S HELP! So SHOUT SCEAM STOMP YOUR FEET! MAKE IT KNOWN THAT YOU WILL NOT STAND FOR LETTING ANYINE TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOUR OWN BODY!

4. Everybody's body is different. its only natural seeing as how complex we as humans are. its always a great idea to stay active and eat healthy to maintain your overall mood and health! However, DO NOT let you or anyone else make you focus so much on your outer appearance that you start to lose sight of what's truly important... WHATS ON THE INSIDE! Love Yourself... Short, Tall, Skinny, Average, Curvy, Chubby, Brown Hair, Blonde Hair, Black Hair, Purple Hair, Pink Hair... Brown eyes, Blue eyes, green eyes, hazel eyes, long or short hair, freckles, no freckles, beauty marks or not, pale, medium or tan skin! These traits make up YOU. Be proud of your uniqueness!

5. If you want to find your Prince Charming, like most women often coo about; Than Make Sure Your Doing a well enough job keeping your crown well-adjusted, and your reputation BLANK. It's just fact that when a guy decides to find a relationship type woman(girl he may want to date, marry, spend life with), he's NOT going to search for his relationship type women among a group of other dudes that have all already had a turn on the merry-go-round! Nope Nope Nope! A Man wants a wife who is respectable, and only his. He will want to show you off to everyone likely, however if you already met everyone than that's likely just an awk scenario hed MUCH rather avoid!

Now, Go Ahead, The Mickey To Your Minnie Is Waiting For You Somewhere Out There!

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