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4 Ways to Connect With the Person You Want to Have a Relationship With

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By Sabrina BoydPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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4 Ways to Connect With the Person You Want to Have a Relationship With
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Have you met the man of your life and you want to have a perfect connection with him, to feel that you are vibrating at the same things and that you have the same desires? In a word, that you are one being?

This is the dream of every woman in love, but things don't always go so smoothly. For your connection to be perfect, you need to connect on several levels. But, until you reach the feeling of complete fusion and unity, here are the 4 ways you can connect with your boyfriend.

4 ways to connect with your loved one

Connecting with the heart and mind

When your heart and mind communicate perfectly with those of your partner, it is more than romantic love, it is a deep connection, which transcends the boundaries of a simple friendship. It is as if you are soul mates - you understand each other perfectly mentally and emotionally, you perfectly reflect your moods and you have the same vision of life.

But there is no sexual chemistry between you, there can be no spark of desire. You will remain friends forever, even if you are no longer loved. When you need a shoulder to cry on, good advice, or help at midnight, that person will always be with you.

Connecting with the mind and body

If your mind and body vibrate in unison with your partner, that kind of "benefit friendship" is created when it's not really about love, but it can be said that you stimulate each other physically and mentally. Don't involve too many emotions, because all you want is to feel good and have some intellectual "fun".

You are completely satisfied with each other in the bedroom, and your thoughts complement each other harmoniously, but there are no deep feelings between you. This relationship is fun, but the problem is that women often start dreaming and soulmate, while men do not want obligations. Therefore, it is good to avoid such a relationship, if you want more than sex, otherwise you will end up suffering.

Connecting with the heart and body

Have you ever met someone you would instantly fall in love with, who would fascinate you and make your heart beat faster? This is the kind of love when the physical desire is maximum, and your heart is full only of the image of your loved one.

Sexual chemistry is extremely strong and you develop a real obsession with a person, but there is no lasting connection when the mood swings begin to subside. Once the physical passion disappears, the emotions fade, and the fact that there is no mental connection of any kind can result at the end of the relationship.

Heart-mind-body connection

This is the ideal connection between two beings, which leads to a perfect couple relationship. It doesn't always work, but if you feel emotional vibration, mental communication, and physical attraction to a person most of the time, it means that your love is meant to last.

You will rarely have a different opinion than your loved one or you will feel different in important matters. And when it comes to physical attraction, desire is always awake between you, you understand each other perfectly and you know how to give each other pleasure.

These four types of connections help you understand why certain relationships haven't worked in the past, even though there seemed to be love in between.

If you look back at the different connections in your life, you can now tell what went wrong and which of the three - heart, mind, or body - weren't connected enough for your relationship to work.

Using this invaluable key, you will be able to figure out how to fit in with the next person you fall in love with and the long-term potential of your relationship.

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