You've probably wondered if your crush is thinking about you as much as you are. You undoubtedly want to know the telltale indicators that he is thinking about you a lot. We're simply human, therefore we all want to know how someone truly feels about us. It's normal to ask yourself that question, but you don't have to wait for him to provide you the solution.
It's critical to recognize the warning signals when you encounter them because a person's body language, demeanor, and actions are direct reflections of their thinking. Guys also struggle to keep their sentiments from their crushes hidden, just like you surely do!
How to read the signs he thinks about you a lot
You've probably wondered if your crush is thinking about you as much as you are. You undoubtedly want to know the telltale indicators that he is thinking about you a lot. We're simply human, therefore we all want to know how someone truly feels about us. It's normal to ask yourself that question, but you don't have to wait for him to provide you the solution.
It's critical to recognize the warning signals when you encounter them because a person's body language, demeanor, and actions are direct reflections of their thinking. Guys also struggle to keep their sentiments from their crushes hidden, just like you surely do!
Even when things are going really well with a guy, you want to know he’s enjoying his time with you. You need assurance that everything is going well and that he’s thinking of you even when you aren’t around. By looking for these signs, you already have a clear idea of how he feels.
Not every guy will tell you how they feel, but every guy will show you the subtle signs. So, stop hoping and praying, or paying attention to what your friends are telling you. Instead, pay attention to the right signals.
He probably won’t even realize he’s giving them off, but it’ll show he thinks about you a lot. Isn’t it time you knew?
1. You text everyone you talk to.
When you sleep is the only time you don't converse to one another. Besides that, you two constantly text each other. He's always had a humorous meme to share with you or a YouTube video he wants you to see.
Even though he doesn't express his affection for you verbally, he makes it apparent by his behaviors that he enjoys texting and chatting to you.
2. He likes all your social media posts
Whatever you post, whether it’s funny or not, he’s one of the first people to like your posts or drop a comment.
Stalker? Nope, just one of the classic signs he thinks about you a lot. He will only like all your social media posts if he keeps thinking about you all the time, and wants you to know that he’s interested in you.
He may even comment on your photos as well, making sure everyone knows there’s something going on between you. He thinks it’s subtle, but it’s not, and is definitely one of the clearest signs he thinks about you a lot.
3. He follows you on social media
He not only has you on Facebook, but also Snapchat, Instagram, and Twitter. He wants to make sure he stays in the loop, seeing what you’re up to and how he can make himself a part of your daily plans.
If a guy can’t stop thinking about you, why else would he want to be in the loop on all your social media accounts? Only a guy who likes you would do this kind of thing!
4. He always embraces you when he sees you.
Hugs can be more powerful than you might expect since they're not always as welcoming as you might think. Some of your male buddies will offer you a one-arm hug when they see you. That is tacky.
This guy gives you a genuine embrace when he does so. He puts his arms around you, and you feel warm, secure, and cherished.
If the latter is how you feel, the hug will convey his missed you and continued to think about you!
5. He exudes happiness whenever he is with you.
He glows when he sees you. He just can't help but smile whenever he is near you. He constantly seems so upbeat with you, which discreetly illustrates how much he thinks about you when you aren't around.
His plans will eventually become clear, as we already stated. So, if he seems happier when you're around, it's mostly because of you!
6. He asks you a lot of questions
You know why, right? It’s because he wants to actually get to know you. He wants to know what’s going on in your brain, what you think about, and whether you think about him.
If he constantly asks you a lot of questions, it’s either that he’s a talker who loves talking, or he wants to get to know you. So, he’s going to poke around and get as much information about you as he can.
7. He isn't using his phone while you are around.
We're all addicted to our phones, including the guys. Because of this, one of the telltale signals a guy likes you is that he doesn't check his phone too much.
The fact that he prioritizes you over the notifications on his phone demonstrates how important you are to him.
8. He pays attention to the details
Even if you may have told him something months ago, he still recalls the little nuances. Perhaps it's the fact that your favorite color is yellow, your current television fixation, or how much you loved a specific dish at an arbitrary restaurant.
It might not be a big deal to you, but he remembers these details because he cares – simple as that. This is what truly shows you if he thinks about you a lot.
9. He never decides without consulting you
He values your input and doesn't want to make any significant choices without consulting you. Are you seeing anyone or what? It certainly seems that way!
He obviously values your viewpoint far too highly to decide without consulting you. It may be something small, like picking a restaurant or taking a day off work, or it might be something large, like organizing a trip or figuring out his future objectives, but it matters to him what you think.
He certainly thinks about you and values your thoughts if he holds off making decisions until he has heard them from you.
10. He laughs at your jokes
He laughs wholeheartedly at your jokes and has no problem goofing around with you. If he finds you funny, you’re already special to him.
This is especially true if you’re around your group of friends and he’s the only one who genuinely notices and laughs at your joke.
11. He tries to squeeze out extra time with you
When you hang out, even though he knows you have to go to work or be home for dinner, he tries to squeeze out an extra five minutes with you. He just loves spending time with you – can you blame him?
Just admit it – he likes you and can’t stop thinking about you!
12. You believe you are the only person in the area.
He gives you the impression that you are the only person there while you are around him. He gives you all of his attention and focus. It seems as though you two are isolated in a bubble where nobody else counts.
Doesn't that seem romantic and wistful? He always makes you feel like the only female in the room that cares to him when you're together, and you probably are!
13.He maintains eye contact.
He doesn't look at you like the other guys do. He isn't looking at your breasts or treating you like a piece of meat, either. He gives you a sincere gaze into the depths of your eyes, as if he were attempting to see into your soul and become lost in them.
Never before have you experienced eye contact that felt so genuine. He is sincerely observing your every move and word while gazing into your eyes. Additionally, he will hold his gaze on you for a little bit longer than usual if you are on his mind.
14. He's interested in you
Not only is he questioning you, but he also seems genuinely interested in you. You're like this strange monster he's trying to comprehend.
Why wouldn't you want to learn more about someone you like? One indication that he thinks about you a lot is if his curiosity grows as he learns more about you. And obviously can't get enough of it!
15. He tells you
If he tells you he’s been thinking about you a lot, it’s because he has been thinking about you a lot. It’s not easy for men to express their emotions, and he’s taking a huge step forward by telling you how he feels.
Even if actions speak louder than words, there’s no denying the truth if it comes straight from his heart. No games, no manipulation; just the truth.
What do you think, then? Can you tell he thinks about you frequently? He likes you more than he's letting on if you identify with these indicators. What are you going to do about it, I wonder?
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