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11 Simple Ways to Show Someone You Care

A little altruism can go a long way

By George ZiogasPublished 2 years ago 5 min read
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The people you consider close to you matter the most. They’re not only your priceless treasures but also your most important allies. Unfortunately, you might not realize that you’re taking them for granted sometimes by becoming too self-absorbed in your own life.

Thankfully, you don’t have to wait for the holiday season to make them feel special. You can make them feel that you genuinely love them by carrying out simple gestures. All you need is sensitivity and a little effort. You don’t even have to break the bank to do it.

Remember, your actions speak louder than words. Here are some of the best ways you can show people that you care about them.

Call Them

In today’s digital age, communicating with your loved ones has become easier than ever. Although it’s common to chat with loved ones on social media, there’s nothing that compares to hearing their voice. By simply picking up your phone and calling them, you can experience more special shared moments.

Pay Attention

One of the easiest things you can do to show someone that you care about them is to simply pay attention. Notice what they like and don’t like and try your best to remember little details about them. Soon, you can use this knowledge to your advantage in strengthening your relationship.

Be a Good Listener

Being heard is one of the best feelings. If your friends or family need to share something, be an active listener. The people who are special to you are making themselves vulnerable by sharing, so make sure that you’re giving them your full attention.

Listening to someone can make them feel not only safe but also valued. Try your best not to seem distracted. Don’t fidget or look at your phone too much. This will only make them feel ignored. Being a good listener will not only improve your relationship with other people, but it can also broaden your own perspective.

Give Little Gifts

Gifts are one of the best ways to show someone that you care about them. Gifts don’t have to be expensive. Instead of spending your money on pricey things, opt for unexpected surprises such as their favorite snacks or even a book you think they might love. This small gesture will not only make them feel valued, but it will also show them that they’re constantly on your mind.

Offer Help

You may not realize it, but your loved ones might need a little help. They might just be too afraid or shy to ask for it. Whether it’s carrying their bags or assisting them with tasks, helping the people that you care about is one of the best ways to deepen your relationship and make them happy.

Take Them on a Trip

If you and the person you care about love adventures, why don’t you whisk them away on an unexpected road trip?

The idea of hitting the open road with your closest friends or relatives is one of the best feelings. It doesn’t matter where your destination is, whether it be a restaurant, a museum, or a national park. The journey to get there will surely be filled with lots of laughter.

Give Compliments

Compliments can magically turn someone’s day around. If you want to make the person you care about feel happy, tell them something nice. You might not know it but they might have just done something that they’ve been wishing to do for a long time, or maybe they need a boost.

Additionally, you can acknowledge that they’ve done a good job. Complimenting them on their successes will make them feel accomplished. Simply admiring their efforts will also motivate them to strive for better. By telling them how awesome they are, you’re helping to raise their morale and self-esteem.

Say Thank You

Thanking someone is one of the most overlooked ways to show someone that you care about them. Expressing your gratitude to the person you love lets them know that you appreciate their help. This tip won’t cost a thing, but it’s one of the most effective ways to make someone else feel appreciated.

Cook for Them

Giving someone food is one of the simplest ways of showing love and affection. If you want to make someone feel special, cook for them. Chances are you already know their favorite dish. You don’t have to be a chef to whip up a fantastic dish. Even if you’re not the best cook, they will surely appreciate the effort.

Write Notes

Yes, it does seem a little old school. After all, there’s been a significant decline in letter volume in the US. However, writing notes and letters never gets old. There’s no other feeling that compares to holding a piece of paper that contains a note from someone special. If writing long letters is not your shtick, don’t worry. You can just stick a note in their lunch box, notebook, or even pocket. They will definitely be surprised.

Simply Tell Them You Care

Confessing to your friends and family that you actually care about them may sound corny. However, it’s one of the most underappreciated ways of showing someone your feelings. This straightforward act is one of the best ways to relay your sincerity.

Don’t Be Afraid to Let Someone Know You Care!

The moment after you meet someone for the first time, you tend to impress them by showing them how much you care through grand gestures and that phase doesn’t have to end. Showing someone you think is special doesn’t have to be hard. It’s actually easier than you think. Whether you want to try the tips above on your best friend, daughter, brother, or partner, they will definitely help.

“Seek opportunities to show you care. The smallest gestures often make the biggest difference.” — John Wooden

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