10 Ways to Make Him Fall in Love With You Over and Over Again

You’ve just had a fantastic date with the guy you’ve been crushing on, and now you want to make sure he doesn’t forget about you.

But how can you do that?

How can you make him fall in love with you repeatedly?

It’s not as hard as it seems, but it does take some effort.

Don’t worry; we’re here to help!

Just read our guide on making him fall in love with you repeatedly and see if any of these 10 tips work for you!

1) let him chase you

Making him feel like he’s got a shot at you is one of your best weapons for making him fall in love with you.

It’s a subtle but powerful psychological tactic—and it’s easy enough to do. The next time you see him, stop by his office (or drop by his favorite spot) unexpectedly.

If you make it clear that you enjoy spending time with him, make yourself available when he calls, and meet up with him outside of work regularly, he won’t doubt that there might be something more between you two.

And remember: if he wants something wrong enough (like seeing more of your smile), he’ll likely get it.

2) Be empathetic, but not a doormat

There’s a fine line between being there for someone who needs your support and facing mistreatment from someone who doesn’t appreciate your time.

If he’s always late, or if he gets you flowers for no reason, that’s great.

But if he only calls when he wants something or treats you poorly when it doesn’t suit him — like walking out on dates without a word — take note.

Even worse is making promises than acting aloof once you start dating.

This guy may think of you as nothing more than an option when times are challenging rather than a person worthy of care at all times.

3) Keep an open mind about his past relationships

As you embark on your relationship with him, be open-minded about his past relationships.

Give him a chance to talk about them or acknowledge their existence before immediately labeling him as toxic or emotionally unavailable.

It’s possible that his previous partners weren’t a good fit for him, just like some of your last boyfriends might not have been right for you.

Give yourself time to adjust when getting into a new relationship, and don’t judge too quickly.

4) Focus on your own life goals

Want a guy who’s good for you? Focus on building your own life so you can be happy without him.

If you want a great relationship, invest time in getting a fulfilling job, making healthy lifestyle choices (including exercise), and spending quality time with friends.

Once you’re living a life that makes you happy, it will be much easier to attract Mr. Right.

5) Show vulnerability, but don’t depend on him too much

Being vulnerable can be a great way to let him get closer.

But, at the same time, don’t give up who you are just because you think he may not like it.

Keep your interests and passions while getting to know him. It’s also okay if you both have separate lives that don’t revolve around each other 24/7; if your life changes so much that he wouldn’t recognize you anymore, do what makes you happy.

Remember that being a bit guarded doesn’t mean he won’t fall for your charms!

6) Don’t be ashamed of your body

Many women are ashamed of their bodies, thinking that only thin and fit women can land a man.

But while there is an evolutionary benefit to being slim, every guy isn’t necessarily looking for a stick-thin supermodel. Most guys are attracted to all kinds of different body types.

Sure, you may not be supermodel material, but if your guy is genuinely interested in you and falls in love with you, he will love every inch of your body.

His attraction for you won’t change whether or not you go on a diet; it will just change over time as his love for you changes!

7) Don’t obsess over exes

Breakups are complex, but obsessing over your ex isn’t good for you.

It may seem like a good idea at first because it allows you to relive every last detail of your relationship, but here’s how it usually ends: I had a massive fight with my boyfriend when I was trying not to think about my ex, so now I can’t stop thinking about him, and that makes me sadder.

Focusing on yourself will get you far—because focusing on him won’t bring him back. So take some time for yourself and think about what you want out of life.

8) Listen more than you talk

If you want a man to fall in love with you, first make sure he can hear what you’re saying.

It sounds simple, but more often than not, women complain that their men don’t listen when they speak. Start actively listening to him during a conversation by tuning out distractions around you, so you don’t lose his train of thought.

When he’s talking—really talking—give him your full attention and ask follow-up questions so that he feels like his voice is valued.

Keep asking yourself, what can I do right now to make him feel loved?

No matter how uncomfortable it makes you.

If nothing else, he was making an effort will speak volumes about your commitment level!

9) Compliment him often and sincerely

When you’re trying to make a man fall in love with you, try complimenting him. It doesn’t even have to be sincere.

Men don’t mind being told they look nice or are doing a good job – don’t overdo it.

Complimenting him often will make him feel good about himself and allow for some small talk between you two.

Maybe he will let slip some details about his likes and dislikes!

10) Take care of yourself first

The first step in making a man fall in love with you repeatedly is taking care of yourself.

There are many reasons you take care of yourself – your health, your well-being, even just because it feels good!

But at its core, taking care of yourself is about showing self-respect. If you’re not taking care of yourself, why should anyone else?

This doesn’t mean spending tons of money on fancy beauty products or paying a ton for a gym membership; it means making sure you take time each day for things that make you feel good.