10 Sexy Ways to Get a Guy to Go Down on You & How to Know If He Likes You

Ah, it should be simple to learn how to get a guy to like you, shouldn't it? Men should be the ones to understand the pleasure that may be had during oral sex since every male enjoys getting blowjobs and knows how good it feels.

But that's where issues arise.

Let's have a brief discussion on films. Everyone yearns for life to be exactly like the movies. We gain knowledge from it, and it motivates us. However, movies are the furthest thing from our minds when it comes to living behind closed bedroom doors.

As we’re talking about oral sex here, we need to enter the world of porn where it’s most commonly seen. In almost all porn movies, a girl may spend a good half an hour salivating and blowing a guy like she hasn’t eaten for days.

And in return, the pornstar would descend on her like a savage for a few animalistic seconds while feigning indifference. You can already tell that most guys prefer receiving oral than delivering it because that is where they learn about sex and how to do it.

Therefore, there are a few things you need to be aware of if you want to get a guy to lay on you without forcing his head firmly between your legs.

The benefit of being defeated

In real life, it's enjoyable and intimate to go down on each other. It can improve your orgasms and make you two closer.

After all, you can prolong sex and make it wetter by delaying the piercing conclusion and engaging in other activities that can be just as stimulating.

But hardly all men go there without difficulty. Some males require a little head holding and shoving to graze there. For both of you, that's never a positive experience. He feels pushed down, and you feel let down. No happy ending here!

What to do to make a guy you down on you

If you want to make him go down on you, firstly all you need to do is tell him. He really can’t forget special permission like that.

If he goes down and resurfaces in seconds or avoids going down on you, he may have a bad memory that needs healing.

Take it easy and just follow these steps to ease his face down your base.

1. Maintaining good hygiene

There is absolutely no greater excuse for a guy to stay away from your lady parts. When your man puts his face down there, the initial impression he gets will stick with him. You'll struggle to convince him to come down on you without a leash if it doesn't smell right the first few times.

Never forget to maintain a clean and hygienic private area. It's a first step that usually makes your problem go away.

2. Don’t make him drown down there

You may be having fun when he goes down, but that’s no excuse to firmly stuff his face down with your hands and suffocate him in the heat of the moment. And don’t keep nudging him downwards every time you make love.

When you force him, he’ll think of it as a chore and not something pleasurable and may even start dreading it.

3. Trim the bushes

Or raze the forest. Remember, the cleaner you keep it, the easier it is to manage your hygiene. It also makes it easy for him to find it when the lights get turned down.

Keep hair to a minimal minimum, like a line of landing strip, unless your partner enjoys a lot of hair down there, or have a Brazilian wax. He'll appreciate rubbing his face against your soft, wet skin because not many individuals relish pulling pubes out of their mouth in the middle of an act.

4. Keep it fragrant

In the Kamasutra, it’s been mentioned that a beautiful maiden’s vajajay always smells like a “freshly blossoming lily.” *What the actual F?!*

Well, you don’t need to stick a lily down there to entice his nostrils. Instead, use fragrant body oils or use a flavored lube when you get into bed.

Don’t use it all over your body, just use it where you want his attention. He’ll definitely work his tongue when you smell like cherry blossom or even a budding lily down there!

5. Wear enticing lingerie

Avoid granny panties. However good-looking your vajajay may be, everything needs presentation. You like your gifts wrapped and ribboned, so does he.

Look good in bed and give him a chance to play with your silk lingerie before he takes it all off for you. Entice him to kiss you all over and make him take his time to get you naked.

6. Concurrently watch porn

All porn now is bad. Choose a movie where the two actors are more intent on pleasure and passion than they are on mindless banging.

Together, watch the movie in bed while imitating the action. And yes, that does imply that you have to blast his whistle for a while before he chews you up.

7. Let him see your satisfaction

When he goes near your vajajay, gasp and moan softly like you’re experiencing a lot of pleasure even if he’s doing nothing to it and just playing with your navel.

Raise your pelvis and “quiver about” in anticipation to let him know that there’s a sweeter, pleasurable spot just below that would bring you more pleasure.

8. Be coy and shy

When he goes down there after a hiatus, be coy and demure about it. Don’t get overexcited and stuff his head in or spread your legs wide and start acting like a horny tramp.

Play it easy and let him know that you’re enjoying it. Run your hand through his hair and if he seems comfortable about it, guide him around with your hands gently and moan to let him know if you like something he’s doing.

9. Restrict him

Restrict him from that zone now and then and he’ll like it more. If something’s restricted from a guy, he’ll want it a lot more. But unless you know he’s starting to enjoy going down on you, don’t restrict him just yet.

For starters, when he goes down on you for a few minutes, bring his head up when you know he’s still enjoying it. But within a minute of him surfacing, sink in orgasmic bliss and tell him you miss his tongue down there already.

He’ll realize how much you like it and go right into it again. Just as long as you stop him just before he’s getting tired or bored, he’ll always be ready for more.

10. Don’t be selfish

This is basic etiquette. If you want a guy to go down on you, you need to go down on him and give him a good time as well.

If he isn’t taking the lead in giving you oral, you can go down on him first and wait for him to thank you back by lying on your back and allowing his tongue to wander all over you.

Making decisions, especially ones that could change your life, can be daunting. However, this does not imply that you may completely avoid making decisions. If your guy is indecisive all the time, follow your gut and decide what's best for your health and happiness.