Interesting Psychology Knowledge Sharing

1. There is a "pain valve theory" physiologically. When a person is injured, touching or blowing by a close person can really help relieve pain. The psychological performance is that when a person has negative emotions, rhythmically stroking his back can help him effectively calm down his emotions.

2. The best way to get people to like you is not to help them, but to let them help you. "The people who helped you are more willing to help you again than the people you helped. This is known in psychology as the Franklin effect.

3. If you want to know if a person is looking at you, you yawn. If he yawns too, then you can basically conclude that he is looking at you. Because yawning can infect others around it, it is called the phenomenon of "contagious yawning".

4. People who like to use "..." or "..." when chatting online are usually soft-hearted and not bad-hearted, but at the same time indecisive and may have difficulty choosing.

5. Do you want to appear confident and friendly in front of others? Then try to remember the color of their pupils. When you try this method, the frequency of your eye contact with him can happen to achieve this effect.

6. If you ask a question and hope the other person can agree with you, nod slightly when you say it. This is called the mirror effect in psychology, and people are more likely to agree with you if you send out positive signals. "

7. When you want to impress others, be the first or the last; on the contrary, if you don't want others to notice you, be the middle one.

8. Before going to bed, think about the important things to do when you wake up. Even if you don't set an alarm clock, you can get up on time.

9. People who are familiar with each other are limited to maintaining the most ordinary friendship. They either have other plans, or their hearts are very cold, or how fast they are hot and cold.

10. People will associate the adjectives you use on others with you. This phenomenon is called "unconscious feature transfer", so try to use positive words to evaluate others as much as possible.

11. Getting angry at people who are physically closer will make the angry person feel very uncomfortable, so when your little friend is angry, in order to minimize yourself being affected by anger, what you have to do is not to stay away from him, but to get close to him.

12. If you want to calm down an angry person, you must first express sympathy to him and tell him: "I understand why you are so angry. You have reasons to be angry. In fact, I am also very crazy." When he gets approval from you, he will gradually calm down.

13. It is more effective to speak to the left ear. This is because the human left ear is controlled by the right brain. In the division of labor in the human brain, the right hemisphere is responsible for perceptual and intuitive thinking, and is more sensitive to emotional experiences.

14. When you want to lie, make up some embarrassing details to make it easier for people to believe. Because the other party's habitual thinking is that people can't deliberately make up words to embarrass themselves.

15. Don't go shopping when you are hungry, because hunger will greatly increase the desire to shop. Researchers have found that when people are hungry, they secrete a "ghrelin hormone" that affects the entire brain, making people perceive food as more tempting and become more generous with other goods.

16. Drinking coffee can be a compromise. Want your boyfriend/girlfriend to listen to you? Then invite him or her for coffee! A new Australian study found that drinking coffee is not only refreshing, but also has a miraculous effect of "softening your ears" (obedient).

Researchers from the University of Queensland's School of Psychology invited 140 students. Ask them about their views on euthanasia and abortion. Afterwards, they were arranged to drink orange juice or coffee and read some lobbying articles that contradicted their opinion. The results showed that students who drank coffee were more likely to change their stance.

17. When you are in a bad mood, clean up the room or change the room layout! Psychologists have found that tidying up or changing the layout of a room is an effective way to improve your mood. This is because changing the external environment can stimulate the mind in an orderly manner, which is good for releasing stress and relieving anxiety.

18. People trust authority more. In a hospital, a security guard in a white coat is more likely to be trusted than a doctor in civilian clothes. (although every profession should be equally respected)

Eating makes the brain feel more secure. When you're nervous or anxious, eating something or just chewing can "trick" your brain and greatly reduce your anxiety.