There is much written about the gift of submission, and not enough written about being a Dom who is capable of putting oneself out there. Being a Dom means sharing who you are. The best and worst of you are your gifts that you share. These gifts are how the world knows you. You give acceptance for who others are and could be. You give purpose, inspire passion, and invite others to join you with a vision of the future. You offer a safe, forgiving space that appreciates those you surround yourself with. You hold space while others share their doubts, fear, and worry so they can be encouraged to move past them. You offer peace, love, guidance, and discipline as each action helps to order the chaos surrounding us. You offer your strength, faith, trust, and courage when others fail. A Dom becomes a living expression of feedback, sanctuary, and praise. It can be the embodiment of feeling home, accepted, and needed. You become a symbol that connects the whole expression of an individual with opportunities and possibilities that come from being together.
Being a Dom is not easy, nor do we expect it to be. It takes instruction and guidance to get into specifics that gets beyond something you do to someone else or just something that happens to a person. Establishing a connection, sharing what matters, and finding meaningful purpose in service to someone can feel so good you thirst for it. That should be the start of service-driven feedback that makes everything better in your world. For me, its not enough to fuck a sub. I want to shape her. Train her to desire what pleases me and kick ass like the best CEO out in the world. In a sense this relationship is a lifestyle of social relations—relations of mutuality and counter dependence that is reaffirmed with every exchange and counter exchange. It's thriving existence will at times defy rational ideal of independence, capitalist value, and that ultimately the obligations we carry for one another.
This kind of service does more than making a slave or sub's toes curl. That is service to expand our world and inspire the best of a woman I'd want to fuck. So I seek out good people that share the things I like. Did I mention I also enjoy teasing? Hmm. Smile. That is why we seek each other out. We all seek to live in harmony with ourselves and the world. We must not mistake that kindness as acceptance to live any way we choose without struggle, challenge, and change. We are stronger together and we seek community where we might share the gifts that we live. Writing out what we offer, what we want others to know, and what is exchanged can surprise us. It's easy to forget how much we receive and how much we give. When we hear it, see it, read it, and find ourselves returning back again and again for this; we know its something we want. It may even be something you need. Explore what you offer and how you recognize your relationship as a Dom in this lifestyle.
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