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The Superpowers & Villains of ADHD Sex
Just seeing the word sex can curve your lips up into a smile. There’s hot sex, freaky sex, casual sex, makeup sex, routine sex, angry sex, etc. But the best sex is when minds and bodies connect in rapture - the point of no return - when sex evolves into intimacy. The carnal knowledge combined with a spiritual reckoning and presence of mind.
Musing AroundPublished 3 years ago in FilthyTo Catch a Cheater
The wrong hair, in the wrong place, at the wrong time, can destroy a marriage. And so can a myriad of less obvious clues if you know what you’re looking for.
Teresa J ConwayPublished 3 years ago in FilthyHow to Increase Sex Stamina For Male
So, "How do I develop sexual stamina?" is a question you're probably wondering right now. Most men think about sexual endurance and, more specifically, rising sexual stamina on a regular basis.
Mind & RelationshipsPublished 3 years ago in FilthyHere's One Way To Get A Little Naked Back In The Relationship.
Monogamy isn't in our nature. We often think we can do it, but truthfully it's not something humans are conditioned naturally to live with. Sure, there are some that spend a lifetime with one partner. Some, even manage to do it happily. For many people, they're going to be plagued by thoughts of other people. They'll settle for one but when they're together, especially in bed, their minds wander to the "highlight reel" because the same old thing has become boring. Couples get stagnant and stop enjoying life, stop being with each other because they want to, and are only there out of a sense of obligation. So, how do you deal with a monogamous life and still have that youthful energy that brought you together? By enjoying the things you weren't supposed to do when you were young. Remember, you're not dead, yet!
Jason Ray MortonPublished 3 years ago in Filthy3 Common Orgasm Problems
Orgasm problems are common. In my job as an online sex coach and therapist, one of the most common queries people want help with, is their orgasm. Here are 3 of the most recurring difficulties and what you can do about them.
Leigh NorénPublished 3 years ago in FilthyCan you help bring out my inner sadist?
All too often in helping relationships, what needs to be said is what one person does not want to say, and the other does not want to hear. Also, people’s explicit notions only convey a part of their mental processes. What goes without saying generally goes unsaid. This is why researchers and MCs do not content themselves with asking various people about their conceptions of life and living but also observe how the consequences of a group member or action trigger particular behaviors. Advising this comes down to the experience of identifying the expressive cues presented and those that are never expressed and held back. What you read here is my best approximation of the energy, feel, and questions that are asked and unsaid. This question of how to be a better sexual or sensual sadist is common for those engaged in BDSM and those who dabble in some of it’s sensual arts. There is no one correct way to embody or behave. What follows is how the narrative and question resonated with me. Would you have answered it differently?
Joseph CrownPublished 3 years ago in FilthyThe Magic of Hiding Adultery
Magicians make bridges disappear. Adulterers make affairs disappear. Both use illusions, but only one is loved for their skill.
Teresa J ConwayPublished 3 years ago in Filthy7 Tips to Improve Your Sexy Banter
Want to stimulate the biggest sex organ for anyone? You need to get their brain aroused! While many of us rely on visual stimuli to turn on our partners, learning to talk sexy to them can up our foreplay game, improve communication, and ultimately result in better sex.
Auntie VicePublished 3 years ago in Filthy3 Things You Need to Do After Sex (But She Wouldn’t Tell You)
The other day, me and my BFF were having a raunchy, girly conversation about our adult lives so far over multiple bottles of Chianti.
Peeping_SoulPublished 3 years ago in FilthyAries from the stars.
In the stars it is written that all Aries have an extreme tendency to sex, as simple and as direct as the stars tell us, we are sexual animals and some of us hide in masks of moral decency when deep down we are sexual animals, one of the most complex, we like sex at any time of the day, we the Aries we would make love from the moment we wake up until we go to bed, on the edge of a razor or in the clouds if possible, we would walk on fire through get to the bed of the beloved.
Sergio MartinezPublished 3 years ago in Filthywhy sex education is a joke
Listen, I know that sex is still a bit of a taboo topic anymore, and with the pandemic, I have found studies showing that my generation is actually having less sex. We are having less sex, less often and later in our lives. This in many cases is good, don’t get me wrong. However, in the world where we are often told to feel guilty about pleasure for pleasure’s sake, I find this concerning. I happen to love sex, in fact, the pandemic has only made me have more of it. I'm what is classified as hypersexual, as in I have sex more than twice a week. So when I found that people didn’t have the same reaction, I was shocked. I had made a bet that a bunch of babies would come from this, the pandemic baby boom. I was so wrong.
Question: Why Did You Choose to be an Escort?
A question I get quite often, mostly from clients who had my number from my sugar baby days or who were used to meeting sugar babies, is why do I choose to be an escort over being a sugar baby. They do bring up some valid points themselves about money over time and safety from STI's, however in my experience it was a degrading experience. I wasn't intending on discussing this topic (at least not so soon and without more articles as background) however the amount of times I get asked this question is insane. I also think it is insane how many girls are turning to being a sugar baby, I am not saying they should be escorts, I am saying they should be educated in all sex worker fields before going into any of them.