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By ASHLEY SMITHPublished 4 years ago 3 min read
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This is a slightly more involved question then it used to be a few years ago. Its not just videos in plain packaging and top shelf magazines. You can access pretty much anything you like via your phone or computer, legal or otherwise. The choice is massive and basically for free unless you want to pay for "premium content".

There are sites that will charge for some content such as onlyfans, the user adds the content they choose and charges a monthly access cost and might sell some select content. The top models can make thousands a month from the content they supply. I have seen one model advertise a monthly access to her content at $50 per month and adding extra special stuff at extra. These models start by pushing you towards this content from mainstream sites like twitter and Instagram.

As the mainstream sites block nudity they are usually in lingerie or revealing clothes, occasionally tastefully naked. So if you look at these shots is it any worse following the ladies to their premium sites. I suppose if you pay to see things if you cant afford it makes it dodgy. If you can afford it then why not. If your single or your partner is happy again why not, if your doing it secretly and hiding charges again maybe dodgy.

You can request certain content and have communication via online messages with the model. The content is all in one place and nearly always not seen anywhere else. This perhaps makes the charge seem more reasonable. Also you are helping them make a living, some better then others. Some also utilise a service where they can leave a shopping list so their fans can buy them gifts.

My girlfriend pointed me towards an online poster who is married to someone she watches on u tube. We both tend to add likes to her pictures, as my girlfriend likes tattoos I sometimes show her some pictures from my feeds that might appeal. We have watched pornographic videos together and know the other one does alone occasionally. So for us if everything is treated right its fine. Its fine if taken as fake and that for those involved its for money they do it mainly.

Keep it within reason and it shouldn't be a problem. If the addiction to porn gets in the way of usual life then its a problem. It should supplement your life and a relationship but not take it over. Many of the performers on onlyfans appear to either work alone or with their partners. The partner is the photographer or for the more graphic content they join in the videos and pictures.

So for the people sharing their content its done safely, within a controlled system and their partners know what's going on. Many people will share things on other sites, accessible for free. It lacks control and focus though, its harder to stick with your favourites . You can search through the usual search engines but cant always find your favourites.

Also search engines can easily bring up some very dodgy content very easily. Many models have similar names and can be hard to track.

I would also suggest suicide girls website. Its like an online playboy magazine with tattoos. You can pay a relatively small fee per year and see various content pages from thousands of models. Along with other content besides. Different shapes and sizes of models feature, nearly all with tattoos to one level or another. Some pretty much all covered, a few body modifications as well. Again a wide choice in a safe place.

Some charge more and some less, some give more content and some less. Nearly all give free test shots and video clips to choose from. So try before you buy.

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ASHLEY SMITH

England based carer, live with my wife, her parents and 4 cats. will write for all areas but especially mental health and disability. though as stuff for filthy seems popular will try there . any comments, suggestions or requests considered

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