The obsession with love

Love is the most complex and deep existence of human emotions. It can be as warm as a spring breeze, or as fierce as a storm. And when love and obsession are intertwined, it will derive a powerful and difficult to break away from the power, like a whirlpool, the human heart is closely involved in it.

Obsession is the persistence and persistence of something, a strong desire not to reach the goal. When this obsession is combined with love, it produces an almost insane power. It can make people do whatever it takes for the love in their hearts. It can make people go through all kinds of difficulties and obstacles just to be with the one they love.

In the world of love, the obsession with love is often expressed as a persistent pursuit of someone. Perhaps it is a glimpse in the crowd, and then the heart of the mind, can never forget. There is only one figure in my heart, no matter how time flows, no matter how the world around me changes, that obsession always lingers in my mind. In order to get the love of the other person, they may do many extraordinary things, put down their self-esteem, put down pride, and even give up their principles and bottom lines.

I once heard a story about a young man who fell in love with a beautiful woman at first sight. However, the woman did not like him, even a little cold. But the young man did not give up, he firmly believed that his love can move each other. So, he began a long and persistent pursuit. He would send flowers to the woman every day, write love letters, and try all kinds of ways to get close to her. Even if the woman refused him again and again, he was still not discouraged and still made unremitting efforts. His obsession makes people around him feel incredible, and even some people think he is a little crazy. However, he does not think so, he thinks that this is love, in order to love, he can risk everything.

This obsession with love sometimes makes people blind and irrational. Only see the desire of their own hearts, and ignore the reality of various factors. May ignore the other person's feelings, regardless of the other person's will, and impose their love on each other. Such love often brings great pressure and trouble to the other side, and may even make the other side feel fear and disgust.

However, the obsession with love is not entirely meaningless. In some cases, it can also be a powerful motivator, pushing people to pursue their own happiness. When this obsession is based on respect and understanding, it can make people more courageous and determined. Can make people in the face of difficulties and setbacks, indomitable, courageous.

For example, in a relationship, if both partners have an obsession with love for each other, then they will work hard for this love and overcome various obstacles in life together. They will cherish each other, support each other, encourage each other, and make this love deeper and more lasting. Driven by this love obsession, their lives will also become more fulfilling and meaningful.

But there is no denying that the obsession with love can also cause pain and hurt. When this obsession is not answered, when the loved one is never theirs, the pain and despair is unspeakable. It can cause a person to fall into deep self-doubt and self-blame, feeling that they are not good enough or good enough to be loved by the other person. This pain can last a long time and even affect a person's physical and mental health and quality of life.

So, how do we deal with love obsession? First of all, we need to keep a clear mind and recognize that there are both positive and negative aspects to the obsession with love. We should not blindly fall into it, but should learn to look at our feelings rationally. When we find that we have an overly strong attachment to someone, we need to stop and seriously think about whether this attachment is justified and worth the cost we pay for it.

Second, we must learn to respect each other's choices and wishes. Love is mutual, can not force each other to accept their love. If the other person doesn't feel the same way about us, we should learn to let go, give the other person freedom, and give ourselves a chance to start over. Although the process of letting go can be painful, it is also a necessary part of our growth and maturity.

In addition, we need to learn to divert our attention and not let the obsession of love take over our lives. We can develop some hobbies, make some new friends and make our life more colorful. In this way, we can gradually come out of the obsession of love and regain our happiness and confidence.

Love is beautiful, but the obsession with love needs to be treated with caution. It can be what drives us forward, or it can be the source of our pain. Only when we learn to properly deal with the obsession of love can we go more smoothly on the road of love and truly appreciate the true meaning of love.

Let us face every emotion in life with respect and understanding of love. No matter how sweet or bitter the feelings are, we must learn to draw strength from them to keep growing and improving. Because, only in the process of continuous growth, we can truly understand the meaning of love, in order to truly have their own happiness.