Elegance is a kind of years

　　Elegance is a kind of years, it is through all kinds of life and presents light as if not surprised, faded away from the youthful, and presents a mature flavor. An elegant person must have a unique charm, and a full, calm, and abundant soul. Life is sunnier, less gloomy, know how to take one step at a time solid and stable. In the simple appearance, less flashy, and heavier. An elegant person, is an atmospheric and tolerant person, in this impetuous society, such a breeze, lets people relax, because the heart of the landscape, at any time and place, will present a clear and beautiful face, elegant and charming style.

　　Elegance is not the nobility of not dyed in copper, nor to keep the flowers and snow alone chanting, and not to groom themselves with their hearts, always keep sitting upright, so that others to appreciate the posture, in my opinion, elegance is never done for others to see, the real elegance is to repair in the heart, from the shape, the table in the external. And this external, but only reflection of their inner level has nothing to do with others. A graceful person. To be able to be yourself in ordinary life, to learn to give, and can give, to know how to be grateful, to have love in your heart, to know how to be reasonable, to be tolerant and kind is elegance.

　　Elegance is not born with fear, it is a perfect combination of mind and wisdom. A person's elegance, is from reading, life experience, and life-shaping, which is a symbol of confidence, independence, and elegance, this quality is from the understanding of life, and life's precipitation and accumulation. It never refers to the beauty of the exterior alone but is a kind of inner wisdom reflected by the different conditions of life. Elegant people must have a pair of eyes to feel the beauty, have a kind heart, is the wisdom of the soul shaped by the years, the most precious life is through the life of a thousand turns, still can have a soft and kind heart. Elegance, wielding a natural charm, is profound beauty.

　　Elegance and age may be related, but more related to their strengths. An elegant person must be a self-disciplined person, no matter how much temptation there is in the outside world, are not moved by it, know how to self-reliance and tolerance, whether in the difficulties and setbacks of life, still can keep the window clear, fresh and elegant. No matter what kind of encounter life gives, you can self-reflect, learn from the past, know how to respect and be grateful, light and heartless to friends, warm and generous to relatives, to others, not despise, not alienated, education is not humility, is with the birth of self-confidence and cultivation, and elegance, is derived from a kind of self-love, light and profound, as long as you are willing. Will certainly be graceful in their favorite look.

　　Elegance and looks may be related, but more related to personal inner cultivation, a person without ideas, even if you paint the most perfect makeup, also can not hide the ugly inside but will make people feel hypocritical. An elegant person must know self-love, self-confidence an independent personality, solid wisdom, calm talk, a clean face, and a kind heart, the beauty is not ostentatious, just right outside. Lincoln said, thirty years old, to be responsible for their looks, when a person has an elegant heart, no matter how it is on the outside, is beautiful and charming, the real beauty, is a kind of aura from the outside and inside, like a person, began with the face, trapped in talent, and loyalty to the character.

　　An elegant person knows how to control their mouth, no matter when and where are not boastful, not show off everywhere, because that is a superficial performance, that can only make people feel bored. Beauty can be a priority admission ticket, but will not be a permanent pass, material generosity is an external sense of superiority, while inner abundance is eternal beauty. It a truly elegant. Knowing how to be superior to others is not noble, but truly noble is superior to their past selves, they are good at learning, know how to forge ahead, elegant people like incense, emitting a light fragrance, maintaining a spiritual temperature and warmth, and an independent personality. This graceful gesture is personal cultivation, but also a gift from God.

　　Elegant people, will not be because of a little thing and rage, and will not easily to others to show disgusted expression, and will not send a cold expression to the weak, they know how to respect, and listen, learn to manage their emotions, with a smile on their face, and appreciate with sunshine. A graceful person must be kind, their hearts, as fragrant as orchids, grace, is a fragrance precipitated by the years.

　　The elegance of life is to experience countless falls and climbs, still with a light smile, spring to see the flowers, autumn to look at the moon, summer to enjoy the lotus, and winter to listen to the snow, no matter how the state of mind changes, will maintain a normal heart, light look at the wind and the moon. Even if life does not give us what we want, we can still not complain, do not complain, dare to face the ups and downs, glory and disgrace. Because less is required, so you will feel more, because simple, so the footsteps are easy. With a grateful heart to give back to all of life, attitude determines life, and an elegant person will be able to harvest the elegant gift of life.

　　Elegant people, in the river of years, they may not be the ups and downs of the river, just a trickle of warm heart; they are not fragrant hothouse flowers, but have a light and elegant as chrysanthemums; they do not have the peony of the magnificent, but have the fragrance of the restrained; they are not a glance of your stunning gaze, but you often look back at the touch of tenderness. Elegance is a soft firmness, is to the self dressed in a gentle coat, is the courage of the calm, they are in a unique posture, in a long time, calmly aging, and how is not a kind of elegance?