The sad part of a family is not the lack of money

Family is the home and support of a lifetime.

The success or failure of a family

determines the happiness of the individual or not.

For all families,

money is rich and poor, and living conditions are good or bad.

is not the saddest.

As long as the family works hard to improve, it will always be better.

The real sadness is.

The people are not in harmony, each with his selfishness.

not knowing how to work together.

Even the uncontrollable speech, the inability to keep their mouths shut.

The four privacy of the family to tell outsiders.

It becomes the laughing stock of the neighbors after dinner.

The family's fortune will be affected and the family will go down the drain!

1, external complaints about the shortcomings of the partner

The couple is hand in hand for life.

The process of living together inevitably has conflicts.

To know how to respect each other.

Do not always be in front of outsiders.

Expose your partner's shortcomings, badmouthing your partner.

Outsiders listen to it.

Not only will they look down on you, but they will also laugh at you and

They will not only despise you but will also laugh at you and spread the story about you and your partner

spread around, adding fuel to the fire.

The situation becomes more serious.

So no matter how bad your partner is.

Don't complain to the public.

Work out your couple's problems in private.

Give each other a face outside, and learn to trust and protect each other.

The couple is one, with honor and shame together.

Only then will the family harmony, and strong marriage.

2, the external voice of family conflicts

Prosperous and wealthy families are often harmonious.

Because "family and everything is prosperous."

If the relationship between family members is not good.

always conflict, family pandemonium.

Sooner or later, it will be like scattered sand, slowly decaying.

The only way to help each other, give in to each other, unity and harmony.

Only then can the family be harmonious and develop better.

If the family does not get along, quarrel endlessly.

If you make your family's conflicts known to the public, then

If outsiders know that there is discord within your family

It will not be united and united, and

It's easier to be reckless and bully you.

So in front of outsiders, you must keep your mouth shut.

always present the harmonious side, the

Only then will outsiders be respectful.

Outsiders do not bully, and in family harmony, the family will prosper.

3. Showing off the family's income and wealth to the outside world

The human heart is jealous.

Can not see others than their own life, especially some neighbors.

Especially some neighbors.

The income and wealth of your own family.

Family members know it is good.

There is no need to show it off to the public.

to prevent people from jealousy, the back of the bad

To avoid jealousy and bad things behind your back to bring trouble and disaster to your family.

Keep a low profile in your day-to-day life.

Avoid the topic of wealth when you talk to people.

Showing off your income and wealth is asking for trouble.

If people know your wealth, they will ask you to borrow money.

You can even ask for money in different ways.

It will create problems for you and affect your family's fortune.

So be sure to keep your mouth shut and don't show off your wealth!

4、Promote your plans to the public

Everyone has their planning.

For example, job transfer, and starting a business to make money.

Talk to your family about your plans.

Let your family members help you with ideas.

Do not announce in front of outsiders.

After all, the plan has not yet been realized, only ideas.

If you tell outsiders.

Good people will give support and encouragement.

If you tell them, good people will support and encourage you, but bad people will go ahead and implement it.

They will steal your ideas and break your plans.

Your plans, your family's plans.

They are the secrets and private affairs of your own family.

The future of your family and your success or failure is at stake.

You must keep your mouth shut and not say a word about it.

Quietly implement and strive to complete.

If you don't do it, you'll be doing yourself and your family no favors by announcing it first.

You will not do yourself or your family any good!

In this world

The only people you can rely on are your family.

Do not think that everyone has good intentions.

Often the more familiar people.

The more familiar people are, the less they see you and hope you will fall.

Be a person who is careful with his words and actions.

The above four privacy must not be told to outsiders.

Keep your mouth shut, is to keep your luck.

Help the family to prosper for a long time so that the family prosperity will not decline!