The baby's temperament is cultivated in the mother's womb

Many people believe that a child's character is formed by the influence of nature, parents are the first teachers of their children, and parents words and actions have a profound influence on their children in all aspects.

The child's performance, like a mirror, can reflect the quality of the parent's character. The parents are calm and collected, and the children are often as calm and collected as their parents are when it comes to things.

At the same time, many people believe that children's personalities are born and destined by their mothers, as the saying goes, "A dragon gives birth to nine sons, nine sons are different".

This is a topic that can be said to be very vocal by the baby mama Yong Yong. The first one is a mother of two, with two daughters, but the two have very different personalities.

The older daughter is well-behaved and understanding, very resistant to frustration, calm, and collected. The second daughter has a good character and is capricious, usually, if she encounters a little thing that does not agree with her, she will cry a lot.

Yong Yong and her husband were both headaches, and they once reflected on whether their parents' pampering of their children had created a bad personality.

But also daughters, they ask themselves to be able to do a bowl of water to end evenly, there is no preference for which daughter situation. But the difference between the two daughters' personalities is so great that Yong Yong has to start believing in the saying "personality is predestined by birth".

Looking back on the process of raising her two daughters, she seems to be more convinced of this view. The older daughter has been a good baby since she was a baby, and is what people now call an "angel baby".

Moreover, the eldest daughter is known for her good behavior in the neighborhood. The neighbors often praised the baby with Yong Yong, and hardly heard the sound of crying, it is too good.

The "angel baby" of the eldest daughter is the counterpart of the "little devil" of the second daughter. From the beginning of the month, the couple felt the "power" of the second daughter's cries, not to mention that when the second daughter can express herself and has a sense of autonomy, she will break down and cry hysterically when she encounters the slightest thing.

Many times, Yong Yong wondered to herself: Is her second daughter sent by God to torment her?

During the nine months of pregnancy, that is, when the fetus and the mother are united, the mother's emotions may be similar to the mother's personality after birth.

Yong Yong recalls that when she was pregnant with her oldest, she didn't put much thought into the pregnancy because of her busy schedule.

Therefore, even if she encountered an emotional low, she was able to stabilize her emotions with a little adjustment.

However, when she was pregnant with her second child, she was particularly concerned about it because she was already an "advanced maternal age". Whenever she encountered something unpleasant during her pregnancy, she easily lost control of her emotions.

In addition, the pregnancy test results showed that the amniotic fluid was high and there was no specific reason for it, so Yong Yong was worried about the fetus and when she worried too much, the emotional problems of pregnant mothers would easily break out. When she thought back on her pregnancy, she thought that maybe her second daughter's bad personality was affected by her pregnancy's emotions.

It is a common perception that a child's personality is influenced by genetic inheritance on the one hand, and by the environment later in life on the other.

There is another factor that will also affect the gender of the child, which is often overlooked, and that is the maternal factor.

The fact is that your baby's temperament is poor, and the character of the fidget is likely to be brought out from the mother's womb and influenced by the mother's womb.

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E- Pregnant mothers are often depressed and silent

Many people know that after the birth of a child, it is easy to fall into "postpartum depression", but there is another condition that pregnant mothers deserve to be concerned about, and that is "prenatal depression".

Some pregnant mothers are affected by pregnancy hormones and have psychological problems before giving birth, often being depressed, frowning, and not saying a word.

If pregnant mothers always "close" themselves off, are trapped in depression, and do not communicate with others, the fetus in the womb may also be affected by the mother.

The baby will be born introverted and shy, and will not want to interact with others. The fact is that when the mother is in an emotional slump, for the sake of the fetus in her belly, she should actively look for ways to regulate her emotions and get out of the emotional haze.

Pregnant mothers are hot-tempered and irritable

Some moms find that their children are very irritable and will bawl and cry hysterically when something doesn't go their way. If your baby is also such a temper, the mother should reflect on her pregnancy, is not also a "powder keg", do not move to lose her temper.

A lot of times when moms and dads find out that their children are grumpy, they blame it on their children. The child's poor temperament is sometimes predetermined in the mother's womb and is affected by the pregnant mother's emotions.

Therefore, pregnant mothers should not be careless in this area of emotions, learn to manage their emotions, put away their irritable hearts, and give a positive influence on the fetal baby.