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Life's~Circles. Top Story - April 2025.
— At this Stage we Move from 'Purpose' to 'Reflection' — *May I share for a moment: Days ago, I lost two of my besties very suddenly, both in the same day. I then put my drawing into a 'Circle of Life' image by Leonardo as a tribute to Audrey and Addie. They will be missed.
By Jay Kantorabout a year ago in Families
PROGRESSIVE TRENDS
Author © Jay Kantor PROGRESSIVE TRENDS ~ Memories Build the Bridge Between Mind and Heart ~ My old military buddy phoned the other day (from Missouri) to check on us due to the current rash of wind-swept fires in our L.A. area. 'Chis' reminded me of the 'special time' that I hosted a Jewish Passover—Pesach Seder on our duty station base in Southern Japan. Most attendees were way above my pay-grade. Including the base Commanding Officer and even the Baptist Naval Chaplin with their families among them; mostly out of “Cross-Culture-Curiosity” it was hinted at.
By Jay Kantorabout a year ago in Families
How P*rn & Masturbation Destroy Dreams – A True Story Every Young Person Must Read.
Zayan was 19 young, smart, full of dreams and known for his creative spark. His dream? To become one of the best digital artists in the world and inspire change through his work. He had the talent, the tools, and the time. But he was hiding a secret that slowly began to steal it all away. It started in high school. One of his closest friends passed him a flash drive. “You’ll thank me later,” he said with a smirk. That night, curiosity got the better of Zayan. He watched his first p*rn video. It shocked him, thrilled him, and something inside clicked in the wrong direction. What began as curiosity turned into a routine. After school. Late at night. Then daily. Then, more than once a day. Porn became his escape. Masturbation became his stress relief, his comfort, his secret addiction. He convinced himself it wasn’t a big deal. “It’s normal. Everyone does it.” But something began to change. Zayan started feeling tired all the time. He’d skip meals, ignore friends, and lock himself in his room for hours. His bright spark began to dim. He couldn’t concentrate like before. His motivation to draw, to design, to create — vanished. Every time he sat down to work, he felt drained, guilty, and distracted. His art became lifeless, lacking depth, and full of confusion. Even his social confidence faded. He avoided eye contact, became anxious around girls, and hated looking at himself in the mirror. Then came the biggest blow. He applied for an internship with a top international design firm. It was his dream company. After weeks of waiting, the reply came: “We reviewed your portfolio. It lacks emotional depth and originality. We appreciate your interest, but we’re moving forward with other candidates.” Zayan froze. Heart sinking. Hands trembling. His years of effort dismissed in one short email. That night, he sat alone in the glow of his screen, surrounded by tabs filled with images that once brought him pleasure — but now brought nothing but shame. He stared at his reflection on the black screen. Pale. Hollow. Empty. “Is this what I’ve become?” he whispered. “A slave to my own urges?” He slammed the laptop shut. That was the night everything changed. The next day, he deleted every video, unsubscribed from every site, blocked every trigger, and uninstalled every app. It was painful. The withdrawals were real — sleepless nights, irritability, loneliness. But he made a decision: he wasn’t going to let this habit rob him of his future. Zayan replaced his destructive habits with purposeful ones. He started working out daily. Journaling his thoughts. Reading inspiring books. He reconnected with friends. He joined an online community of young men fighting the same battle. Slowly, day by day, he found strength. He started designing again — this time with passion, emotion, and vision. His art transformed. It told stories. It carried truth. And soon, opportunities returned. One of his digital paintings went viral on social media — not because it was sexy, but because it was real. Six months later, Zayan was invited to give a TEDx talk at his university. Standing in front of hundreds of students, he told his story — raw, honest, and unfiltered. “Every time you choose fake intimacy,” he said, “you trade a piece of your future for a moment of fantasy. P*rn doesn’t just waste your time — it kills your purpose. You think you’re in control, but you're being controlled. And when you finally break free, you realize your power was inside you all along.” The hall was silent. Many had tears in their eyes. --- Lesson for Youth: Masturbation and p*rn addiction are silent destroyers. They don’t just harm your body — they hijack your mind, steal your energy, and disconnect you from your goals. If you’re stuck, you’re not alone. You can break free. You can rise again. Your future is more valuable than any fantasy. Choose purpose over pleasure. Choose real life.
By Hamad Haiderabout a year ago in Families
When Motherhood Dies.
When Motherhood Dies: The Tragedy of Cruelty and the Loss of Humanity. Have you ever wondered: Can a mother really kill her own child? Not by accident. Not out of desperation. But by a cold, conscious decision. If the question alone moves you, the answer will haunt you. This is not fiction. It is not an exaggerated drama. It is a true story set in a lush, green village in one of Africa's most vibrant and contrasting countries, where the beauty of nature often masks the brutality of the people. A story in which motherhood was not celebrated, but rather suppressed.
By Sayed Zewayedabout a year ago in Families
Hills Like White Elephants
Unpacking Hemingway’s Silent Tension Ernest Hemingway’s short story Hills Like White Elephants is one of the most widely analyzed pieces in modern literature. First published in 1927, the story offers a minimalist yet powerfully emotional look into a conversation between a man and a woman waiting for a train in Spain. On the surface, it appears to be a simple dialogue. However, its deeper meanings reveal themes of communication, choice, gender roles, and power dynamics—all hidden beneath Hemingway’s characteristic iceberg style.
By its_ishfaq_ahmadabout a year ago in Families
What is the real meaning of mother?
The word 'mother' can have two meanings. One meaning comes from ignorance, and the other meaning comes from understanding. The first mother has only affection; the second mother has maternal feelings. Animals also have affection, but only a few mothers know maternal feelings. Motherly feelings mean giving birth in the true sense - one birth of the body and the second birth of knowledge. There is no love in affection; it only has hormones. A real mother is one who knows love. For that, the mother herself will have to be enlightened.
By Ramesh Mahato about a year ago in Families











