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If family is everything, these how-tos will help you through it all, from sibling drama to family vacations to irritating in-laws and beyond.
How to Create a Legacy Box
When I woke up on February 5, 2020, I had no idea that by 5:00 pm I would get a call from my tearful uncle and a somber ER nurse begging me to come to New York as soon as I could, or that I would drive seven hours through a blinding snowstorm to get there, knowing only that Mom might be dead before I arrived.
Jana Van der VeerPublished 3 years ago in FamiliesLessons from a Gambling Family
My mom grew up going to Las Vegas with her sisters and parents. Once the family grew, my cousins and I grew up going to Vegas. We also grew up gambling on Loteria (Mexican bingo), playing scratchers, and knowing that superstitions are personal for what works for you.
Ariana GonBonPublished 3 years ago in FamiliesHow To Deal With A Toxic Family Member
Do you have a toxic friend? Then stay away. Toxic partner? Break up! But what do you do if the toxic person is your family member?
Oberon Von PhillipsdorfPublished 3 years ago in FamiliesDealing With Hyper Active Kid
Children are one full musical concert. They have amazing energy, they enjoy everything. But being their audience might be a tough task for parents regardless of working, work from home or home makers.
Neha MehtaPublished 3 years ago in FamiliesStay at home dads
If you do a simple google search and look for work from home jobs or homemaker jobs, you will get hundreds upon thousands of hits with titles that state stay at home mom jobs, jobs for the busy mom, etc etc. Why are those sites sexist against the stay at home fathers? Are they oblivious that men can be homemakers too or are they just flat out ignoring the homemaker fathers?
8 Ways to Create Special Memories from a Family Reunion
Try to recall your last family reunion. What do you remember the most? Memory is a fickle object, one that does not like to be held.
Martin Bagel-BrownPublished 3 years ago in FamiliesGoing Zero Waste while living with your parents
While studying Urban Sustainability at the University of the District of Columbia, we took an online quiz to check our ecological footprint was. The way it calculates is how many Earths you need if everyone lived the same lifestyle as you do. My results showed that if everyone had my lifestyle, 1.75 Earth would be required to sustain our current population. That's impossible, and I decided to make lifestyle changes to do more for our environment. The catch was, I still live at home, so just me changing my lifestyle wouldn't be as beneficial as my household adapting and evolving.
Jackie ReyesPublished 3 years ago in FamiliesOur Dining Table Made Us Save $6240.00 And Earned Us 52 Memorable Sundays In A Year
Dining Out Has Been Our Family Bonding I am so lucky that my parents and siblings live within 4-km radius of where I live. We all have our families and jobs to tend to. But on Sundays [pre-Covid], we attend mass together in the morning followed by lunch in any chosen restaurant. Our food bonding is usually followed by having fancy coffee with cakes in Starbucks or any new cafe that we wanted to try.
Olivia MarlenePublished 3 years ago in FamiliesTips to help the transition of moving in with a family member or loved ones...
We all know how hard things have been for everyone during the pandemic. Unemployment is at a record high. Many families have had to resort to moving in with other family members or close friends to help each other make ends meet. The thought of having to swallow your pride and ask for help is tough. This will take the manliest of men to their knees. This is not easy for most women either; however, when push comes to shove one must look at the bigger picture. They must do what is best for all involved.
Beverlee PuckettPublished 3 years ago in FamiliesThankful for covid-19
Covid-19 has been hard for so many people. All I can say is sometimes god has a bigger plan in mind. Sometimes if you look hard enough when everything seems to be falling apart, what you are left with , is exactly what you have been needing or forgetting in life. Last year at this time all I could think about was what am I gonna do to keep a roof over my kids head. I could not breathe, my stomach was in knots, and for the first time I felt every mistake I have ever made all at once. Then my uncle got super sick while I was living under his roof. He almost died. He was literally the only thing keeping me from the streets. Everything seemed to be getting worse by the second. I had no idea what to do. my mom, surely would have went to a nursing home. without my uncle here she couldn't make it herself. All I could do is pray and try to figure out what to do. Luckily my uncle was able to come home. I did everything I could, while I could. I knew it was only a matter of time before I was asked to leave the apartment. I mean I didn't expect to stay here in the first place. I made an appointment to find public housing. On that same day covid 19 was just breaking news and by the end of the week stay at home orders came. Now I couldn't leave even if I wanted to. So while I waited to see what was going to come i found myself being able to give back to my mom and uncle. We told old stories. Played card games. I showed them all the wonders of technology a.k.a. how to use the phone they already had. Ordered prescriptions, made them at least try to manage it for themselves. Cleaned my butt off. Shoped for them and all that jazz. Heck I even lost 20 pounds. I began to finally see that sometimes life may not be perfect. I rarely is. But for me covid let me spend a little more time with those I love. Not only that, but I appreciated every minute. Who knows what tomorrow brings. Sure being piled in a one bedroom with 7 people is not ideal. But it sure beats not being able to see my mom because of covid. Sometimes you are exactly where you should be.
Jennifer SparksPublished 3 years ago in FamiliesChristmas Shopping for the Guy with Cancer
It's a tricky thing, cancer. Perhaps it's been around for a while and you already know how to work with it, in tandem like a magical ice skating duo. Or perhaps it's a new diagnosis just before the holidays and it's thrown a wrench in all your plans for the season.
THE BEST GIFT
This has been a rough year. This year took over our lives. We are not able to be among our family and friends without the fear of putting the ones we love in harms way. I has been very scary to be an essential worker with a serious chronic condition. So I have had to dial it back and to give gifts of actual conscience decision to really get gifts that are more thoughtful rather than buy big wows and wants. We all know that this is a holiday that people have seemed to lose there minds when it comes down to wow purchases.
Renea Phillips-BlackPublished 3 years ago in Families