Parents must show this cartoon against sexual assault to their children!

Statistics in the United States show that 1/4 of girls and 1/6 of boys have been sexually assaulted, and the average age at which children are sexually assaulted is 9 years old. 93% of the abusers are known to their children, and 47% of the abusers are family members or acquaintances. The danger is so close, far more than we can imagine.

In three simple steps, teach children to say "no" to sexual assault!

On the weekend, I was in the northern suburbs for autumn with my best friend's family. Look at her daughter cute, warm and considerate, and then look at my little naughty, I envy very much.

But who knows she said: "Hey, there is nothing to envy, do not envy, you know, I raise a daughter is how worried? afraid she will meet some bad guys."

Her husband said, "this is what we are most nervous about right now. Especially after watching Lin Yihan's news before, I dare not send my daughter to the interest class alone now, for fear that something will happen to her safety. "

Yes, seeing Lin Yihan's tragedy, which parent is not distressed, not worried about the safety of the child, not to mention the girl, the boy is also worried.

A survey shows that in China, 9.5% 。 Teach children about private parts and be on guard against 5 alarms

It is really difficult to distinguish "wolves in sheep's clothing" directly from their appearance, and the teacher turns to teach children how to identify the "bad behavior" of bad people.

Before that, children need to be taught to know their bodies and their private parts.

In general, in life, we habitually tell our children that the place covered by the swimsuit is the private part.

Although this way is simple, but through this description, the child can only know a general scope, not really understand which parts are private parts.

In fact, there is no need to be secretive about this aspect. Like teachers, we can tell our children very frankly:

Boys' genitals and buttocks are private parts, while girls' breasts, genitals and buttocks are private parts.

These parts should not be seen or touched by outsiders.

If someone wants to see your private part, or shows you the private part of TA, it's called "visual alert".

If someone talks about your private parts, it's called a "verbal alert".

If someone touches your private part, or asks you to touch his private part, it is called a "touch alarm".

Being alone with a stranger is called a "solitude alarm". It is important to pay special attention to the absence of parents, do not accept candy from strangers.

If someone hugs, backs and kisses you, it's called a hug alarm.

These five alarms are all danger signals. We want the child to understand that when someone does any of these five behaviors to him, he can judge that "that person" is a bad person and bravely say "No" to his behavior!

3. Work with children to build a "caregiver" list and a "love circle"

Is there any exception? of course there is! This is also the place where video content science majors.

1 Mom and Dad can!

However, only if you have to give the child a bath, or if the child's private parts are injured.

This is a great way to help children further define the boundaries of their bodies. Understand, Mom and Dad can only touch their private parts under special circumstances.

2 the one on the "caregiver" list is OK!

Usually, grandparents, grandparents or others will also help take care of the children. at this time, we can make a list of "caregivers" with our children, and those on the list are allowed under limited conditions.

However, it should be noted that if the child is not willing to write down someone's name, we must pay attention to it and find out why.

In addition, be sure to update and confirm the list with your child every few weeks.

3 the one in the "circle of love" list is also fine!

In addition to the closest relatives, we can also make a "circle of love" list with our children. The people on this list can be hugged, kissed, loved and trusted by their children.

After listing the "love circle", children can safely enjoy the care and love of their relatives, elders and friends.

When the teacher finished teaching all the safety lessons, he also gave the child a "in-class test" to make sure the child really understood and remembered.

1. Can the doctor check your private parts in the company of your mother?

two。 If a man touches a girl's chest, is that okay?

3. If a caregiver helps a boy get dressed, is that okay?

4. If a man takes off his clothes in front of a girl, is that okay?

5. If a woman says beautiful breasts to a girl, is that all right?

6. If a woman takes a girl who is playing with a friend to a remote street, is it okay?

There are many more of these questions, and each time you do a question, the clearer the child's line between safety and danger.

After reading the first half of the teaching content with your child, let him give it a try to help him understand safety knowledge and master safety principles more accurately.

I really have to admire the United States and explain clearly the problems that have been troubling us in a short period of 7 minutes.

At the end of the video, it is even more meaningful. When the child asks, why would anyone want to carry me, kiss me and touch me?

The teacher's answer was full of wisdom, not only did not use horrible language to frighten the child, but also skillfully gave the child the courage to say "no":

Because some people are sick and vulnerable, they like to hurt others, and they are really scared. If you don't like the way someone touches you, you must say "no" and don't be afraid.

If you encounter such a bad thing, it's never too late to say "no". Tell your parents or someone you know, and you can keep other children away from the bad guy.

Yes, children need not only the ability to identify bad guys, but also the courage to say "no" to bad guys. The reality of various tragedies tells us that those injured children, o