Parents are responsible for their children's rebellion

Children are becoming more and more difficult to control! The child's temper is becoming more and more stubborn! If you want your child to do this, he will do that! The child does not want the child to do so he will be the opposite of you! ...... Why are children rebellious? In fact, the parental education method is inappropriate, is also an important cause of child rebellion.

The parents nagging?

Some parents are afraid that their children do not listen, when things are repeatedly nagging an endless, a moment to let the child pay attention to this, a moment to let the child pay attention to that, this to do so, that to do so; some parents in the child made a mistake also like to reveal the child's old bottom, the child's past "bad" all turned out, one by one, counted to the The child listened to the child, and had the intention of not stopping until the child was discouraged ......?

The actual fact is that these practices have caused many children to rebel!

When a child receives too much repetitive educational content, his brain will naturally block the information, which is what we usually call "left ear in, right ear out".

What'seven worse is that if parents often use this "wooden fish" type of education, the child will get bored and tired of hearing it after a while and become "numb". Even if he understands that his parents have a good point, he may not be willing to listen and do as he is told.

o Parents make too many demands?

Some parents rarely consider their children's abilities, age and original foundation and other factors, blindly put forward some excessive and unrealistic requirements for their children. For example, the child's test scores must be "double hundred", or at least in the top three in the class; insist that the child learn more knowledge: today force the child to attend this tutorial class, tomorrow force the child to go to that tutorial class, the piano, chess, calligraphy and painting all can not be missing.... ...?

These forced, plucked approach will cause great psychological pressure on the child. When children feel exhausted and can no longer handle the pressure, they will fight back with words or actions.

Disregard the child's wishes?

Some parents, in order to make sure that their children do not lose at the starting line and that they can "become a dragon and a phoenix" in the future, often blindly follow the trend when arranging their children's study contents and compare with each other. Dance, piano, painting, foreign languages, calligraphy ...... invest a lot of energy and financial resources, but do not really consider the actual interests and hobbies of their children.

As the saying goes, "interest is the best teacher" and "a melon twisted by force is not sweet". If the child is not interested in the content of the study arranged by the parents' wishful thinking and does not willingly learn, he will definitely not learn well. If the parents then take the position of elders and adopt a high pressure policy to force the child to comply, it is easy for the child to develop a strong rebellious mentality.

o Be authoritarian and rough with your child?

Some parents still believe in educating their children "not to beat the material", "under the stick out of filial son". When a child does something wrong or fails to meet his or her requirements, he or she starts to get furious, scolding, kneeling, standing or even expelling him or her from the door ......?

These practices are very wrong. The meeker children often succumb to their parents' lust, but also suffered great psychological damage, and therefore become timid, cowardly and inferior; while the stronger personality of the children will be antagonistic to their parents, and from time to time in the form of resistance to respond to parents. Eventually the rebellion becomes sexual!?

○Overindulgence to children?

Some parents are always child-centered and obedient to their children, even if they make mistakes, they are still overly accommodating to their children. In the long run, children will take it for granted that making mistakes is no big deal, and that mom and dad won't criticize them anyway, thus developing the habit of not allowing others to criticize or correct them. It goes without saying that when parents try to discipline them, spoiled children are naturally disobedient and only confrontational! Rebellion!