If there is one of the four major manifestations of a man's "spoiling his wife", you will marry the right person.

There is a line in the movie Moulin Rouge: "the most wonderful thing in the world is to love and be loved, to give to each other."

True happiness often lies not in a promise, but in the dribs and drabs of life.

In a marriage, the temperature of the home is largely determined by the husband's attitude towards his wife.

We are long past the age of listening to love. Whether a man dotes on you in marriage depends on his actual actions.

If he has the following "spoil his wife" performance, then you married the right person!

Keep a sense of distance from the opposite sex

The most important thing between husband and wife is loyalty. A marriage without loyalty is doomed to failure.

The most basic standard of a good man is to make his wife feel love and loyalty.

There is a popular article on Zhihu.

A girl told herself that she happened to see her boyfriend of eight years in love with his classmate sister-in-law constantly sharing their daily life, and the relationship has long gone beyond the boundaries of most heterosexual friends.

Finally, the girl found that her boyfriend had already had an affair and resolutely broke up.

Frequent chatting, habitual sharing, excessive concern and in-depth heart-to-heart talk in life are all worth sounding the alarm.

Men who really care about their wives will not send ambiguous signals to the opposite sex.

Because they know that women are sensitive and care about your feelings.

In this regard, Zhu Yawen is a good example.

In the game-making session of the Happy Variety Camp, he Xin asked Zhu Yawen to pick up Wu Xin.

Zhu Yawen immediately refused to say, "Sorry, I'm married."

When other male stars were full of anecdotes, Zhu Yawen's low-key marriage protected his wife very well.

It is precisely because he knows how to keep a distance from the opposite sex after marriage that makes the marriage so harmonious.

The man who really loves you will definitely keep a social distance from the opposite sex.

Offer to help you with the housework.

Many people think that doing housework is a woman's business, and men don't have to interfere.

In fact, although it is only a small gesture to help his wife share the housework, it will bring a lot of comfort to his wife.

I once watched the variety show "my wife's Romantic Journey", in which the relationship between Qin Hailu and her husband was impressive.

Qin Hailu mentioned several small details that particularly moved her in the program:

After seven years of marriage, her husband, Wang Xinjun, will always prepare breakfast to see her out.

When I go home in the evening, even if it is early in the morning, my husband will clean up the house and wait for her to go home.

Wang Xinjun really took practical actions to turn a strong woman covered with thorns into a little princess.

After going through the firewood, rice, oil and salt together, having experienced the trivialities of life together, and being able to take care of them as carefully as they did at first sight, is the best appearance of marriage.

There is no rule in marriage who must do housework, but if a man is willing to help you share it, it must be a sign of love for you.

The man who really loves you, he will be willing to love you in daily life, but also willing to bring you happiness and happiness in his own way.

Give you a sense of ritual in life

Venus once said, "how strong a man is is his own business." But how much a man can do for you is about whether he loves you or not. "

In the firewood, rice and salt of marriage, the sense of ritual is the preservative of love.

Some people live a good life after marriage, while others have a happy and sweet life after marriage, the key lies in whether they have a sense of ritual or not.

In a good marriage, the other person makes you feel warm.

Sun Li and Deng Chao have been married for nearly ten years, but Deng Chao sends his best wishes on time every year on Sun Li's birthday.

Personally cook longevity noodles for Sun Li, draw pictures for Sun Li, post photos of Sun Li when he was young, and so on.

The most painstaking one was two months before Sun Lisheng, recording videos from all over the country.

At different times and in different places, then say Happy Birthday to Sun Li every day, and finally clip it into a video to give Sun Li on his birthday.

Deng Chao, who was asked about the secret of keeping marriage fresh, said he was a man who attached great importance to etiquette.

We will spend every important holiday, not only on birthdays, but also on anniversaries.

The sense of ritual is not hypocrisy and trouble, but the evidence and memory of love.

The man who really loves you, he is willing to spend time and time on you.

Respect your parents who are kind to you

A man dotes on you and will respect your parents and treat them as if they were his parents.

A friend's husband will take his wife and children home to visit his parents-in-law during the holidays.

When there is something important in his wife's family, actively help to give advice and give some positive opinions.

When his wife and parents are sick, they often go to the hospital to take care of them and give them financial support.

To love someone is to care about what she cares about and what she cares about.

When you fall in love, it is enough to think that a man is kind to you, but after stepping into a marriage, the man should not only love you wholeheartedly, but also respect and take care of your parents and relatives.

A man's attitude towards your parents determines the temperature of marriage.

If a man honeys you every day, but treats your parents three times or even turns a blind eye to your parents.

Then such a person must not care about you.

The man who really loves you will treat your parents with gratitude and filial piety with sincerity and efforts.

The writer Gorky once said: "Marriage is the combination of the spirit of two people, the purpose is to overcome all the difficulties and hardships of the world."

Marriage is a test for women, because life is what marriage is.

Women are born to be watered with sincerity and love, and it is the happiest thing for them to be loved.

The man who really spoils you will make you feel like a spring breeze, while the man who doesn't love you will only make you feel cold.

If you meet a man with the above four performances, then you are really married to love.

So please cherish the people in front of you and make your marriage life more happy!

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