Divorce is Like a Puzzle | Thinking About Divorce

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Let’s think outside of the box for a second here. And let’s look at divorce from a different perspective. Why? Because I want to help you make the decision: “Should I stay married or should I get divorced” from a logical standpoint. I want you to remove the emotions from the equation at the moment and just think logically so that you can make a PROPER decision of what you should do from this point forward.

All right, so let’s look at your divorce like a puzzle and in order to see the picture of the puzzle when it’s formed, you need to actually look at every individual piece of the puzzle and put them all together. So, every piece of the puzzle represents a different part of your life. And every piece of the puzzle is different for each person.

So just to give you an idea, one piece of the puzzle could represent your family life, one could represent your finances, one could be your health, one could be a role as a single parent, one could be your happiness, every single piece is different for each person. So, once you’ve identified what each piece of the puzzle is, now your job is to try to put all of these pieces together.

And that’s the hard part. The hard part is understanding how every single piece is supposed to fit together when your whole life is about to change. When you have to make giant decisions as to “should I stay married or should I get divorced … And if I decide either one of those, what’s my next step… Where do I go on from here and what do I do?” Why? Because you’re a puzzle has deformed and that’s why you’re at the point that you’re at now, because every piece of your puzzle has not been fitting well together. So it just sort of like exploded. And so now, because you can’t see the picture in its entirety and you can’t see what your future looks like, you need to actually analyze each part in a very succinct, meticulous way, and then find a way to put it all together. Once it fits together and you see the picture, then you’ll understand what your post-divorce life looks like. Then you’ll understand what your post-marriage life would look like from this point forward.

Why? Because you will have carefully and methodically thought through all the most important areas of your life. And when I talk about looking at this puzzle, I usually talk about 4 areas of your life: You’ve got the emotional, spiritual, financial, and physical well-being and those are all areas that you need to carefully analyze and methodically think about in order to really understand: does it make sense to stay married or does it make sense to get divorced. Carefully planning out your next stage of your life comes from the answers to this particular question. If you’d like to know more about how to logically plan your next steps, Logically Plan Your Divorce or the thought process of does it even make sense to get divorced, I invite you to join the exclusive online course that I’ve created in the Divorce by Rose Community app. It is a 90-minute course comes with a 15-page analysis that has you looking at your life from like a global view from like a bird’s eye view. Why? Because you can’t make a decision of where your life is going to be if you’re not looking at ALL the different areas of your life. I’m going to include a link below to this exclusive course that you could find only in Divorce by Rose and I invite you to come and join us in the Divorce by Rose community where you can chat and ask questions and engage with like-minded parents.

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