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CAREER CHOICES

~What would you liked to be...and Why?~

By Jay KantorPublished 2 years ago Updated 9 months ago 3 min read
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CAREER CHOICES

– What would you like to be...and WHY? –

Those working in fields with their degree majors, or even minors, can be a rarity these days. Many are hired just because they have a General-Liberal Arts diploma, thus displaying a higher learning level. Of late, most large companies prefer to focus at in-house training for their programs. Regardless, there is an ever decreasing need for related career choices, having nothing to do with their 'pre-set-goals'.

My best subject was Philosophy: Kantor~Kant (Immanuel Kant "Practical Reason–Perception may not be Reality"). Dad said, in his always less than subtle fashion. "So, big-shot, can you make a living by having this degree?" I changed majors after this appraisal. Even honor graduates from highly recognized institutions, at enormous expense, are working far beyond their chosen career-professions.

Hey, maybe I could become a Newbie-Type Boomer ~ Influencer? But, our generation never called it that. We were referred to as Schleppers (Salespeople) Pitchmen or Barkers! There may be a current opening in that noted-diversified field? Same flavor; just different recipes!

Ever notice the 'Meteorologists' aka ~ Gorgeous T.V. Weather Women? Wonder what their degree majors were as their hiring criteria? Ooh, that's just me being cynical; probably the only one that's noticed?

My Good Friend, Joselito, worked for my fathers' factories in his art Department. He did paste-up (before computer graphics). Such an incredibly gifted-talented painter, with a Master's Degree in Fine-Arts, and finally got a job as a Docent at the Getty Museum. Joselito said, "that's the closest I've ever been to earning a living from my passion. And although Docents don't get paid, I also work at Getty as a Security Guard, as long as I'm there anyway." Not a job that gets a lot of compliments! He has a terrific 'tude!

When you're really good working within your chosen career, work is not really work at times. Kind of like if you're a good bowler, you enjoy bowling a lot. My Twin, Lucky-Lar, Quote: "I still get-to-work!" Good for him!

Not An Anti-Dentite:

After a recent visit at the Dentists' office, this came to mind: Very wonderful-rewarding feeling to belong to a profession alleviating people from pain. But, poor guys, they don't get to gab much to their patients, once "Open Mouth Wide" is announced – but, lots of sign-language! And, with everyone 'specializing' not a lot of variety in this 'job' category; although an essential 'healing-aesthetic' occupation to be proud of. General Dentistry is not so General anymore. Not unlike HMO's, referrals to specialists are not uncommon.

I once dated a PhD - School Psychologist. Oddly, she was the least maternal woman I had ever known. She told me she was in it for the "easy money" (2) month yearly vacation, and the prestige – we broke up!

My personal pet peeves are, for example: No office without a window. No cubicle, ever. I need fresh air, as with my open floor plan home. Lucky-Lar likes the high-rise; not me!

But an odd incongruity. When you walk into his gorgeous penthouse office all 'Professionals' are walking around in huaraches~tank tops and shorts; with their dogs following them! This is just so unlike our generation's attire-presentable décor. We wore impeccable suits/ties every day; our uniform of the day: Dressed to present the 'Professionals' that we were.

Haven't noticed the once constant barrage of T.V. commercials with competing Men's clothier ads of late! When home, we wore the 'huaraches'.

"You wouldn't worry so much about what people thought about you...

..... if you realized how little they did!"

What are your "Peeves?" What are your "Choices?"

               Can You derive income from it?

Jay Kantor, Chatsworth, Cal

    'Senior' Vocal Author

For Our Kids Someday

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  • Shirley Belk6 months ago

    Jay, I was looking for your remake of Polyester, but couldn't find it. Gotta love your dad in this story...he got you on the right track by asking the right question. You are a born salesman and he saw that, I'm sure. I also had to smile at the thought of you at the dentist trying to be an extrovert...lol And I agree...every place I have ever enjoyed working has had a great view. Mandatory, really. As a nurse, I have seen a horrible adaptation in my field. (Maybe just in Texas?) There are nurses' aides, vocational nurses, associate degree nurse, bachelor of science degree nurses, masters and doctors of nursing. And that is the normal pathway if one were to start at the first step and go upwards. But now, some not-so-bright thinking brought us to the possibility of jumping from any...and I mean any 4 year degree jumping straight into a Masters in Nursing after about a year. A nurse is mostly formed by experience with patients...it is an applied science. My ex, who was sent to see a "specialist" for his diabetes got a Finance major who had made the leap. I fired him in his office after laughing in his face. He knew almost nothing about diabetes or insulin. Even the hospitals I took vocational students to train in stated they didn't like working beside this new breed of nurses. After I went straight from housewife/mother to Bachelor's degree, and had all the theory down, and thought I had a workable understanding of anatomy & physiology, the real training I received was when I started working on the "medical-surgical floor" and my teachers were the lesser degreed healthcare workers.

  • Hannah E. Aaron11 months ago

    I really enjoyed this article! I don’t think I’ve settled quite yet into a career. Entering college, I was a history major thinking I’d graduate and teach the subject. Instead, I added on the creative writing major and found I have more passion for writing than history (though I like to make a combo of the two with historical fiction). Ideally, I’d like to teach Creative Writing courses at the collegiate level, but I’m in the no-experience-but-cannot-attain-experience-because-no-experience dilemma. But I’ve also just gotten a part time job I love and I get to write and read on Vocal. So all I all, I’m pretty pleased at the moment.

  • Phil Flannery12 months ago

    I was told to do a trade. The late seventies in Aus had job shortages. I became a photoengraver (it no longer exists as a job, computers took over), I made a half arsed attempt to stay in the industry, but I hated it. After eight years as a home dad, I became what we call a General Assistant in schools. The maintenance guy. I love my job, I work outdoors mainly and pretty much run my own show.

  • Sandy 2 years ago

    Good point Jay! Makes me wonder if I had finished school getting the degree I had wanted, what would I actually be doing? Would I be doing what I’m doing right now? Working for somebody else…. Who knows.

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