Love is ethereal, but desire and personality are real.

Early on, I didn't believe in "love" or "true love". It was just a beautiful fairy tale, or the speechless words between ordinary men and women. We understand that love is single-mindedness, persistence and great dedication. I don't believe in single-mindedness, but I believe in great dedication.

The so-called love comes from sexual desire, it is a powerful natural force hidden in men and women, is a very heroic physical desire.

The so-called love is a more complex judgment made by distinguishing the differences between rich and poor, intelligence, beauty and ugliness, and whether the future is good or bad, after sexual desire plus visual desire, vanity desire, aesthetic desire, and moral desire. Although it is judgment, it only happens in the field of the unconscious. People in love only have the emotion that drives people to tears and the desire to burst the viscera.

The so-called marriage is to add more people and more social desires to the various desires of love. In short, they are becoming more and more complex, and it is not a simple thing between two men and women on the surface. Human desire is difficult to achieve bluntly and simply, it is always subject to thousands of constraints and repression.

Love, true love is the premise of love, sexual desire, without this, men and women can not come together, just like magnets have lost their attraction. And the nature of sexual desire is by no means single-minded, as can be proved by historical facts and thoughts hidden in everyone's heart. Therefore, I do not believe in the single-mindedness of love, so I do not believe in love, true love. Of course, this is only a secular understanding of the meaning of love.

There are two situations in the specialization of love, one is the restriction of society and morality, the other is the desire of both sides of love, rich and poor, beauty and ugliness, talent are very consistent and balanced. The second situation is very rare, but it can only show that two people are in tune, not the instability of desire.

The first situation is our lives. Life without restrictions is terrible. If someone is a "transparent person", I am afraid they will really go beyond the rules and do something unconventional, which people will call evil. Because of this, desire is real and stable.

The so-called true love is not abandoning each other and being responsible for each other. The sacrifice of one side, the benefit of one side, or the sacrifice of both parties is a necessary condition for true love. This is the sad part. If there is no tragedy, there can be no true love, otherwise it is only love at best. If so, true love must have gone through a bitter journey.

What makes it possible is the soundness of personality, not the intensity of desire. Everyone wants to have it, but almost everyone lacks a sound personality. In true love, men or women are willing to bear the blow of "evil" for each other and experience inhuman treatment. They do this for no reason, just do not want to destroy the principles of human beings, with their own adhere to the "Tao".

If there is a slight weakness or lack of personality, the lover will be knocked down immediately, and the betrayal, abandonment, destruction, and injustice of the other party will be done, and the original strong love will become a tool to be used to fill one's own grievances and return to stability. All the artistic conception of love is completely destroyed.

True love always happens to people with not bad personalities, but it is unlikely to happen to people who are evil and have no basic principles. But there are also opposite examples, such as two villains are extremely in love, sacrifice and work hard for each other, such feelings can also grieve the heart and make people cry. They must also have something respectable, that is, some persistence and good thoughts in their bones. There are no pure evil people.

Therefore, love is ethereal, desire and personality are real. Love, which is influenced by sexual desire, is ethereal and unstable, and such desire is permanent. Sexual desire calls for love with strong vitality, but without social and moral personality as a guarantee, love will depreciate, and true love is nonsense.

This God is too good at being fooled by fate. It is not easy to be a man, so I hope to cherish it.