Relationships, Love, and creating Harmonious Patterns for connection

I have always felt that I exist outside of this world, not as an alien or any special entity, but because the typical relationship between two individuals just wasn't meant for me. Yes, I have always understood the need for communication and intimacy, that panicked clinging to one another driven by the fear of solitude. Of course, such relationships also have their material advantages – it's simply more economical and easier to raise offspring together. However, these patterns have been established from ancient times and unfortunately perpetuated by societal pressures.

And why do I think these societal pressures are responsible? 🙂 When young people reach a certain age, there's already an expectation for them to have a family, and if not then they absolutely must be in a relationship. And if they're not, well, then they should definitely have children. And if they don't, then they face judgment and criticism. And surely, this makes those young people so much happier in their relationships, doesn't it?

Well, this is my interesting point of view.

Given this perspective and also considering my painful past failures, I had locked away my heart. I wasn't a bitter old hag who despised all things good and beautiful, including young people falling in love. I simply became an observer, because playing that game wasn't for me. Those patterns shattered me. As my readers may have noticed, I've been translating about the energetic development of Twin Flames in my blog for quite some time. I emphasize the energetic aspect because these high-frequency and harmonious connections are still quite unfamiliar and often daunting in 3D reality. Even to the participants themselves, because perceiving the other within oneself, hearing their thoughts in one's mind, the intensity that comes with physical encounters – all of this is immense.

New, unfamiliar, exciting, insanely intense, but on the wings of Unconditional Love. The preceding translations describe my personal journey, my fears and adjustments, those crazy emotions, and often realizations that I wasn't the only one in such a state with my Twin Flame. There are many other couples fighting against old patterns, perspectives, and societal norms to restore a connection that's essentially "written in the stars." And amidst all of this, the opinions and attitudes of others can make it even more complicated, the notion that love is just three letters in the world "sex," and that all of this is driven by animal instincts to propagate the species.

The essence of love has been forgotten for a very long time, and often, especially among today's youth, a simple party flirt is considered the foundation of a relationship. The belief is that after such an event, suddenly someone belongs to someone else, and undoubtedly, there's a profound love that follows, paving the way for a solid and stable home life. Sweethearts, that might be possession, dominance, and even subjugation and convenience, but it isn't love – at least, not the kind that should be the foundation of a harmonious partnership where both parties, and any new individuals born within it, feel cherished, loved, and valued.

So, learn to understand what Unconditional Love truly is and what it takes to be genuinely happy.

In the midst of all this, I'll post a new translation by Debbie DuBois, explaining why people search for their so-called "other half" and why they yearn for those "sacred unions."

Until then, happy contemplation, self-observation, and discovering that love within yourselves.

Of course, you're invited to read the previous posts as well 😉

LoneWolf on the healing and Soul-gathering Journey ❤

From the time September 20, 2017

Elle Vihman