loosing people

Losing people is the hardest part of life, we all lose our dearest people in the most unexpected way. Life is unpredictable.....

After my sister got married, I became lonely and missed her every second of my life but now I have learned how to live without her. She comes and goes at my house and I feel nothing, no sadness, nor happiness just because I have accepted it the way it is. I lost a lot of my friends after that but then it didn't shake me badly cause the departure of my sister made me strong enough to let go and accept the brutal realities of life.

Losing your loved ones by death is the most brutal and traumatic reality of life. I never lost a loved one to death and I am extremely grateful to Allah for that but I saw one of my extended family members, gradually dying of cancer and that was brutal, He had five daughters and a wife, are all left alone now, he was a middle age man, kind-hearted and was great to people, I never heard somebody complain about him ever, as people say that good people die early. His family was devastated by his death and I too couldn't hold myself and cried a lot at the funeral. He was lying down in front of us and we prayed for him to get up somehow by a miracle.

Losing a loved one is like having the rug swept from under you. We make plans for the day, and do not think twice about how those plans can be taken away in the blink of an eye, and how certain people won't be able to wake up and be with you like they used to be. The pain of losing someone we love can be overwhelming and all-consuming. The grieving process is different for everyone, but it often involves sadness, anger, guilt, and despair. It's important to give yourself time to grieve and to seek support from family, friends, or a mental health professional if you need them.

One of the most challenging aspects of losing a loved one is learning to live without them. It can be difficult to adjust to life without someone who was such an important part of your life. You may find yourself struggling with daily tasks or feeling lost and directionless.

It's important to remember that it's okay to take things one day at a time. You don't have to have everything figured out right away, and it's okay to ask for help if you need it. Consider joining a support group or seeking counseling to help you cope with your loss.

Another challenge of losing a loved one is dealing with the practical aspects of their passing. This may include making funeral arrangements, settling their estate, or dealing with legal issues. It's important to seek help from professionals if you need it, such as a lawyer or financial advisor.

Despite the pain and difficulty of losing a loved one, it's important to remember that they will always be with you in spirit. You can honor their memory by keeping their legacy alive, whether it's through sharing stories, creating a memorial, or participating in a cause that was important to them.

In conclusion, losing a loved one is one of the most difficult experiences that a person can go through. It's important to give yourself time to grieve, seek support from others, and take things one day at a time. Remember that your loved one will always be with you in spirit, and honor their memory by keeping their legacy alive.