Mixed to no friends, is not simple

The friendships in life are far less simple than imagined, and often those that can hurt you are the people around you.

I used to think that friends would be people who could accompany you for life, but then I realized that all friendships are interests.

I once had a classmate say this to me and it made a deep impression on me.

Her playmate at the time was moving to another school and she was worried that she would have no one to keep her company, so she said, "Let's hang out together when she's gone."

Such words are not difficult to understand, but their cruelty of them is also revealed.

Some friendships in life are fragile, perhaps you treat the other person as a friend, but the other person only treats you as a temporary companion.

When you lose the value of companionship, he will not hesitate to move away from you.

People are always lonely, whether or not there are friends on the side is irrelevant, because it is difficult to find a soulmate, most people around the friends are just alcoholic friends.

Therefore, those who are mixed to have no friends, are not simple, because they see through everything, willing to bear alone loneliness.

In the past, I often heard the elders say that this child is very outgoing, and will have great success in the future.

This is a generalization, it is true that extroverts are not afraid of things and are more likely to encounter opportunities.

But the most important thing about a person is the pattern of thought, not the so-called character.

Extroverts just have a big personality, but there is no ink in the stomach, and also can not achieve the self.

And those who are introverted, although silent, may lose a lot of opportunities, the gold will always shine, silent more let them look profound.

A passage to describe it: "quiet as a virgin move like a rabbit."

Quietness contains power, in the quietness of the outbreak of people in life will certainly be higher than ordinary people on a level.

In addition, because of silence and introspection, they can also avoid a lot of trouble.

During busy times do not have to take time to deal with friends in the drinking game, they can spend more time and energy on the family.

There is no way to know if your friends are reliable, after all, you know what you know, but the only thing you can be sure of is that you can rely on yourself.

In this world, you should rely most on yourself, not friends and family or even your significant other.

You should fight for what you want, even without the help of friends, you should fight for your own life.

As Hugo said, "I prefer to open my future by my strength, rather than to seek the favor of the powerful."

A person walking in the world must need a strong and determined heart, which is also the test of the creator.

Those who know how to be independent are the soberest people in the world and the closest to success.

No friends at your side do not mean that your people can not, only that you have not met the like-minded.

To be honest, people are lucky to meet a like-minded friend in this life.

The ability to clean up their circle, looking for the appearance of this friend, is also the greatest respect for this friend.

People who don't have friends are always rich in time.

They can spend their time in every corner of their lives and can think about questions that are difficult to answer.

It is not difficult to find that for those who do not have all kinds of friends around them, life is mostly very full.

And this fullness is not as simple as eating a meal together and chatting, but the inner fullness.

People live a life, and the most important thing is to be happy, but to do this is extremely difficult.

When you spend all your time socializing, you will find yourself always busy in a meaningless way.

With those so-called friends, your life will only appear in two ways.

The first does not feel happy, and will even feel tired; the second is greedy for pleasure, and the state of life is a mess.

No matter which one it is, it will have an impact on your life, to know that emotions are the key to determining a person's life.

People who do not have friends are living a very spontaneous life.

Like a colleague of mine, he is very good, people around him and his relationship is also very good, but those social activities he never participates in, he likes to write, but also often rely on writing to win awards, and he always likes to drink a little wine alone, such a life he is very satisfied.

In his body, the feeling of spontaneity is very obvious, his life is not lonely at all, on the contrary, he feels very happy.

It is a fortunate thing to be able to allocate time wisely to the things you like.

I believe that most people's lives are rather bitter, after all, every family has a difficult book.

But some people's lives look easy, and that's because they let themselves go.

There are many rules and regulations in society, and we are constrained to walk, but at the same, we can also reduce the constraints for ourselves.

When you will reduce the constraints, you will feel a different sense of ease.

Interpersonal communication we learn from childhood, elders also teach us to make more friends, but when you grow older you will find that friends in the fine not in the many when you are not comfortable with others, it is better to learn to be alone and spontaneous.

People who do not have friends have a clear perception of emotions.

People's life is important to experience different people and different things, in the face of friendly people we should be grateful, and in the face of people who have malice, we do not have to count too much.

Often trapped in their cages are self-created, your life path will always be accompanied by someone to move forward.

People go higher, water flows lower.

When you are young, you make friends and contact the world, and when you are older, you leave yourself behind to give yourself quietly.

As Epicurus said, "The time when you are forced to be in a crowd is often the time when you should be most alone."

To be able to learn to live alone, your life will go up a notch, this is the path of life practice.

So, never look down on a friendless person, they just keep the solitude, recognize society, and recognize themselves.