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Finding My True Family
Greetings, Vocal readers! I've been very open about who I am for the last several years in numerous stories. I fully embrace my true self daily and unapologetic for it. Despite Republican politicians increasingly attempting to silence and denying our existence, our voices will grow even louder. I'm going to tell a story about how an event changed my life forever. Be sure to sound off in the comments below and be sure to like this story once you have read it. If you have any questions about what I look for in a guy, please also share them down below. Also, follow me on my socials. Finally, please send me a one-off tip at the end of this story to support my work as I continue to write and publish more stories.
By Mark Wesley Pritchard about a year ago in Pride
Right here, waiting
Sweat fills my palms and my legs are shaking, almost failing under me. The first people began to flow out from the gate, tired eyes scanning for exits while pulling rolling bags. Breath left my lungs, I gripped the small little box tied with purple and black bows tight, looked out for one set of eyes in particular …
By Savannah K. Wilsonabout a year ago in Pride
The Bold and the Fabulous . Content Warning.
The art of embracing our true selves is something that we should be doing unapologetically. For yours truly, the journey from hiding the real me to being out and proud was a difficult one. I'm going to share my own personal story and how I'm living my life today as a gay man.
By Mark Wesley Pritchard about a year ago in Pride
Why I’m Proud of My Roots: A First-Generation Immigrant’s Voice
Why I’m Proud of My Roots: A First-Generation Immigrant’s Voice Introduction: Who I Am and Where I Come From They say identity is a journey. For me, it has been an ocean—deep, unpredictable, and endlessly vast. I was born in a land where my name was not strange, my accent was not noticeable, and my food didn’t need translation. But that land became a memory when my family moved across continents, chasing a better life and sacrificing almost everything familiar to start from zero. I became a first-generation immigrant overnight—young, confused, and silently holding the weight of two worlds.
By Afia Sikderabout a year ago in Pride
is it gay to like femboys
Is It Gay to Like Femboys? Exploring Gender, Attraction, and Identity The question "Is it gay to like femboys?" sparks debates across social media, dating forums, and LGBTQ+ discussions. Some argue that attraction to feminine men aligns with heterosexual preferences, while others see it as inherently queer. The truth? It depends on how you define sexuality, gender expression, and personal identity.
By David Femboyabout a year ago in Pride
What are femboys
In recent years, the term "femboy" has gained popularity in online spaces, fashion, and LGBTQ+ discussions. But what exactly is a femboy? This blog post will explore the definition, origins, cultural significance, and misconceptions surrounding femboys. where to buy femboy clothing
By David Femboyabout a year ago in Pride
My Ideal Man
I rarely or if ever divulge details about my love life, but this story is perfect for me to do just that. It's been nearly six years since I was in a long-term relationship and at one point, was engaged to be married. Dating has drastically changed over the years, but as for me, I'm still looking for that special man to spend the rest of my life with. As someone who has Autism, it has been difficult for me find a man to date or be in a relationship with, because some assume that my disability is a burden to them. When they hear the word disability, they assume that they'll be taking care of me forever. Despite my disability, I have a job and live a regular life. So no, I'm NOT a burden. My expectations of finding an ideal partner aren't outrageous or unreasonable. Once you have finished reading this story, you'll know a little bit about the things I expect from a man.
By Mark Wesley Pritchard about a year ago in Pride
Pride: Beyond Rainbows—A Lifeline for Millions”
Understanding Pride: More Than a Parade, It's a Powerful Movement When someone says the word Pride, many people instantly imagine colorful parades, rainbow flags, glitter, music, and celebration. And while those visuals are absolutely part of Pride, the heart of it runs much deeper. Pride isn’t just an event or a month—it’s a movement, a message, and, for millions around the world, a lifeline. In this article, we’ll explore what Pride really means, what it stands for, and why it's so important. Whether you're part of the LGBTQIA+ community or an ally trying to learn, understanding Pride is a step toward compassion, equality, and change. What is Pride? At its core, Pride is about visibility, dignity, and celebration for LGBTQIA+ people. It is a response to years—decades—of silence, shame, and societal rejection. It's the opposite of hiding. Pride originated as a form of resistance. It began as a protest, not a party. The first Pride marches took place in June 1970 to mark the one-year anniversary of the Stonewall Riots—a series of confrontations between the police and LGBTQIA+ activists in New York City. These riots weren’t planned or polished. They were raw, real, and fueled by frustration over systemic oppression. Pride, today, honors that history. It’s about saying: “We are here. We are valid. We won’t hide.” What Does Pride Include? While Pride events vary by location and culture, here’s what is commonly included: 1. Parades & Marches These are often the most visible aspects of Pride—colorful, high-energy parades where people walk in solidarity, often with music, banners, floats, and speeches. But beyond the celebration, parades are also protests. Many Pride marches still highlight political demands—equal rights, protection from discrimination, and justice for queer and trans lives lost to violence. 2. Community Events Pride includes a variety of events—panel discussions, art shows, film screenings, poetry nights, and more. These platforms help amplify LGBTQIA+ voices and share stories that often go unheard. 3. Support Resources Many Pride festivals include health booths, mental wellness spaces, and outreach from nonprofits offering help for LGBTQIA+ youth, housing resources, HIV testing, and counseling services. 4. Education & Awareness Pride is an opportunity to educate the wider public. Schools, companies, and local governments often host diversity training, sensitivity workshops, and awareness programs during Pride Month to promote inclusivity and understanding. 5. Memorials Pride also includes moments of reflection—remembering those lost to hate crimes, HIV/AIDS, suicide, or systemic neglect. Vigils and tributes are a solemn but essential part of Pride. The Many Colors of Pride The rainbow flag is the most recognizable symbol of Pride, but there are actually many Pride flags representing different identities within the LGBTQIA+ spectrum: Rainbow Flag – General LGBTQIA+ unity Transgender Flag – Light blue, pink, and white for trans pride Bisexual Flag – Pink, purple, and blue Asexual Flag – Black, gray, white, and purple Non-Binary Flag – Yellow, white, purple, and black Progress Pride Flag – Includes black, brown, trans colors with the rainbow to highlight inclusivity Each flag tells its own story, showing how diverse and intersectional the queer community really is. Why Pride Still Matters You may wonder: "Why do we still need Pride?" Because, around the world, being LGBTQIA+ is still criminalized in over 60 countries. In many places, people can be fired, evicted, or attacked just for being who they are. In others, same-sex couples still can't marry, adopt, or live openly. Even in more progressive countries, queer and trans people often face bullying, mental health struggles, and a lack of representation. Pride isn’t just a celebration—it’s a statement. A declaration of humanity, resilience, and the right to exist without fear. What We Get from Pride Pride gives people something many never had before: belonging. Here are a few things Pride offers: Visibility: For many, Pride is the first time they see themselves represented in public. That kind of visibility can save lives. Community: Pride is a gathering of chosen families, friends, and allies. It reminds people they are not alone. Healing: From past trauma to internalized shame, Pride helps many begin the process of self-acceptance and healing. Inspiration: Pride often sparks movements, campaigns, and conversations that push for change—whether in schools, the workplace, or government policy. Pride Is for Everyone Some people say, “Why isn’t there a straight Pride?” But here's the thing: straight people have always been allowed to live, love, and be recognized without fear. Pride exists because LGBTQIA+ people didn’t have that luxury. But allies are welcome! Pride isn't about exclusion—it's about inclusion. Allies who support, protect, and amplify LGBTQIA+ voices are crucial to the movement. Being an ally doesn’t mean speaking for the community. It means standing with them, listening, learning, and using your privilege to uplift others. Beyond June: Pride All Year While Pride Month is officially celebrated in June (to honor the Stonewall Riots), being proud doesn’t end on July 1st. LGBTQIA+ people exist and struggle year-round. So should support. Whether it’s advocating for inclusive education, supporting queer-owned businesses, challenging harmful stereotypes, or simply being a safe person for someone to come out to—there are many ways to live Pride every day. Final Thoughts Pride isn’t just about rainbows. It’s about rights. It’s not just a party—it’s protest, remembrance, and a celebration of love, diversity, and resilience. Pride reminds us that love is love. That identity is valid. That no one should be made to feel ashamed of who they are. Whether you’re celebrating for the first time or standing in solidarity as an ally, remember: Pride is for everyone who believes in a world where everyone can live authentically and safely. So wear your colors proudly, listen with your heart, and most importantly—support each other. Because Pride isn’t just a month. It’s a movement.
By Tanushree Dasabout a year ago in Pride
The First Date Quandary
To be frank, I had no idea that Preston liked me. He claimed to be straight, and I took him at his word. There was no reason to doubt him. And to be honest, I didn't know if I liked him as a person at first. He was standoffish and had a sarcastic remark for everything. Looking back, I should have been in love with him from the jump, but then this would be a very different story. We met at writing group. Over time, he began to join my group for dinner or drinks after the meetings. He bonded with my friends over teasing me for enjoying cottage cheese, even when I'm not dieting. Then something changed one night. "Will you walk with me to the train station?" Preston asked. "I have something I want to tell you." "Yeah, of course," I said. I had no idea what was going on, but I learned early on that if someone asks to talk, you don't say no. Maybe he just wanted to vent about writing or ask advice about a love interest, I thought. While we weren't exactly that close, it wouldn't be the first time a straight dude asked me for help with the ladies. Most of them know that gay men can help with insight into what the women want. As we walked, Preston was noticeably quiet. For someone who wanted to talk, words were not coming out of his mouth. This worried me. But before I could ask him what was up, two mutual friends caught up to us. Whatever he wanted to say would have to wait. Homebound And Out Preston would have to wait longer to tell me because that weekend, I headed home to Detroit. My sister was getting married, and I was giving her away. So, I had to be present. During the wedding, I got a little drunk. I talked to my cousin about Preston and finally admitted that maybe I was attracted to him. But I understood that a firm boundary was in place because I believed him to be straight. "I don't think he's straight," my cousin said. "He said he's straight, that's all there is to it," I countered. "Straight guys don't tell their gay friends they miss them." "He might. Things are different." When I shared the story with a friend, she jumped on the bandwagon and argued that Preston did indeed have feelings for me. She pointed out that he found little way to make me laugh and smile. She also pointed out that he found little ways to touch me. To no one's surprise, I was not convinced. Preston insisted he was straight and that was the end of the story. Except, he hadn't actually insisted he was straight. As was later pointed out to me, his exact words were that he'd only been in one relationship and his partner was a woman. But he never ruled out being with men. I was stunned by this revelation. "Preston, do you have a crush on me?" I asked in a text message. "I live outside of Manhattan and travel all the way to see you twice a week," one response read. The next said: "What do you think?" At that moment, I thought I had too much to drink and this was a conversation that needed to be done in person. First Date Or No Once I was back in Manhattan, I decided that it was time for us to have the talk. It turned out that Preston had the same idea and asked our mutual friends to allow us some time alone together. They all agreed. After writing group, he and I went to a local pizzeria. We both loved cheap pizza and beer, so we decided to have that as we talked through what was happening with our relationship. As we waited in line, I noticed that he kept trying to hold my hand. I offered it out to him, and he grabbed it with a smile on his face. It felt nice and natural for us to be holding hands. "Is this our first date?" Preston asked, his cheeks turning bright red. "Do you want it to be?" I countered, feeling the heat on my own cheeks. "I do," he said. Before he could lean in for a kiss, we were called up to order. The employee looked between us and turned his back to us. He pulled out a box and handed it to Preston, who slid some cash over. The pizza was in the shape of a heart. He claims he didn't set it up, but I have doubts. "I really like you," he said to me as we took our first slices. "I like you too," I answered. "But I thought you were straight, and I didn't want to introduce an awkwardness." "I never said that." It was the first debate of a wonderful relationship. Preston and I were not a typical couple. We found pleasure in debating one another, in pushing the other to find better arguments. And when the relationship came to its natural conclusion, there was no drama. We both admitted that we were at a juncture where if we stayed together, one would be unhappy. Which is not what either of us wanted. We chose love.
By Top stories about a year ago in Pride
