You

I'm starting to think I wasn't the problem.

Your incapability of realizing what you had when you had it was not my fault.

Your incapability of seeing that you were not a nun and you can do no wrong was not my fault.

Your incapability of knowing you were not what you thought (i.e., a victim, a good person) was not my fault.

There was far too much proof that you decided to ignore.

I hope you one day realize that you had a best friend who would have died for you, but you chose to ruin the friendship multiple times.

I hope you one day realize what you've done wrong and admit to it.

I hope you one day realize you were not a victim, nor were you a good person. When you realize this, you will become a good person; (good people know what they've done and know they had their bad moments and admit to them).

And on that day, I will gladly stop telling people you are toxic. Because until that day, that's all you will be.