Selection and direction

Life needs to make choices in many times. In fact, when you choose, it determines your direction. However, for life, is choice important or direction important? Most people will definitely choose the direction, and I am no exception.

Just influenced by the law of survival, we put ourselves in the position of imitating others, copying others and copying others, and just ignore the important point, that is, where is our potential, where is our advantage and where is our direction? Because for everyone, not everyone can be a businessman, not everyone can be a scholar, and not everyone can be an official? What is suitable for others may not be suitable for ourselves. We are a unique individual, and everyone has the value of their own existence. What we may lack most is not your efforts, but the correct understanding of ourselves and the direction we choose.

So many people in order to prove that others can do things, they can do it, so you only know to pull the car with your head down, and forget to look up ahead. Setbacks will follow because of your blind choice. The tortuous road contains the bitterness of life, and the final result is often a complete failure. Depression and confusion have become the main elements of your life. So far, the pressure of survival is increasing with your age. In the passive choice, because of the existence of wrong choice, there is no courage to make a choice, and there is no way to start with the direction of destination. Because we wasted the good time of our youth in the wrong direction, and even lost the insight and courage we should have at this age. And the unused knowledge is just to describe our gray life at the moment.

What caused such a tragedy? It's because we don't have a correct understanding of ourselves and don't find our advantage potential (of course, this advantage potential is definitely not young capital). We just try to achieve ourselves in other people's value system. This choice without direction is wrong in itself, because it ignores individual values. Always immerse yourself in the blueprint built for you by others. Maybe you know you are not good at this. You just fantasize about finding another way because of the influence of mainstream social values. When we can't go on that road, we can only choose passively. Just use quick choices to support a life of nothing and nothing. Perhaps due to the lack of reflection, another blind obedience put him on the Jedi again. The vicious cycle almost exhausted his youth without a correct understanding of himself and calm reflection on himself. The pressure of survival forces you not to stop. People's life has come to an end in this cycle.

This may not be the tragedy of one's life, but the tragedy of many people's life. Because in our childhood education, we saw countless people running to the society after leaving the campus. At the same time, they also ran to officials, businessmen and civilians. People who are tired of making a living, both within and outside the scope allowed or not allowed by law and morality, have lived in the vanity fair. A group of students followed a group of students out of the campus, competing for victory and defeat and sharing fame and wealth on the stage of life. This successive imperceptible effect is inherited in this seemingly multiple choice era. Human nature follows behind fame and wealth. Almost everyone is talking about economy and development, and the core thing is money. Money has become the only goal for people to live. In our opinion, money can fulfill all their long cherished wishes and fill all their shortcomings.

In this way, the educated and illiterate, the elderly and young, men and women, the poor and the rich are trapped in this abnormal value oriented by money. The importance of money has almost overturned the professional ethics, as well as the good part in the depths of human nature. Indifference, suspicion, fraud, etc. separate the warm trust between people. The deepest feeling of the bustling crowd is that everyone is wearing masks, but the transaction is still going on.

We think we know others, we think we know ourselves well, and we think we have insight into everything. Don't you know that the illusion of all this is only blinded by our eyes and ears, because we don't believe our hearts for a long time, because we doubt more things, which is probably influenced by money worship. For the wealth built by money, we have given up many things that were originally pure and noble, and inadvertently found that hypocrisy and ugliness have been with us for a long time.

Imagine how a person who doesn't even know himself can know others and be known by others? Morbid values create deformed individuals. When we copy a deformed strong person like you when we are weak, where will your choice and direction be? We have to reflect on ourselves, straighten out our position, tap our potential, jump our obstacles and avoid the temptation of money worship. In the diversified values, the real meaning is to let one of thousands of occupations achieve our dreams, so that we can see our own destination in a wise choice. Because in this world, thousands of people do not exist. Only thousands of people and thousands of faces are the value of our existence as a unique person. Only in this way, because different people have different meanings of living, they choose different and different directions (the choice is the cause, the direction is the result), and life can be wonderful!