Love and bread, which is more important?

Love or bread, which is more important? If you had to choose between the two, how would you choose?

Love is the fusion of two hearts, two people attached and is the most beautiful aspiration in the spiritual world.

Bread is material, money, and other real-life things that are indispensable for one's survival.

Love and bread, both are important. Because only the double satisfaction of the spiritual world and real life is real happiness.

However, many times, love and bread can not be both, can only choose one.

Some people say that it is a cruel thing to make a woman choose between love and bread. Because no matter how to choose, there may be regret.

Indeed, love is the eternal yearning of women's hearts, and life can not be separated from the economic base. Because of this, smart women in the face of this problem, often choose this way, that is: first to make a living, and then to seek love.

First make a living and then seek love, independence and self-improvement are not dependent

Now women have become more and more independent, but there are quite a few women, who still put all their hopes in men, and think that as long as they meet a man who truly loves them, the rest of their lives can be clothed and fed, happy.

Some women even for a relationship, do not hesitate to put down self-respect and pride, humble to the dust. Even if the other party repeatedly hurt her, challenging her bottom line, she has always held back. Why? Because of the fear of losing each other. To be precise is afraid of losing reliance.

In the TV series "Please call me directly", the heroine has a girlfriend, she is the kind of pure love brain, boyfriend chasing her said "I support you", she was moved, from then on peace of mind by her boyfriend to support, graduated from college a few years did not work.

When the two quarrels break up, she is superficially indifferent, her heart is particularly panicked because she does not know how she is going to live after leaving him. So, when her boyfriend took the initiative to ask for cooperation, she quickly forgave him.

What she didn't know was that her boyfriend had long betrayed her and that he was pregnant with another woman, and had bought a house for that woman. The reason why not showdown with her, is just hasn't thought about how to say it, afraid she can not bear it because she is too dependent on him.

Women, love in the first place, the man as a mountain, is an extremely risky thing, is also irresponsible to their own. You know, the mountain will fall, water will flow, people will run, only their strength is the most reliable.

Women must first make a living and then seek love. Because, only independent and self-sufficient, can not rely on it. When you do not need to rely on others can live very well, there is no need to be a commission.

First, make a living and then make love, love and bread can be obtained

Fish and bear's paw can not be both, love and bread are also the same most of the time, it is difficult to have at the same time.

The ideal object in a woman's mind, of course, is both money and love, but unfortunately, not everyone can meet such a man.

The real situation is often that the man who truly loves you, but can not afford to buy a car, can not afford to buy a house, can not get a high bride price. The man with a car and a house can afford the bride price and has no feeling of love.

The higher the cost of marriage, the cheaper the love will be. Many women have to give up love to have a lifetime of stability and happiness and choose to marry a man with better economic conditions.

The reason why this choice, the most fundamental reason is only one, their own not strong enough. If a woman is strong enough, she will not give up love because of reality.

Powerful does not mean rich, but independent-minded, strong-willed, with the ability to earn a living, and positive, confident that through the joint efforts of the two people to live a happy and beautiful life.

Really powerful women, simply do not need to make a difficult choice in front of love and bread, their concept of love is pure, sincere, and sincere, and they are willing and able to create happiness with their loved ones.

Women as long as they have the skills to make a living, and strive to improve themselves will certainly meet the right person, then, love and bread can have at the same time.

The best choice is to make a living first and then make love

Love and bread, no which is more important, are indispensable in a woman's heart. But, smart women will choose to make a living first, and then seek love. Because they know that there is no material basis for love are generally loose sand, can not blindly fall in love, and finally compromise with reality, give up love, choose bread, both hurt others, but are also tired of themselves.

The first thing you need to do is to follow your feelings and return to your senses, rather than being rational at the beginning, first try to achieve yourself, when you have enough bottom, then talk about love.

The first to make a living and then love is the real sobriety of the earth, which is also the best choice for women, but unfortunately, many women are later to understand.

As a friend said, if she did not fall in love too early, but spent time and energy investing in themselves, will not be a wedding, from then on the fate of the rewrite. Although their current life is not very bad, her ideal life is far from the heart of some resentment and regret. If you have the opportunity to start over, you will not repeat the same mistake.

Women are emotional and easily moved. There's nothing wrong with that, but it's best to think about what you want beforehand. Don't get caught up in love, lose yourself, and when you realize the problem, it's too late and you regret it.

May all women can see through live sober, especially young girls, must first make a living and then seek love, do not have a man to their good, you think to rely on. In this world, the most reliable person is always yourself.

The most sensible and correct choice is to earn your bread and love as it comes.